question just for the guys.....?

Question

Ok as simple as possible, one guy...two girlfriends. One he lasts a long time with on occasion, the other his sessions are short, regardless of how many sessions a night, he just seems to come quickly. Now please explain, why is it like this , is he more attracted to one than the other? I would like to think the sessions that end quickly are the ones where he's turned on the most, but you guys are hard to figure out sometimes. Any help or insight is much appreciated~Cheers

Yes I did ask this question already, I knew that was going to be pointed out. I wanted to post again but at night, thought I might get some different more diversified answers, and some new opinions

Answer 1

So many possible reasons...physically, it could be related to tightness, position, level of arousal, tiredness (yep, we come quicker then, too)...emotionally, he may (in fact, probably) feel a different bond with each. Erotic arousal is not always related to emotional bonding - which is why many guys cheat on their wives, but don't leave them. Sometimes, we come faster when we're more turned on...sometimes, we try harder - and last longer. Sometimes, being nervous can help extend the performance, and sometimes it makes it shorter.

And if you think this is confusing, just think how it is to be the guy - we don't know how well the equipment is going to operate, either!

Answer 2

haven't you asked this before? it's just a matter of how it's done...ex: position, location, tightness, arousal levels. that's what affects length of time. tell him to use a desensitizing condom next time...he'll last longer.