ok....i have this huge crush on my best friend, he is a guy, ive known him forever, he tells me all his secrets as do i with him. i wish i could be his girlfriend soooo bad it hurts. i found out he thinks of me as a sister. he told my friend he wouldnt ever think of dateing me because "dateing your sister is gross" were not actually related...wat do i do to get him to like me...or should i just move on?
2007-03-17 15:29:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continue to be yourself! I've know this one guy, in fact he is my god-brother. Our dads were best friends, so our families were always in contact with each other. A few months ago he told me how he felt about me...I will admit that it was kinda strange at first cuz I looked at him as an older brother and nothing more. I never thought that he would be interested in someone like me, but I was wrong! I decided to give it a chance cuz I didn't want to have to think about what could have been. I was worried about what others would say about our relationship because he was my god-brother, but he kept telling me that it doesn't matter cuz we are not related. I said all that to say that, even though things may not be working out the way you hope, I'm sure that if you continue to be yourself he will come around and see you how special you are. Try not to force yourself or the situation on him cuz that will only turn him off. Be patient cuz good things always comes to those who wait! Good luck.
2007-03-17 15:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. I had a guy start to like me when I looked at him as a brother. I actully said "gross" but the real truth is and you read this real careful. The real truth is I did not find him romantically attractive so in order to stay cool; I talked and viewd him as a brother to keep him back.
Move on baby girl. You have a real love inside of you that you want to share. There are many men on this planet that will be running to catch it......move on
2007-03-17 22:37:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lyric J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel! You could change his mind... or not. Either way you'll have an answer.
But tell him!
I let the opportunity go by with a female friend years ago and always regretted it. Eventually we realized it should have been us all along, but we're married to other people.
2007-03-17 22:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and see what he says, if he doesn't want to have a relationship with you, honor his request not to.
In other words if he says no way, just remain his friend and hope he changes his mind at a later date.
Good Luck
2007-03-17 22:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Gordon S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get a guy to change the way he thinks. move on hes not the only fish in the sea. and also think of it this way cat and mouse if he starts to like you will the challenge be over because you won?
2007-03-17 22:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him and ask him about possibilities, tell him a little how you feel. It's better to know than always wonder if he might say "yes". If that doesn't work, consider moving on.
2007-03-17 22:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on because he will never look at you the way you want him to and if he thinks of you as a sister it definitely will not go any further sorry
2007-03-17 22:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by candeeecanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least tell him your feelings, or else you will always wish you did when one day he is not around you anymore. And maybe he is just covering, and does not want to tell anybody that he really does like you. Sorry if he turns you down......some thigs are just not meant to be. :(
2007-03-17 22:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends...if he is your bestfriend and you date him and it doesn't work out you risk losing your bestfriend...Is it really worth it? Maybe you should just tell him and discuss the pros and cons of the relationship possibly happening. Maybe you will get a piece of mind.
2007-03-17 22:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know..
i went through the same thing.
when i found out, i was devastated.
my friendship with him was ruined and it couldn't be repaired because i felt a strong hate towards him.
it sucked really bad.
and i couldn't do anything but move on.
hope you have it easier..
2007-03-17 22:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by heya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋