Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

ok....i have this huge crush on my best friend, he is a guy, ive known him forever, he tells me all his secrets as do i with him. i wish i could be his girlfriend soooo bad it hurts. i found out he thinks of me as a sister. he told my friend he wouldnt ever think of dateing me because "dateing your sister is gross" were not actually related...wat do i do to get him to like me...or should i just move on?

2007-03-17 15:29:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother and sister always yell at me for no reason. And they said I always dress like a ugly girl. And they always make my feelings hurt and make my tears come out. So what do I do to cheer myself up?

2007-03-17 15:29:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

cause i am

2007-03-17 15:28:48 · 2 answers · asked by napanee 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy who kinda likes me. well i can tell. i never talk to him because he hangs out w/ the incrowd (you know, the peeps that thinks they r cooler than evry1 else). yeh, anyway. he's funny around me and makes me laugh. none of the girls in the incrowd like me so i am 100 % considered not w/ the incrowd and thank goodness. i dont know what to do because i cant talk to him. plus i dont like him because he is sometimes mean and careless. dont tell me that i should tell him because i cant tell him. there's no way i am getting him to talk w/ me alone. trust me. plus three other guys like me and i only like 1 of them. he's really shy around me. and he's nice. but i dont want to date him. i just wanna be friends. sometimes i talk to him and he talks back. but thats it, and then he stopped sitting next to me when he started liking me. whats up with boys acting different when they like a girl. i have a friend who acts completely himself when he likes a girl. well. ansr my questons

2007-03-17 15:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with a girl named Tammy on Jan. 15 of this year and we had sex. A month later, I went on a date with a different girl named Laura and we hit it off. We have been dating ever since and things are getting serious. Today, March 17, Tammy called me to tell me she is pregnant and I'm the only one that could be the father. She is going to get an abortion. (Save your opinions on the abortion part, please.)
Should I tell my current gf about the abortion? I feel the need to be honest, but I don't want to ruin my current relationship. This has been one of the worse days of my life. Advice please! Thank you!

2007-03-17 15:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by J S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 15:28:38 · 10 answers · asked by siddu m 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never broken a promise to her and she is my best friend, but I feel I need to break my promise to get her some help. Her parents don't beat her ever! they hit her one slap across the face as a punishment for something, but never has it been more than one hit... so is it worth breaking my promise? help!

2007-03-17 15:28:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why is it when i see a show about police on CAMERA most offenders are black or hispanic.?

That is fact and fine .?
When i ask people why do blacks and hispanics cause so much crime ?
I'M RACIST
send them to hell or back home
star if i'm right

2007-03-17 15:28:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-17 15:28:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok ,we need a few chicks there. ideas?

2007-03-17 15:28:07 · 2 answers · asked by geeksquadextreme 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i went out with a couple of times just one day stopped talking to me. then one day i saw him somewhere and i said hi but he just ignored me. i know he is not interested in me anymore, i guess?? but i dont know what happened?? everything on our dates seemed to be fine. i then wrote an email to him saying that i was mad at him and that i liked him and that i considered him a friend. (no reply by the way) now if i run into him again it will be really weird!

2007-03-17 15:27:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I only have 4 people on my list. And there never on. I'd like to have more. I like talking to girls but I don't know any. My age... I'm 11.

2007-03-17 15:26:23 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew C 2 in Friends

During the 10 year course of my marriage, I've gained about 75 lbs. Not that it's an excuse but I've had 4 back to back pregnancies and spent additional years breastfeeding. I know my husband loves me but we just don't seem to connect the same way we used to, especially in the bedroom. We have plenty of opportunity but he always says he's too tired. He says my weight doesn't matter to him, but I think it does. I'm just wondering if anyone has insight on this sensitive issue. Please keep the fat jokes to yourself since my self esteem is already running low. I especially welcome answers from men. Thanks.

2007-03-17 15:26:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with my boyfriend last night and i guess i didnt realize what i had until it was gone. i talked to him today and explained to him how i felt that he wasnt giving me the respect i wanted. my friends all think i deserve better. we agreed to be just friends but now i cannot stop crying. is it just me or is something wrong with this picture? what should i do?

2007-03-17 15:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by tiffany 1 in Singles & Dating

ok see im in the 7th grade and theres this guy i like he said a while ago that he didnt like me ... im not sure if he still doesnt but if he doesnt should i move on or should i try to impress him to make me like him... HELP!!!

2007-03-17 15:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by cherrrybm101 3 in Singles & Dating

well i believe that family should always come first( blood is thicker than water right?) okay so last month i did not tell my best gal friend something and she got mad. this was suppossed to be about a private family ceremony for my bro. I promised i wd not tell and she got mad cuz she ended up finding about the ceremony thru her mom who found out thru someone else, so when should u draw the line about stuff u want ur friends to know cuz i think that if its a family affair they dnt always need to know, now correct me if im wrong here
help were do u draw the line cuz u are supposed to be able to talk about anyting to ur bestfriend right.

2007-03-17 15:25:08 · 14 answers · asked by Bluey07 5 in Friends

please anser this question?!!!!!........

2007-03-17 15:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is SO competitive in everything from arguments over nothing that mount in to mountains if I say anything, to playing family games - if he's losing he gets mad and then quits! I have tried laughing, I have tried keeping my mouth shut. I have gotten angry and then it's really escalated. A few times in the past he was very disrespectful to me in front of his kids. It's as if he has to show me he is in control. His ex-wife wore the pants in the previous marriage. I tell & show him appreciation, shower him with gifts, etc. and try my best to show him I love him. I have learned to keep my mouth shut and put up with his kids disrespect, having no rules, no responsibilities and being allowed to trash the house. They have no respect for him and none for me. I love my husband, but the stress of the ex-wife's interference (which does seem to be less at times) and the behavior of the kids is almost more than I can bear. ANY suggestions would be most welcomed. Thank you.

2007-03-17 15:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by japanizationstation1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my avlar is not here and i don't know what to do

2007-03-17 15:24:50 · 3 answers · asked by sam l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really want to ask him to be my bf but how should i?by phone?face to face?

2007-03-17 15:24:47 · 20 answers · asked by Karen S 1 in Singles & Dating

in 5th grade I was playing basketball and this boy i kind of liked said hey come here and I said ok and nobody saw us and he gave me a tiny peck on the cheak and I was like ok and I was like wanna play basketabll and he said sure and he grabbed me real quick and start kissing me and I freaked out when he stuck his tonge in my mouth and he almost stuck all his tonge and I freaked out and ran on the basketball court and acted like it never happened so........What was the most disgusting kiss you ever had??

2007-03-17 15:24:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy i like lives in ohio and i live im new hampshire what to do

2007-03-17 15:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-17 15:24:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do I call them? They call me Gorgeous, Babe, Darling, Hunni.. What do guys like to be called? hellllp

2007-03-17 15:23:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

jw!! i LOVE cuddling!

2007-03-17 15:23:02 · 9 answers · asked by mickey 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for about 6months an are sex drive is gone way day. WHAT IS THE DEAL

2007-03-17 15:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by lil_jelly2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

more agressive? I'm not talking about yelling and all that.
The thing is he acts so young. Sometimes too young, but I love him still.
How can I get him to stop being so whipped!
Everytime I say "where do you want to go out?" he says "wherever you want"
and if I ask "what movie do you want to see?"
he says "whatever one you want"
I want him to have his own opinion and take his own side and disagree sometimes!
I feel like I'm running the relationship and I just want him to be more manly and rough with me, not so soft and delicate.
should I just tell him about this?
help!

2007-03-17 15:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

for years, i was best friends with two girls, "amy" and "lena". then i met "tim". he's amazing and my best guy friend in the world. amy and lena HATED him. every day there were outright mean to him, and they eventually even went so far as to send me emails saying that i'd be "be like drunk and raped in the back of his car" if we got close.

the thing is, amy and lena were wrong. tim is still one of my best friends and they aren't because of all the stupid crap they pulled with him and my other friends. he knows that they never liked him and it has come up more than a few times. at one point (back when we liked each other as more than friends) it was the only thing that kepts us apart.

i feel HORRIBLE for not ever really standing up for tim. do i need to apologize to him for it now, even though all this happened a year ago? do i need to forgive amy and lena? how do i do that? every time i see them, i can't help but get mad at them for being so horribly mean to my best guy friend.

2007-03-17 15:22:22 · 5 answers · asked by juliiii 2 in Friends

Yeah I'm kinda having a problem. You know Dwayne from Little Miss Sunshine? Well, I requested him to be my friend and all of that happy stuff, and he requested me to be his friend also. I have sent Dwayne 1 message, and after that I haven't got anything from him yet. Can somebody please help me? I must know what's right for me!

2007-03-17 15:22:06 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

Okay Basically im 16, 5'7 and weigh 208 pounds
i was pretty much 100 pounds lighter 1 year ago, i was told i was very attractive then but about 6 months ago, i just fell inlove with food. i eat it all the time i go to mcdonalds for dinner nearly every night of the week, i know ive put on alot of weight but i everytme i look at myself in the mirror i dont seem to care because i am that much inlove with food, so i dont care if i get any bigger. i have thought about losing weight but im just not bothered. Should i just keep doing this? What Do i do about it?

2007-03-17 15:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by Jen I 1 in Singles & Dating