Is it weird that Ive never had a boyfriend, never really been kissed, and never had sex @ 22? Am I a loser? I dont feel attractive at all. Im 5'3 I weigh 135 I think maybe I should lose weight and things will be better for me? Maybe I will be pretty then? People always ask if I have a bf, and I feel awful that I always have to say NO.
Does this mean that Im ugly & fat?
2007-03-16 16:33:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that being a virgin would make you a loser. I also think your body is fine the way it is the only thing I can suggest is to work on your confidence. You seem discouraged and down about your appearance. Maybe you should try doing things that will make YOU feel more confident. When I am not feeling very attractive I paint my nails, get dressed up for no reason and I immediately feel ready to conquer anything. You have to believe that you can get any man you want and things will start happening for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-16 16:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. My gf is 28, and has never had a bf and has never kissed a guy! However, she is not fat or ugly. I think it's because she is really shy! You have to learn to love yourself and have confidence. Be happy where you are in your life and love what god gave you. That will show to others that you have a love for life. As for the being a virgin. There is nothing wrong with saving yourself. That is a personal choice and no one needs to know. Just be happy being single! It really is not that bad! You get to flirt, do whatever you want to do and have a ton of freedom to travel! Come on..people make it seem so bad. Look at all the couples who are together and are miserable! At least I'm single and HAPPY! So, smile and go meet some people!
2007-03-16 23:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a "freak" or a "loser"? Not necessarily. It's rare for somebody to go that long without having a sexual encounter, but you're not the only one. The only warning I'd give is that your first boyfriend is not necessarily going to be your first & last, and your first time having sex is certainly not going to be your best.
As for your appearance, I have no way of knowing what you look like, even with the stats. But keep in mind that if people twice the weight at the same size can still get sex, there's obviously more to dating than meets the eye.
2007-03-16 23:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I am in the same situation. I am 17, I am on varsity basketball, and I have never kissed, hugged, or held hands. I have never even known a girl. And I have no friends (pretty scary for someone on varsity basketball huh?). You probably have some friends, which makes you cool, and not a loser. You are not a loser..........I AM A LOSER.
2007-03-17 21:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by mistafabboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a link for your pic and ask what the people on here think of what you look like and they will give you an honest answer good or bad
2007-03-16 23:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO your not a freak! if you wanna bost your confidence, maby just go on a diet or something, go out with your friends and socialize, and meet some guys!
2007-03-16 23:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no freak you are not....you dont have to have others to make u hole keep on being you
2007-03-16 23:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by shewontletmefunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋