I am goin out with this guy whos amazing!!!
but iam 14 and my parents wont let me see him
with out a person 2 watch us
how do i talk them out of it???
2007-03-17 16:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by *~Filthy Gorgeous~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im the same age and after i was going out with my (ex) boyfriend for a long time they relized they couldnt stop me from seeing him
and when they wouldnt let me i would say i was walking to my friends but i would go to the park to c him
try somthing like that
2007-03-17 16:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, ease up!
Look, you're 14. This is not true love. Why do you need to be alone with him? Fine, I get that having an adult hovering over your shoulder can be really annoying, but they love you and don't want anything to happen to you. Reassure them, saty safe, and dont go out alone. Got out with a group of friends (most parents are okay with that) and DON'T LIE. That is a reallreally stupid thing to do. Parents (good ones) have a sort of radar that can detect when their kid is lying. They'll know something is wrong and won't trust you. So don't. Have them meet this guy so they can get to know him, and so that they can see or not if they can trust him with their daughter. They just want what's best for you. Don't resent that.
2007-03-17 23:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 15 and i had the same problem when i was 13 but i made a plan for him to come on a weekend trip with us(u could even do a dinner at your house) he showed my parents that he was a really responsible guy and that he wanted more than to just get into my pants...if that is what ur parents are worried about.
try it and show them that u guys are a responsible couple
hope i can be of help
2007-03-17 23:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by JESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a mother of 2 children.....I know where your ma and pa are coming from. I did a lot of stupid things at your age and they probaly did the same and they just want to protect you. At fourteen I am sure you think you are in love and maybe you are but you are very young and you'll understand when you have children one day. Maybe he can come over to watch a movie or get dropped off at a movie or to a restaurant.
2007-03-17 23:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by rebekah o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a place were there a lots of people and invite your friends, like a movie, and dont mention to your parents hes coming unless they ask. then while your friend are preocuupied seperate yourselfs. but make sure to stay close so that you do not lose them. but far away enough to talk (or other things)
2007-03-17 23:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by billybobjo4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you don 't need to talk you parents out of this one. You will have plenty of time to be all alone with boys. Just relax and take in the moment and try not to be anxious to speeed things up in life.
2007-03-17 23:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Challenge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't...they feel as they do for a reason...when you are a parent, you'll agree with them...trust 'em...they've been 14 before, they know how it works.
2007-03-17 23:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You blame your parents. You say they are lame or whatever. Blame them them so you don't look bad. I have 2 teenagers when ever they don't want to look bad in front of their friends I tell them to blame me. It's worked so far...try it
2007-03-17 23:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lyric J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't your 14 you don't know any better listen to your parents you will be thankful in the long run
2007-03-17 23:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
listen to him!! I am 14 and I'm not even aloud to date cause my parents are very strict but they both Love me!!
2007-03-17 23:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by destiny e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋