my husban and i have been together for over a year-in the begging thing were fine-but he still treats my kids like dogs.hes great to me-but when it comes to them, well,he doesnt spend time with them unless hes yelling or getting on to them and its constantly a tug of war 4 me. we fight about it all the time.but of course i almost always take their side.they are young and need a man to look up b/c their father aint worth a s**t.
2007-03-17 08:57:11 · 11 answers · asked by milissa h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don/t know. My own dad treats me like a dog and i'm grown.....
2007-03-17 09:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here are the reasons I think step parents treat their spouses children different. One, they aren't their biological children so they may not have as deep of feelings or emotions for that child or children... You should talk with him and let hin know how you feel. Your children are ofcourse a big part of you. It hurts when they are rejected and not treated like the other kids in the family.. Suggest that your husband and your children start spending time together doin something positive together.. Such as going to a movie, playing a game outside, or even just talking at home. Doing somethin g like playin a game, or reading a book.. Please talk to your hubby and let him know how you feel. Things need to change, as that type of atmosphere is not good for your children to be in. God Bless you! I hope things change for you soon.. If you would like to talk more on this issue, please feel free to email me.
2007-03-17 09:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by sarah a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Question? Its Because There From A Nother Man Or Women. Its All About Jealousy.
2007-03-17 09:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to tell you, but do you really want to put your children in that kind of relationship. I'm sorry but I feel that any person who gets involved with someone that has children should love those children as if it was their own, and If they can't , then they wouldn't be in my life. but the choice has to come from you. and no one else. why don't you talk to your husband and tell him how you feel how he is treating your children, they came with you and he should respect them and you.
2007-03-17 09:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There own dad is *** and so is your husband. Do not force the children on a man that is mistreating them. Email Dr. Phil.
2007-03-17 09:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does'nt treat your children right then you should'nt be with him.You should NEVER put a man above your children..If he cannot love and treat them as his own then you need to lose that loser...Best Wishes...
2007-03-17 09:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would also like to know why. My step-mom is nice to be now but before she couldn't even stand looking at us. Sometimes my dad wanted to come to pick us up to take us out to eat and she would start arguing with him and he had to go eat alone with her instead. She stole my shorts, btw. LOL
2007-03-17 09:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this one isn't either. Don't let him treat the kids like that. It's YOUR responsibility to see they are treated well and loved.
2007-03-17 09:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by DOT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they're not his kids. my step-father has a kid with my mom, and there is obvious favoritism there. this kid is 9 and is doing things i wasn't allowed to do at all as a kid. its just how life is. i've accepted it.
2007-03-17 09:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loose the loser! He is not worth your love or your childrens! goodluck and remember there is other decent men that will love you and your kids....
2007-03-17 09:12:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it's natural. if your hubby can't accept your kids for who they are then they must be something wrong with him (you said they're young right?) you should tell him that if he really loves you then he must learn to do the same for your kids
2007-03-17 09:02:54 · answer #11 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋