My brother and sister hates me much, and I'm always sad. What do you think I should do?

Question

My brother and sister always yell at me for no reason. And they said I always dress like a ugly girl. And they always make my feelings hurt and make my tears come out. So what do I do to cheer myself up?

Answer 1

screw em ! you can't choose your relatives but you can choose your friends !

Answer 2

sucks how you're a girl, that happened to me, but i'm a guy (I have this crazy notion that guys deal w/ this stuff better than girls sorry)

It was years ago, and it hurt badly then, but now it's all over and I could really care less. It has made me hella strong though, nothing really gets to me. People can say anything to me and i'll keep my cool.

Anyways, to cheer yourself up, don't spend time with them. If you can, go to your room and listen to music or do w/e it doesn't matter. Find a hobby and practice that then you can live however you want to.

If you wanna feel good, make a bunch of internet friends. Those're always fun

Answer 3

My brother and sister treated me the same way. They still do. The best thing that you can do for YOURSELF, is to try your best to ignore them and throw yourself into everything you do. Be a success - even if it's only in school for right now. No matter how much they yell at you, no matter what they say to you, prove to them you are better than them by being a success. Find someone you can confide in - perhaps a teacher, a pastor, a neighbor. If you believe in God, pray. Ask for protection. God will surround you with His angels. And, remember, actions speak louder than words, so your being quiet and having a gentle spirit and doing your best to ignore them - no matter what they do or say - will go much further than you getting all stressed out by trying to defend yourself by talking back to them when they say things or do things to hurt you. REMEMBER, THEY are the ones who have the problems, and more than likely they are jealous of you or they wouldn't act like that toward you. YOU be the BEST that you can be and don't let them pull you down. Even if you eventually have to cut them out of your life. I'm 45 years old, and if I would let them, my brother and sister would still treat me like that. Read your Bible. Find your strength in the Lord, and He will help you through this! I'll be praying for you!

Answer 4

Oh sweetie I wish I could make things different but sometimes this is really normal in families. Your not alone. Go to the library join a book club reading is a great escape!
We will all be thinking about you and praying for you too!

Answer 5

This song always make me feel better ...

I am not a perfect person
There many things I wish I didn’t do
But I continue to learn
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know

I found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
And the reason is you

I’m sorry that I hurt you
It’s something I must live with everyday
And all the pain I put you through
I wish that I could take it all away
And be the one who catches all your tears
That’s why I need you to hear

I’ve found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
And the reason is you

And the reason is you
And the reason is you
And the reason is you


I not a perfect person
I never meant to do those things to you
And so I have to say before I go
That I just want you to know

I’ve found a reason for me
To change who I used to be
A reason to start over new
And the reason is you

I’ve found a reason to show
A side of me you didn’t know
A reason for all that I do
And the reason is you

Answer 6

I understand kiddo ... I use to get picked on a lot by my sister's and they did some pretty awful things to me. Try and find a school counselor to talke to or your priest. This prayer really helped me.
Psalm 23
The Lord is my shepherd; I have everything I need. He lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams. He renews my strength. He guides me along right paths, bringing honor to his name Even though I walk through the dark valley of death, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me. You prepare a feast for me in the presence of my enemies. You welcome me as a guest, anointing my head with oil. My cup overflows with blessings. Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the Lord forever.

Answer 7

Dear one you must pray for your family and seek guidance from your pastor or priest. God has a plan for your life and I will leave you with this.
The prayer of St. Francis says it best.

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
where there is sadness, joy;
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Answer 8

Girl, you need to get assertive.
Ask an adult to teach you how.
The school counselor can do that.

You need to be able to look straight at your siblings without tears, and demand they tell you why it is so important for them to hurt your feelings.
Make them answer for their actions.

Answer 9

I hate when flippen mothers and jerks do that they are so mean yell at them cry just do something to give them the messsge and listening to music willo always help !~!~!~ i want to cry listing to your story )=

Answer 10

Ignore them and dont let them get to you like this, they are trying to get all your emotional powers and laughin when u get upset.
Just laugh it off and remember you are beautiful and they are jealous.
So, Cheer up gal and just smile when they say something ugly and change their attitude problem around.

Answer 11

I think you should confront them about the situation. If they're your siblings, they should care about your feelings, & shouldn't want them to be hurt. Also, you may want to talk to your parents about it, because I don't think it's right to talk about someone in your family, especially if your serious.