ok yea so what should i do he is really sweet and kind met him on neopets.com
2007-03-17 16:04:09 · 21 answers · asked by Niki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's still someone on the internet. You cannot trust every word that they say really. I have dated people online and was hurt terribly. Please, be careful. I don't know how young you are. I don't know if you are 12 as well or if you are older; however, someone that is 12 years old is still very young and really shouldn't be worrying about having some serious relationship. It's better to wait until you can see someone in person. He may be the sweetest person in the world, but he may also be telling a lie to you. If you gut says something isn't right, trust your gut. If you actual decide to get into a relationship with this guy, tell an adult about it. I know that may sound strange, but I'm speaking from experience. I'm sure your parents care about you. Tell them what is going on in your life. Let someone know because if you are doing nothing wrong, you have nothing to hide. Above all, be careful. Remember, he is just someone online and you cannot see him.
2007-03-17 16:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your older than him like by 3 years then i would say don't take it any further than friends online
but you can't be sure he is even telling you the truth he might say he is twelve but he might really be a 48 year old sicko just trying to con young people into doing something that should not be done
do not give him your real name or any information regarding your home
address, phone number, etc. but I'm sure already know all that...just be careful
and in my opinion online relationships never end well the guy may seem nice but then you meet him in person and he might try to kill you or something or he could even be really abusive
my grandmother met her husband that way and he is such an asshole to her he makes fun of her in front of her own family he is really possessive and won't let her visit her family when she does see us she always says i can only stay a minute and then i have to get home before my husband does
so that is just an example of what happened with my grandmother she is 50
just be really careful
good luck
2007-03-17 23:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your around the age of 12 also, or even still in school you should have bigger things to worry about than dating. Live life and enjoy the time that you have now. Have lots of guy friends but don't tie yourself down with just one person. If you start a pattern of needing a boy at your age you will become needy and vulnerable and have your heart broken 12 times by the time you graduate high school. Wait until the boys and yourself grow up and learn what life is all about before you start worrying about a boy.
2007-03-17 23:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by medicfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meeting someone online is always fun, but you have to be careful. Its very possible that the guy is 12 years old, but you can never be sure that it may be someone older. I would suggest that you talk to him on the phone. And if you ever choose to meet, go with a couple of your friends, in a place with a lot of people. Just to be safe.
2007-03-17 23:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by justathought 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I love Neopets ;) YEAH! I'm MistressMiz on there if ya wanna buddy up.
Anyways -- I'd have to cut it off with him or just remain friendly. If you're over 18 it can be considered a crime to sexually lure or talk sexual with this person. Do not obtian any racy photos from them either as it can be considered child pornography. Some people who are adults can also trick people into believing they are younger people online to lure them. Becareful. See cybertipline.org they might have some good information on the subject. ;)
2007-03-17 23:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should not trust anybody on line. Do you know why? The reason why you should not is because they might not be so nice when you meet them and he might do some terrible things to you that your parents wont like. Plus he might not even be 12 for all you know or even me! So if you are smart you would not chat with him anymore.
2007-03-17 23:12:10 · answer #6 · answered by pdsrtt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless ouy're a freakpervert, let him know that although you are flattered, you need to wait until he is at least 18 and by then he will probably have moved on; and more than likely you will to.
2007-03-17 23:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, never trust people on the internet, its not safe, only if you met him before in person, then you guys can chat it up or hang, but internet is most unsafe thing.
2007-03-17 23:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by MarinaMCR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont date him.
Dont date over the interent.
He can be lying about everything.
I think you know better.
It isnt going to do anything.
I dont believe in long distance relationships.
Thry're useless to me.
Theres no point.
2007-03-17 23:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by glamourous_aspen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a similar age, I would avoid meeting boys on the internet.... you dont know that they arent really middle aged perverts. Show his messages to your mother.
2007-03-17 23:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋