I went out with a girl named Tammy on Jan. 15 of this year and we had sex. A month later, I went on a date with a different girl named Laura and we hit it off. We have been dating ever since and things are getting serious. Today, March 17, Tammy called me to tell me she is pregnant and I'm the only one that could be the father. She is going to get an abortion. (Save your opinions on the abortion part, please.)
Should I tell my current gf about the abortion? I feel the need to be honest, but I don't want to ruin my current relationship. This has been one of the worse days of my life. Advice please! Thank you!
2007-03-17 15:28:45 · 5 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A couple notes:
1. I don't live in a trailer
2. I am 27 years old
3. I am well-educated, have a great job
4. I just came here because I haven't told anyone and I don't know if I can
Thank you to everyone for their advice thus far. (Except for the Springer tool - really original)
2007-03-17 15:56:39 · update #1
no theres not going to be one so dont tell her
2007-03-17 15:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by hockeylova#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If theres not going to be a baby...keep your mouth shut....(only tell her if the baby is born, because it might show up at your house one day with it's mother in tow...)
2007-03-17 15:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one, how do u think she will take it? ?
wat she doesn't know wont hurt her right?
BUT since it was b4 u two got together then she should understand, and have no hard feelings. so go ahead and tell her.
Ok let's say you DON'T tell her....wat would happen later on if she found out? she will be mad, or at least i would be..very very mad and hurt.
2007-03-17 15:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want her to find out from someone else, do you? Better cover your tracks properly.
2007-03-17 15:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Raven Hood® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure you LEARN YOUR LESSON
2007-03-17 15:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by babyCub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋