Family & Relationships - 17 March 2007

2007-03-17 16:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by Wenza B 2 in Friends

I am 20, in the second half of my second year of college, and currently am going to school out of state.

After this semester, I will return to living with my parents, as I have for every other semester in college.

I have realized in my first semster away from home that I use my family as a crutch to make up for an actual social life. Basically, I commute to school, go to class, commute home, and spend my time with my family. Any friends I hang out with are friends from high school, and encounters with them are few and far between.

I have discussed moving out with my folks, but they strongly believe that doing so would require me to get a job which would jeopardize my studies. I disagree, since I have worked 30 hour weeks with a full courseload, but have not yet found a job that can support both my tuition and an apartment.

I am afraid of missing out on life because I use my family as a shield from a real college experience. What do you think, is it time to move out?

2007-03-17 16:04:59 · 9 answers · asked by buggin 1 in Family

I am goin out with this guy whos amazing!!!
but iam 14 and my parents wont let me see him
with out a person 2 watch us
how do i talk them out of it???

2007-03-17 16:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by *~Filthy Gorgeous~* 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy at work. He started out giving me advice on a dead beat ex-boyfriend. He encouraged me to get rid of him. He's married to a woman 11 yrs older than him and they have a young child. I am 5 yrs younger than him.

He proposistioned a sexual relationship with me after a group of us from the job hung out together at a club. The relationship started out purely sexual until he dropped the "L" bomb after 5 months. He gave me 3 different dates that he intended to leave his wife. It never happened. Now he's claiming it's going to happen in April.

I find that I can't trust anything he says. I'm trying so hard to pull myself away from him but I can't seem to stick it out for long. I don't know if I should stick it out and see what happens, or leave this "relationship" alone. If he does leave his wife, can I ever trust him to be faithful to me?

HELP!

2007-03-17 16:04:51 · 23 answers · asked by Ins2 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

does it build your relationship and bring you closer to the person you love or is it just fun? or is there just some kind of amazing force of something that makes you so happy?

2007-03-17 16:04:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

want exackly does a man like about a woman? do they mind if the woman has a little extra baggage (ex:179lbs) ? or do they perferr to have the really skiny??

2007-03-17 16:04:42 · 9 answers · asked by D baby 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 16:04:28 · 6 answers · asked by blacktiger 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so i think about this one guy alot idk him great but i think he is kinda cute the other night i was constantly thinking about him ... i mean then today he like couldnt hang out w/ me but i wasnt dissappointed do you think i like him or what i cant figure it out

2007-03-17 16:04:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok yea so what should i do he is really sweet and kind met him on neopets.com

2007-03-17 16:04:09 · 21 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pretty much positive he didnt know that it wasnt real....I dont think he would give it to me if it was fake because he got me a bunch of like...expensive jewelry before but he got really excited giving this to me because i guess...he paid a lot of money for it but im not sure, but i know its not real ...or what he said it was and so should i tell him? in case he got ripped off...or should i just pretend it is real, cause i mean i like it but its not what he said it was....like its 10k not white gold so that makes the diamonds fake too... should i tell him? Thanks

2007-03-17 16:04:05 · 24 answers · asked by Olga 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im good friends with this guy but we got into a lil argument baout something stupid (trust issues) and now were fine but last time i talked to him was friday night (and now its sat night) we used to talk every day, several times.
when we talked on friday we were sort of dissing each other.
should i call him? or wait and let him call me?

thanx in advance!

2007-03-17 16:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my true love broke up and were gonna get back together but my bestfriend got in the way with her DD boobs and is now dating him to make me jelouse. She always makes out with him infront of me because she knows it breaks my heart!! Is she a slut or is it just me?!?!?!?!

2007-03-17 16:03:29 · 2 answers · asked by destiny e 1 in Friends

Me and my true love broke up and were gonna get back together but my bestfriend got in the way with her DD boobs and is now dating him to make me jelouse. She always makes out with him infront of me because she knows it breaks my heart!! Is she a slut or is it just me?!?!?!?!

2007-03-17 16:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by destiny e 1 in Friends

Ok as simple as possible, one guy...two girlfriends. One he lasts a long time with on occasion, the other his sessions are short, regardless of how many sessions a night, he just seems to come quickly. Now please explain, why is it like this , is he more attracted to one than the other? I would like to think the sessions that end quickly are the ones where he's turned on the most, but you guys are hard to figure out sometimes. Any help or insight is much appreciated~Cheers

2007-03-17 16:03:19 · 2 answers · asked by sunkissed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 16:02:31 · 11 answers · asked by Andrea M 1 in Friends

So I now like my ex-boyfriend's good friend. They are not best friends but are pretty close. They sit at the same lunch table and everything so they are pretty tight. I went out with my ex for two weeks then I broke up with him. Everyone at school knew about it and I didn't like him all that much, just desperate for a 1st boyfriend, I guess. I know that sounds mean but whatever. Anyway, I am in 8th grade and he is a few weeks older than me so we are close in age, and I really like him. My ex and I weren't serious, just hugging. No kissing or anything like that. The guy I like now used to have a girlfriend, but now he is single and he went out with her for way longer and we have been flirting a lot lately. So he calls me "Bloody" Mary in a teasing sort of way. Since my ex and I weren't serious do you think he would ever date me? I told the whole school I didn't really like my ex. He probably heard. We make eye contact often and smile.Please answer this time because last time I got 0!

2007-03-17 16:02:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I am sick of having to live, having to work.

For those who really don't understand, let me clarify:

I was abused religiously growing up.
I was abused verbally.
I almost got raped when I am 10 by 2 black ladies.

I got a girlfriend later, found out after 4 years, it's all lies.
I got a 2cd girlfriend, who scammed me for all I had.
I got a 3rd girl, who tried to use me to support her drug habit.

So now, I have hit almost rick bottom.
I find it hard to believe in women or anyone any more.
I am depressed with life.

I hate work.
I hate living.
I hate everything.

Why should I work another day?
Wasting my life away?
All work, no play?

Don't have time to do anything else.
Got ruined by the other girls.
Who took my car, money, my life, I was saving, hoping for marriage, a happy family one day...

Why, why, why?
Living is torturous now.
Good does not exist.

Only evil is in the world.
I wish to die.
I hate myself now.

Life is boring,
hard,
impossible...

Why don't I just die?

2007-03-17 16:01:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The lady is separate for seven months, bbut want to marry again because she is 1 month pregnant. Is it legal?

2007-03-17 16:01:32 · 7 answers · asked by erickson d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 11

2007-03-17 16:01:32 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so im dating this guy who i really like and he says he really likes me...well he said he ran into his ex who is a couple years younger then us...anyways he said that when he got home she started calling him....he thinks she might still have a thing for him but he reassured me that he was very happy with me and that he wouldn't let her do anything...what should i do? we are sophmores in high school and shes an 8th grader

2007-03-17 16:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

had an affair on me. We are seperated but I see him and talk to him everyday because we share custody of our 2 year daugther. I think if I'm not around him and see him that I can easily get over him and move on with my life. How do I do that when we have a child together?

2007-03-17 15:59:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well she came up to me and grabbed both of my boobs and ran away and start laughing and she never been so weird in my life why do u think she did that

2007-03-17 15:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-17 15:59:17 · 29 answers · asked by MaryBeth 7 in Friends

well my boyfriend boued money from my friend last week. well i talked to him today and he tells me that he isn't planning on paying her back. also i think that he stoled my $10. im not sure but i think he did. what should i do??? should i break up with him for that or what???

2007-03-17 15:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by tamara5646 2 in Singles & Dating

so i frequently go to this one restaurant-type place... and i go there about once every 1-2 weeks usually.. and there is this guy who works there and the first time i went there he was smiling at me and stuff and i figured it meant nothing really and he would never remember My face out of all the girls that come in there.. but the next time i came in there was like 3 weeks later actually and the second he saw me a smile lit up his face and then the last time i went in there he kept smiling at me and looking at me like 10 times (not Just a Double-glance, haha) but he never gets the chance to actually like Talk to me or anything since he's working and stuff.. but i'm just wondering if it's possible that Anything could ever happen with this.. or if it means Anything at all.. i've just been thinking about it and was just curious.. :) so any opinions.. or stories on any of you that have met your bf at unusual places like this or something..

2007-03-17 15:57:41 · 4 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-17 15:57:11 · 2 answers · asked by cierra c 1 in Singles & Dating

Almost every girls i ask out says"we're to good friends". me and my friends get this and we're tired of it! Is there anyway that me and girls could "not" be such good friends? And are girls just saying that so they can say no and not hurt my feelings?

2007-03-17 15:57:09 · 18 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Singles & Dating

None of you need a relationship, most will die out within a few months. Even if you do, and you get married, you just live as spouces, there's no such thing as "love"...just lust. And face it, most of my gender, wants girls for sex, not "love". And girls are fooled into thinking most boys want more than that.

So...please user's...take my advice...give up on the human race. And don't even try to "share" your life with others.

2007-03-17 15:56:43 · 6 answers · asked by ThemusicalArtist 1 in Singles & Dating

He started flirting with me awhile ago and we started to talk about everything, even having a relationship with eachother.

We're practicaly going out by "assuming" But theres like no way to prove it.
When ever we're by eachother I can feel tention in the air and Im kinda nervous to make the first move but I really want to!

What could I do that will prove that we are in a relationship?
I dont want to tell my friends that Im dating him then have him turn around and say why are you telling ppl this? So its like what do I do?!?!? lol

2007-03-17 15:56:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mother friend gave my sister 15 dollars to pet sit her dog
every since the dog been at our house she has never really been taking care of him,Me and my little brother has,

so a while ago we was fussing and she said my mother said she let the dog come over for all of us to play with
so since all of us taking care of him its fair that we all split the money

2007-03-17 15:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by 100%Lovable 3 in Family