Okay so im dating this guy who i really like and he says he really likes me...well he said he ran into his ex who is a couple years younger then us...anyways he said that when he got home she started calling him....he thinks she might still have a thing for him but he reassured me that he was very happy with me and that he wouldn't let her do anything...what should i do? we are sophmores in high school and shes an 8th grader
2007-03-17 16:00:26 · 14 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wonder why he even told you this... seems a bit curious to me. I dont think high school boys have the capacity for monogamy and comittment.... its just not in their nature... faced with a bunch of interested girls, its like a kid in a candy store, they want to taste everything.
2007-03-17 16:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Become a jealous fiend crazed w/ anxiety!
Then go around asking for help on the situation from total strangers with only half of the story!
That is a fool proof way to fix this situation.
2007-03-17 23:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the guy deal w/ this and u just support him. Dont go after the grl. It's much more easier 4 the grl 2 leave the guy when the guy tell her there's nothing more 4 him and her in the future
2007-03-17 23:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im the same age as you, and went through a simaliar situation, just remember shes a freaking little eighth grader, and next year she'll be a freshman, you have major seniority, you could kick her ***, and and the only reason i would worry would be if you guys seem to grow apart, then worry, but for now it seems your relationship is fine
2007-03-17 23:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by rawr! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to get too wrapped up in the relationship no matter what he does. You two have plenty of years later on if it is meant to work out.
2007-03-17 23:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just talk to him about it but not to much to make it seem like your needy. and she is in 8th grade she IS needy so u don't have anything to worry about...maybe even have him talk to her about u two if hes a really good guy he will.
hope i can be help
2007-03-17 23:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by JESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he's serious with you, he'll stop talking to her on the phone. Men only hang on to ex's for one reason--too boost their ego. No way!
2007-03-17 23:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should he like an 8th grader over you?! ha. nah, i doubt he does... and if he chooses her, just move on.. theres always better fish in the sea :)
2007-03-17 23:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his word for it for now. If he's not telling you the truth, you'll notice a change in his behavior towards you.
2007-03-17 23:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and hold on to your man
2007-03-17 23:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋