i broke up with my boyfriend last night and i guess i didnt realize what i had until it was gone. i talked to him today and explained to him how i felt that he wasnt giving me the respect i wanted. my friends all think i deserve better. we agreed to be just friends but now i cannot stop crying. is it just me or is something wrong with this picture? what should i do?
2007-03-17 15:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by tiffany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing's wrong with u. u just need time to heal..the first days after the breakup are the most painful ones. but u guys are still friends. so just see how that works out. if u still can't help it, then talk to him, tell him how u feel about ur relationship, and then u guys try to work it out. maybe working it out means u getting together again, but then again, it might also mean that u guys should have no connection at all with each other. but as of now, enjoy still enjoy being his friend.
2007-03-17 15:36:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing literally wrong with you but you said it yourself, you didn't know what you had until it was gone. What you should really ask yourself is, WHAT did you really have? I mean if your friends are telling you that you deserve better it must be for a reason, when we(guys and woman) are in relationships we are not fully capable of seeing what's right in front of us. Your friends are more than likely seeing something that you can't see because you are blinded by your feelings. Plus from personal experience I can assure you that being friends with your ex will not work out too well in the long run because eventually one of you will move on and seeing the other person with someone else will end up hurting more than just walking away. Distance and time are usually the best medicines for a heart ache.
2007-03-17 15:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by calichicka852003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal to cry over a break-up,I assume you loved him, and you''re missing him.
Friends & family do not want you hurt. I've been there, so I broke up with my ex,after I've had enough of hearing constant voices of family and friends in my ears telling me I could do better. I was always running to them with the same problems, and I felt stupid to still do. When I did break up, I spent a few yrs not having anymore serious relationships. Obviously, I remained heartbroken for a long bit, and spent my days wondering if I did the right thing, did I do it for me or for others?
Eventually, I met a good guy , we clicked and we're happily married.
I concluded that there are indeed other guys who could treat women better, but you don't let them slip when you see them. And even If I'd stayed on with my ex, i knew I would hve left one day anyway, bcoz what I hve now is the best thing.
By the way, in what way is he disrespecting you, bcoz some things can be forgiven and some things you can't accept.
Maybe you should stay away from each other for a while, and ask him to figure out if he still want you, he better straighten out, or you will walk out!
Good Luck!
2007-03-17 15:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I broke up with my ex boyfriend about a month ago. We were together for over a year, and it hurt so bad. I cried like crazy. My friends also think that I deserve better. But here's the thing..you only did what you felt was right. It hurt to break up with him, because you were used to him being around for cuddles and kisses. Things get better. I promise. A month later, I am doing fine. You will do just fine, too.
2007-03-17 15:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by How could I have burned paradise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 07:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you were just mad at the point and didnt kno what to do so you just broke up with him without relizing how much you love him<3
or
you really do deserve better and you broke up with him.
but now all you need is time until you acutally meet the perfect guy who will treat you right with 100% respect and he will love you.
so just give it some time
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2007-03-17 15:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by fruityspots:] 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just guilt and having second thoughts. You guys probably had something special but the fire just isn't there anymore. This is probably normal and might last a while.
Good luck! ;-)
2007-03-17 15:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letting go usually does hurt, even when what you're letting go of is not good for you. Give it time and you'll be better off.
2007-03-17 15:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a reason you broke up with him.try to solve the reason and ask him again.then if he blows you away,get on with your life.just get someone else,because i bet thats what he doing.
2007-03-17 15:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to ur house, kiss him like u never have kissed a guy before, and then bang him till the sun comes up.
2007-03-17 15:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica M 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋