there is this boy who kinda likes me. well i can tell. i never talk to him because he hangs out w/ the incrowd (you know, the peeps that thinks they r cooler than evry1 else). yeh, anyway. he's funny around me and makes me laugh. none of the girls in the incrowd like me so i am 100 % considered not w/ the incrowd and thank goodness. i dont know what to do because i cant talk to him. plus i dont like him because he is sometimes mean and careless. dont tell me that i should tell him because i cant tell him. there's no way i am getting him to talk w/ me alone. trust me. plus three other guys like me and i only like 1 of them. he's really shy around me. and he's nice. but i dont want to date him. i just wanna be friends. sometimes i talk to him and he talks back. but thats it, and then he stopped sitting next to me when he started liking me. whats up with boys acting different when they like a girl. i have a friend who acts completely himself when he likes a girl. well. ansr my questons
2007-03-17 15:28:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U are just as good as the incrowd, so just jump right in and start talking to him and dont be shy, they are no better than
anyone else, so go for it and stop being shy, speak up, call him up
2007-03-17 16:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's with the incrowd-u're not. He talks to u when his friends aren't around, & won't talk to u when they r. That's no way for a guy to treat a girl, u deserve better. U like him, but u don't like him 'cuz he's mean! Make up ur mind. U're too confused to know what u want- stay away from him, he's no good for u, whereas @ least 1 of the other guys does like u, give him a chance- u might just like him, too.
2007-03-17 22:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by louise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Unless he personally hints anything, don't do anything about it.
2. I've been in your situation before, and I hated it. The number one rule is to NOT lead any guy on to thinking you're interested. That just makes matters worse. Like I said before, unless any of them hint anything to you [For example: telling you :] ], don't worry about it. If they DO tell you, just nicely say something like "I really like you, but I just don't see us going out." DON'T apologize.
I hope that helped! :]
2007-03-17 22:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by JessWasNotHere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to. What are they????
2007-03-17 22:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋