I have been married for about 6months an are sex drive is gone way day. WHAT IS THE DEAL
2007-03-17 15:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by lil_jelly2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Being married comes with a lot of responsability and sometime stress... things to take care of, plan, worries, etc. So it's not simple to just take a guess of what's going on. If you really have no clue, you should ask your wife... Now, that's part of being married and being in a relationship: You should be able to talk about things... She can help you understand and you can help her get over/ work with whatever is affecting your sex life... Is never just because you are married, there is always a justifiable reason, since this issue affects both of you... (well, maybe more you).
2007-03-17 15:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by myliz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage changes a lot of things, before when u were just dating(especially if u werent living together) sex was awesome because yall were so in love and in to each other...the love is still there its just u see each other everyday, your dirty laundry is on the floor, her female stuff is everywhere, yall start seeing the real side of each other. Instead of acting like well dang girl we used to have sex all the time now we are not. Respect her, she m ight have something going on u dont know about. Give it some space but let her know u still want her as much as the first months yall were together. Put some rose petals on the bed, give her a massage and make it about her the first few times......then she will realize God i miss wanting him. If this doesnt work, talk it out, dont blame anybody, just simply say look i notice some things have changed is there anything i need to do for you, because i miss your touch ..i miss us. Be nice about it, not demanding. Trust me she will appreciate it, and dont believe all those things about marriage ruining sex, when me and my husband arent arguing our sex life is wild..haha...goodluck
2007-03-17 15:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of complaining here, you should be asking your wife... I'm sure she can tell you... or you can make suggestions if you have any on how to spice up your sex life. Talk to her.
2007-03-17 15:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to try something different,go some place different, change is good.
2007-03-17 15:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋