well my boyfriend boued money from my friend last week. well i talked to him today and he tells me that he isn't planning on paying her back. also i think that he stoled my $10. im not sure but i think he did. what should i do??? should i break up with him for that or what???
2007-03-17 15:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by tamara5646 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did not see him take your money so that is not the right thing to base a decision on.
Your friend gave him the money and although she is your friend the business is between the two of them.
Now about your boyfriend the money borrower might have some issues to deal with.
So pay close attention to his character and why it is that he is always short of money and base your decision on that.
2007-03-25 15:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! You cant expect for your boyfriend to steal from you and your friend and just be kewl with it! If its just little stuff like that now in the future it could be bigger things like cars, stereos, and MORE! You have three choices... #1 break it off. I mean he stole money! and from you! #2 Talk to him about it. Try to change him, if he really cares he will change. #3 Find out for sure, and debate whether or not what to do. I mean its kind of sad if you even have thoughts of him stealing. Not trying to be mean about it or anything!
Hearts&&Hearts
Emma
2007-03-17 16:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??he loves money or does he love u??if he was a true bf and loved u,of course he will follow what u tell him to do,your boy needs a serious conversation with you,maybe he thinks your playfull and that he does not take things seriously,its time for you to be serious with him,another fact is,he is keeping you as a gf because he wants to use up all your money,give him a last conversation,and if he still refuses to pay,then you will have to break off with him,its the only way,if you dont,you will lead into alot of trouble in the future
hope that helps!
best of luck!
elsa :)
2007-03-17 16:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is causing great problems for you yea break up with him. But if its something you think you can fix than do and your boy friend is probaly crying out for help. Show all these other women when there is a problem with your man you are there to fix it. You are is woman, if you neglect him now the problem will probaly never get fixed if he was in another relationship like i said just look out for ya man.
Dis ya gurl Nirra
2007-03-25 15:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nirra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you even considered he may have stolen from you, and you have heard from him that he won't be paying your friend back, I would say that you need to ask yourself how important trust is to you in ANY relationship...once you answer that question, you'll have the answer to whether or not you should break up with him.
2007-03-25 15:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find out for sure if he stole your money and you should tell him that you'll break up with him if he doesn't pay your friend back
2007-03-25 15:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Evelyna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely; break it off with him! He's irresponsible and NOT trust-worthy. He's also just using you and your friend. Tell him take a hike. You deserve better; don't ya think?
2007-03-25 16:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definetly if you think he stole your money and he said that he wouldnt pay your friend back he is obviously in love with money not you
2007-03-25 06:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by ricanbonita04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! break up with him if he is jacking ur money and ur friend's . . . before it gets worse. there r better guys out there for u. hope this helps!
2007-03-17 16:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should break up with him. find one that has money.
2007-03-17 16:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by MILF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋