Almost every girls i ask out says"we're to good friends". me and my friends get this and we're tired of it! Is there anyway that me and girls could "not" be such good friends? And are girls just saying that so they can say no and not hurt my feelings?
2007-03-17 15:57:09 · 18 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats right they are saying that not to hurt your feeling . be grateful son . you have good enough friends to not hurt your feeling . son this is a cold cold world . just take it slow and you will find that special one , i promise , good luck
2007-03-17 16:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If your under 17 don't worry too much about it, as time goes on they may realize that a friend is who they should date. Unfortunately its usually too late and you've already found someone else. It is possible they say this to avoid hurting you and you should be grateful they do it this way...would you rather be crushed with a flat out " not in a million years!" Concentrate on school or whatever else is important in your life right now...all the pieces will fall into place with time.
2007-03-17 23:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! here is the answer!
when u like a girl u can't become her friend cuz the girl is gonna ask u things about other guys that she likes! so if u start liking a girl akt a little different around them!
most girls don't like showoffing guys !
u just akt nicer than beore!
like when they exit open the door for them!
try to create a conversation with them! and don't let her see u talking to the other girls the same way u talk to her! u have to be different around her! just don't be like a friend!!
and if she respects u back and she is being nice then ask her out! if she sayd no it's fine as long as u become friends with her after! then she might like u after ur friends! if u notice she does then make ur relationship with her stronger and more open and soon u will be dating her! hope this helps ur problem!<3
2007-03-17 23:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a possibility they are saying this to not hurt your feelings. But it is also likely that they are truly your friends and can't envision a different type of relationship. Do you become friends with girls you would like to date?
What you need to do is ask girls out before you become close friends inthe hopes that that friendship will develop within a loving relationship. it will mean you have to take a greater chance when you ask a girl out. But you obviously have something in you girls like if they like to talk to you and be your friend. You have to show them you are boyfriend material before they pigeonhole you into the 'he's like a brother' role.
good luck. It takes the right girl at the right time and BAM. magic time.
2007-03-17 23:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by trinitybelwoodspark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are in a relationship with a friend, you pretty much have to make it work. It is a lose-lose situations half the time because if you break up with her, you mar the normal friendship permanently (generally), and if you stick with her, you are stuck with her always fearing what would happen if you did break up. Just find the girl who you know is the right one and you absolutely want to spend your life with. It's hard, but it will pay off in the end.
2007-03-17 23:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Isabela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are saying that not to hurt your feelings but that doesn't mean they do not like you ..they do want to be friends and remain friends..they do not want to take it any further and that is a polite way of saying it in girl talk... ask a girl out that you are not friends with at all..she won't be able to say that
2007-03-17 23:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by connie b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha I know just how you feel man. Happened to me so many times. What I did was I just ignored those girls that didn't want anything to do with me they just wanted to be "friends". I just forgot them and kept looking for other girls and pretty soon you will find one that won't be a "friend" they will want more then that but yeah when they say they just want to be friends they don't like you. I realized that myself so yeah jsut look for other girls to go out with.
2007-03-17 23:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by David M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably dont want to hurt ur feelings or ur too good at being friends with girls! try not to become like a brother to them but as a guy who could be somthing more. mayb u havent met the right preson. hope this helps!
2007-03-17 23:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...since all of u are friends, there's no use 2 go on dates becuz u already know 2 much of each other. Get other guys 2 date w/ and ur friends as well.
2007-03-17 23:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell them u u want 2 be more then just friends,then ask her out after she gives u an answer but if u say it after ur speech she will say no because u are in a hurry.
2007-03-17 23:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋