Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

whats your best way of approaching a guy you dont know well or haven't talked to before? theres this guy ive noticed and am having trouble being able to talk to him. I dont want to be a complete stranger to him any more.

2007-03-16 16:56:57 · 3 answers · asked by noautographsplease 2 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I maybe stuiped. But I don't know what a personality is, and I don't know if I have one or even a original one at least. Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-16 16:55:42 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for almost a year now and yesterday she said I don't love her enough just because I didn't kiss or hug her. I love her and I always say and mean it everyday since we've been together. She's beautiful, smart and tall, but does that mean I don't have a choice whether I want to get intimate or not? Well, sometimes I don't feel like getting intimate, but that doesn't mean I don't love her. I denied her claim and she did not believe me. Is she trying to manipulate me by hating me just because I am not getting intimate with her? I don't want to argue with her because I love her. How can I make her understand me better?

2007-03-16 16:55:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's this guy I like but can't get the nerve to talk to him. I know he notices me because he checks me out all the time and looks into my eyes. I rarely talk to him but we do look at each other. (P.S. I don't get crushes easily but can't get him out of my mind. )

2007-03-16 16:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by autumn 3 in Singles & Dating

the mouth wash bottle clearly states rinse and spit not swallow...

2007-03-16 16:53:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have this issue my friends are getting back at this girl and her friends and i like the girl alot, though i cant diss my friends and now they want me to diss the girl though i cant because she knows i like her and they want me to backstab her. i need help because i honestly dont know what to do if i backstab my friends im just a flatout jerk.

2007-03-16 16:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by C.T 2 in Friends

Tell what is your ideal kiss !!

2007-03-16 16:51:00 · 6 answers · asked by Elena 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a single mother of two, i have a daughter that is 5 an a son that turnt 4 in december. I have no help with them cause my family don't get along, but its my son im having problems with he's not old enough to attend school so he's with me 24/7 and im out off work from a on the job injury. How can i say this, first i love both of my childrens very much and my daughter i have no problems with but my son he's always doing what i tell him not to do. When its time to eat he only wants to eat junk no real food, i will tell him not to ride the bick in the street an to stay on the sidewalk he rides it in the street, i'll tell him to clean up his room he sits there an watch his tv, then when he wants to go out side an play an i say no cause you didn't clean your room he starts to pout. I have put him in time out and i have fussed, i have spanked him and that there don't even fase him.its like it goes in one ear an out the other. I love my son and i don't want to be a mean mom. I need help

2007-03-16 16:50:55 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family

I met this friend on the first day of school, and then after about 2 weeks she says I should be more talkative and she doesn't want to hang with me anymore cause i'm to nice,smart,polite.

2007-03-16 16:50:38 · 21 answers · asked by Mys3 Girl 1 in Friends

I saw a question like this posted but was unable to answer (error message). I think it's well worth addressing, so I'm posting it. Here's what I would answer to a woman concerned w/ penile size. I'd like to know what other women think (& men too,of course). How he uses it matters far more than size, I'd think.
Men are so sensitive about the size of their penises. The pressure is great, the stigma cruel. It's so often the subject of jokes and jibes, & magazines discuss the subject endlessly. I'd avoid alluding to his size however discreetly. That would be cruel & the relationship might not recover. I'd not broach the subject but let him. What would you do? & would you discuss it w him?
I've truly loved only one man (killed by a drunk driver). We didn't have that problem, but I think our love would have trancended such it. Finding someone you want to spend yr life w/ is one of life's greatest tresures found so rarely!
(Use sympatheitic imagination, please!)

2007-03-16 16:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Cynthia_Secular_n_SillyHatState 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm turning 17 in a few months.
I had sex with my boyfriend. Only once.
I did it because I felt I was ready. But after I realized that I did not wanna do it anymore. He was always just talking about having sex. I felt like sex was the only important thing left in our relationship. So, I dumped him because I felt like he was just using me for sex. Do you think I made the right choice?
And my friend said that it's going to be VERY hard to get over him because we had sex. Is it true?

2007-03-16 16:49:03 · 18 answers · asked by itstoolate 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 16:48:26 · 75 answers · asked by Joe Guy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have told him my feelings on it.. I don't like it and don't agree with it, due to the fact that it's illegal and the long-term physical effects. I hate to see him smoke and know that he could be hurting himself. It also doesn't help that I can't even be around it due to heart problems.. but he won't stop. He just says its nothing bad and he could be doing worse things, and that I should get over it. He says he'll smoke the rest of his life.. I don't want this around my future children. He smokes maybe twice a week... should I compromise and let him keep going, or get rid of him?

2007-03-16 16:47:50 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have these frands that ditched me becuz they said that i was too slo and that i cussed too much, which i only do when i get too angry or excited. And now they dragged every with them accept for one TRUE frand that i really have, Cristy Vue. so can someone please write to cristy and tell her how much i appreciate her? her email is social_puppy@yahoo.com jus tell her that Kristy said thanks for being such a great, and loyal frand to her. And then there are the two b****es that i hate the most and guess wat? they turn out to be sisters. i'll b happy if someone could write to mai: sno_gurls@yahoo.com or pa: houa_13@yahoo.com and cuz at them for me cus they kno my email and where i live so yep. and after u cuzed at them, block them so they cannot write u back. Well saying that, Anybody out there want to be my frand? im fun, i think, and im slo in a way itz so funny hehehe. Jaeho. Well thanks if you do, do it. its ok if you don't

2007-03-16 16:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Hoa L 1 in Friends

After a 10 Yr fight with cancer my wife passed away. What I'd like to know is when is a good time to start dating. First of all I am not looking to replace my childrens mother. Second I don't want to get married again. I just want companionship as all people do. What do you think the best timing is to start dating again?

2007-03-16 16:45:38 · 19 answers · asked by iaidoka1967 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-16 16:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by Bre-Bre 1 in Family

I just started a new trimester and there is this really sweet and attractive guy who’s from Slovakia in my class...and recently he sat next to me and started talking to me...He was such a gentleman he introduced himself and shook my hand ...and I know it may seem conceited but I think he likes me...his body language gives it away ...he’s always smiling and im always smiling because he is just soo handsome and sweet ...and the other day I was leaving class early and as I was leaving he walks up to me and in his sexy accent he asks where I was going and when he asked me ...it seemed as if he was going to hug or kiss me ...Id so love to get to know him be friends maybe down the line b/f ...g/f type thing ya know ..WHAT DO I DO?

2007-03-16 16:45:23 · 1 answers · asked by krissy t 2 in Singles & Dating

O'bama?

2007-03-16 16:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The name alone sounds disgusting enough.

Is this some kind of STD? Is this why you women are always warning dudes about catching an STD from your fellow women’s disease pockets?

2007-03-16 16:44:48 · 13 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex bf who i s29 yr old teacher, was very depressed and very suicidal. When I was with him, I told him he needed to see a professional.He only wanted my help. He would tell me over and over he was going to do it, that he bought Cyanide over the interenet, he was going to go thru with it before summer vacation was over. There were times he would hang up the phone and not answer, I didnt know if he was alive or dead. He told me never to call the police, because if he saw the police he would do it right then and there. I went through many nights with anxiety, panic attacks. Well, the reason he felt this way was becuase he had a child w/ a one night stand he wanted nothing to do with, he was ashamed. I helped him come to terms, for him to leave me for the mother of his child. Not only that, he talked about me and devalued me as to who I was to him. He told me if I need help getting through the breakup, to see a pychologist. I have, because, I feel like I lost it. Everything he ever told

2007-03-16 16:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why cant women think about their man instead of only thinking about themselves. I just want a women to shut up, put out, and have my beer ready for me. Is that really too much to ask for?

2007-03-16 16:44:24 · 25 answers · asked by fritzpatch 2 in Singles & Dating

Right i quite like this guy and he gave me his number last week and we`ve text and called each other,he said he really likes me and wants to take me out.We had a little mis understanding and it`s as if we`ve both got our wires crossed and dont quite know how the other feels.

Anyway he text me earlier on today and told me that he is interested in me and that if i`m not interested in him then just to let him know.I am interested.He then gave me a text after he finished work to see what i was upto and told me to forget the misunderstnding and he then text again and said he`d give me a call soon as he was in the pub and was it ok for him to call.I didn`t reply but assumed he`d just call anyway.he didn`t and i then text him to see what he`s doing tomorrow after work and he hasn`t replied.I`m getting rather tired of playing games now and dont know if he`s interested or not and feel rather confused,i think we both need to grow up and start behaving like adults.advice please?

2007-03-16 16:43:43 · 17 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

ok theres dis guy and i like him so much and sometimes he flirts wit me so much but i dont no if he's giving some signs that he likes me or not! please help me!! thanxz

2007-03-16 16:42:48 · 18 answers · asked by acidblack22 1 in Singles & Dating

well my best friend passed away 6 months ago and it feels like a month, but today his mom and sister brought over a birthday present for me, his uncompleted computer, it was his main prized possession. i don't know what to do, should i finish it? should i use it if i complete it? i don't know. today's my birthday and i got the best gift ever, his computer, its the first thing that his mom gave away of his, should i complete it? should i leave it? should i use it? HELP

should i leave it how he left it?
should i complete it and use it?
should i complete it and leave it alone?

2007-03-16 16:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or... well, any relationship, really. I guess I should explain a bit. In high school I guess I just felt that even if I wanted to date, there was probably no 17/18 year old boy mature enough for me to be bothered dealing with him. After then, though, I guess I've never really felt the need to have a serious relationship and haven't wanted the hassle of being with someone if I didn't see it going anywhere. I've never felt the need to just be with someone for the company they provided.

Before some lame brain asks, no, I'm not fat, I'm not ugly (I can look damn sexy when I put my mind to it) and I'm not psycho. I guess I am a bit shy, but not abnormally. That's my main problem, I think. I'd like to start dating a bit, but I don't really know how to start or how to date or anything. Erm, its kind of scary, no?

Right. I've talked enough. Sock it to me with the advise.

2007-03-16 16:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by Jazzycat 2 in Singles & Dating

should i complete it and leave it
should i complete it and use it?
or should i just leave it how he left it?

this is a bigger deal then it seems

2007-03-16 16:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know I have heard the phrase "someone is always thinking about you" and I was just wondering if it was true. Scientifically, or whatever, is someone ALWAYS thinking of you, and are you being thought of every second of every day?? Does anyone know?

2007-03-16 16:41:08 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today at a school carnival, I was hanging out with my ex's best friend. His friend was saying,"I dont think people are starting to like Andy (ex) anymore, because he is turning into a real jerk against you." I said,"Yeah I know, he is real jerk around me now, but what your saying is, his friends are starting to quit hanging out with him now?" "I guess you could say that... at least I am anyways." his friend answered.
I dont want 2 cause more problems towards my ex, but do you think he'll find out I'm the reason and then hate me even more?

2007-03-16 16:40:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and she just happened to be overweight would the attraction still exist

2007-03-16 16:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

for example today he called me but i told him iwas inside of an docter office so i couldnt answer the phone, so then he left an message sayin well dont talk to me nomore if you cant answer your phone, and then i talk to him later that day, i ask him was he going to the movies tonite and he answerd no so thats when i said why and then he says i said no ok and then i ask whats wrong with him, he nevers respond back and so if i talk to him the next day and i ask him the same thing, its oh i was mad at the world .

2007-03-16 16:40:14 · 17 answers · asked by Tan s 1 in Singles & Dating