Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

but she's in a relationship. She sends me messages whenever I dont talk to her for a day or two. How do I get her attention and keep it?? It's drivin me crazy because she is all I think about.

2007-03-16 16:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 16:39:05 · 10 answers · asked by Charles B 1 in Singles & Dating

We are friends for many years, not very close but meet up sometimes due to work related thing. I never told him my birthday and i received his birthday msg which was surprising. Does it means he may be interested or just friendly?

2007-03-16 16:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Singles & Dating

My so called brother ruins all my relationships.
The last girl it took me 3 weeks to get her to go out on a date with me. The date was going great and we had plans to go out again for dinner and a movie. That is until my brother ran into us and my friends one night after leaving a local bar.

He blantenly, and discustinly embarresed me and my friends at the restraunt and I have called her numerouse times with no answer or reply.

I will not go into what happened at the restraunt, all I will say is
he was demonstrating things that were discusting. And that he is gay.

I dont know what to do to get this girl to see that I am not like my brother . I just keep wondering if it would have worked out.
I will say one thing on her part, that I feel is the reason she didn't want to go back out with me- She has a 5 year old little boy.

I keep wondering, if my brother would just not have showed up that night. Would things be different.

2007-03-16 16:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 16:38:31 · 1 answers · asked by NuncProTunc 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

... when they don't even talk to each other?

2007-03-16 16:37:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this one guy but one of my friends is dating him. everyone bet that they would have broken up by now but they haven't!!!!!! were really good friends but he also knows i like him and he doesn't mind!!!!!!! i don't know what to do. i am happy for my friend but at the same time i am mad at her.
plus she doesn't even act that she is going out with him. when he comes up to do a presentation she doesn't even look at him so i mean, what is the point? anyway, please answer, like anyone!!!!!

2007-03-16 16:36:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in love with someone but I think they only care about looks,(im average looking). Do girls like other things besides looks?

2007-03-16 16:36:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy dosen't react when breaking up after dating for a year .Did that person cared for me even if he said trough out the relationship that he loved me?What dosen't mean when a guy dosen't react like that?

2007-03-16 16:36:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have heard from friends and co-workers about parents letting their sons and daughters sleep over at their boyfriends and girlfriends house at the ages of 15 yrs of age? I don't agree with it, how about you?

2007-03-16 16:35:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, I want o move.. wait do I? I dont even know! I have 3 more years of highschool and my parents want to move to florida this year! :( we are from maine... well anyways.. I dont know what I want to do.. I know they will make me.. but like I love my friends.. and Im finally Liking school.. well not liking but getting used to it.. im shy, so I wouldnt do good in a new school with new people.. but then agian... pool.. tanning everyday! and more.. but then ill get home sick... what should I do!? try to live with a friend for 3 years! rofl.. or like move then come back senoir year.. what? give me any idea! pleasee

2007-03-16 16:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do I write on a birthday card to a friend that I have known for a long time that has always been there for me?

2007-03-16 16:35:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I took a day of vacation to be w/ the wife and kids (i'm separated) and go over and end up spending most of the day doing yardwork instead of spending time with the kids. I got to have dinner w/ them and held her hand (we are going to counseling and our relationship is improving immensely). I do the dishes for her, put stuff away, read stories to the kids, listen and talk to her and basically be at her beck and call. I'll do anything for a hug. I got it bad for her. Someone slap me. Am I making a fool of myself just to get some crumbs thrown at me or is this normal for a guy in love with his wife.

2007-03-16 16:35:16 · 23 answers · asked by bigdaddy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday was my birthday and the day b4 that was my little sisters birthday....i barely ever get 2 see my mom and my little sisters because they live in Virginia but i live in Pennsylvania with my aunt....i hate my mom's new boy friend and his son....and they were all supposed 2 come up this weekend so me because my little sister wanted 2 me and her 2 share a birthday party (like we have 4 the past 3 years) and i said i wouldn't mind....well it started snowing about a half an hour after they left 2 come up so they decided 2 turn around because my mom's new bf didn't want 2 drive up in the middle of a snow storm...my aunt told me when i got home from school that they wouldn't be coming and i acted like it bothered me but really i didn't care if they came up or not (only because i hate my mom's new bf).....is it wrong to feel this way??

2007-03-16 16:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Family

OK so I'm one to over react and my mom and sister have 2 way different responses. Today I went over to my fiance's house to get some stuff he needed for work and I opened a drawer and found a picture of his ex. normally I would just shred it and move on but around the frame it said "all I want for christmas is you, noelle and eric 2004" well me and eric were together halloween of 2004. It wouldn't make since for her to give him this 2 months before christmas right the onIy explanation is he was cheating right? I know it could be a number of things but he's the first one to blurt out that we should be honest and he always asks me if I've ever cheated and I never have and the fact is I know he's not cheating on me now and that he loves me but it's that fact that obviously he's hidden this from me. how shoud I bring this up without an argument?Should I bring it up at all? he's never given me a reason not to trust me he's always been honest so I'm really confused. thanks for the help!!

2007-03-16 16:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by MelC 6 in Singles & Dating

Alright my friend really likes me and i dont think i like him all that much or as much as he likes me. what should i do cause he whants to have a sexual relationship instead of a friend relationship and i dont think i whant that so i really need your help!
o yeah im only 14

2007-03-16 16:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Hannah H 1 in Singles & Dating

At a party a while ago, I met a guy and we talked until late in the morning until I nearly fell asleep a few times. Then, he kissed me even after I told him i had a boyfriend and I felt my heart die right then. I cant tell my boyfriend because he will never see me the same and no one else knows about it. That boy is long gone and even lives in another state, but I still feel guilty every time I see my boy. I'm in love with my boyfriend, and I don't want the stupid kiss to come between us -- we've been going out for a year and a half. But then again he deserves to know and it kills me not to tell him. Was the event serious enough to tell him and ruin his view of me? I don't know what to do.

2007-03-16 16:34:16 · 17 answers · asked by okay_shanaynay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 16:34:00 · 3 answers · asked by Cakes (: 1 in Singles & Dating

R u still in love with you High School sweet heart?, if u had the chance to see him/her would u tell them? Do u think its appropiate to tell them? what about if there married , have a family or a girlfriend?

2007-03-16 16:33:57 · 2 answers · asked by Ms Romance 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it weird that Ive never had a boyfriend, never really been kissed, and never had sex @ 22? Am I a loser? I dont feel attractive at all. Im 5'3 I weigh 135 I think maybe I should lose weight and things will be better for me? Maybe I will be pretty then? People always ask if I have a bf, and I feel awful that I always have to say NO.
Does this mean that Im ugly & fat?

2007-03-16 16:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a son, age 5, and a daughter, age 4. They live with me, and I am going through a custody battle with their dad. They share a bedroom, and sleep in bunkbeds. Is this legal until our lease is expired (a few more months)? I keep hearing from co-workers, ect., that this is not allowed. Does anyone know, or know where I could find out?

2007-03-16 16:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when is it better to have sex befor or after you married? is it worth the wait? or is it better to try it out first? and is sophmore in highschool too young?

2007-03-16 16:32:38 · 19 answers · asked by hi 2 in Singles & Dating

I've recently starting this guy, we've had our differences facing the facts that I wanted to be more than friends. Well now that we're dating, he'll bring up to me how I'm not showing him that I care, and that he feels neglected. Well now I'm starting to feel that way as well, like my actions aren't being returned. Am I over reactting being that it's only been a week we've been dating or what?

2007-03-16 16:32:37 · 4 answers · asked by bayoubelle504 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i'm rellay shy and their is this guy i rellay like but he likes girls that are confident. i'm rellay out going but thats only with my freainds or people i know rellay know

2007-03-16 16:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 16:32:25 · 10 answers · asked by tiny 1 in Friends

like weve been friends since we were 4 years old and now shes starting to annoy me like crazy wat do i do should i keep her or should i loose her help me idk

2007-03-16 16:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by kojo12 1 in Friends

since 6th grade i love a guy but i never told anybody then when i finally told mi friend she said that she had the same feelings as i did but we would still be friends and fight for his love but i think that she said it so that i didn't feel bad but instead i feel worse.

2007-03-16 16:31:38 · 14 answers · asked by Astrid J 1 in Friends

I really do not know how and what kind of things I should do to be able to protect myself from being abused at work....I still need to do this job for another 2 weeks and then I will change but even for this period of time it is extremely hard for me to come to work...tell me what should I do?

2007-03-16 16:30:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and this other girl I know are really good together, they just don't realize it...I really want to get them together...What should I do?

2007-03-16 16:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I moved to the bay area California a few months ago from Las Vegas. I lived in Vegas for pretty much my whole life about 16 years, and i graduated high school there and all my friends are there. Now that I moved in with my dad, i only know his girlfriends relatives, and a couple friends from school. I went to school for a semester in Berkeley and am now working par time at a dining place on the cal berkeley campus. I get kind of bored sometimes because i dont have friends, and sadly sometimes i get jealous because my dad does stuff with his girlfriend, life in the same apartment, and sometimes he goes there and spends the night, and doesn't tell me he is, or he tells me hell be back soon, and ends up being gone for hours, or the whole night, usually with his girlfriend. I take that as just like no respect you know I think it would help if i met a girl, because then that emptiness won't linger in my body. Sorry about the story, but i need some suggestions on meeting new people.

2007-03-16 16:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by coldplayrox2006 1 in Singles & Dating