Today at a school carnival, I was hanging out with my ex's best friend. His friend was saying,"I dont think people are starting to like Andy (ex) anymore, because he is turning into a real jerk against you." I said,"Yeah I know, he is real jerk around me now, but what your saying is, his friends are starting to quit hanging out with him now?" "I guess you could say that... at least I am anyways." his friend answered.
I dont want 2 cause more problems towards my ex, but do you think he'll find out I'm the reason and then hate me even more?
2007-03-16 16:40:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey you didn't make these people stop liking him. They are making that decision on their own. If he is acting like a jerk, it is going to show and people won't tolerate it from a so called friend. I wouldn't worry about it.. he is making his own enemies.. you are not doing it. he is.
go on and live life and let him go.
2007-03-16 16:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ex gets mad at you for his own actions then he really is a jerk that you dont want to be around....surround yourself with the people that mean something to you and your life becomes less complicated.
2007-03-16 23:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might for awhile, but even if he does, you shouldn't feel guilty for it. From your side of the story it sounds as he has the problem not you. Look on the bright side of things... this is showing you that Andy's friends will stick up for you.
2007-03-16 23:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by leadexit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably; that is the reason why whenever you get a boyfriend, you get involve with all the people around him. If you quit with your bf is better to stop hanging out with all the people that hang out with him, otherwise there will always be conflicts, rumors, fights, misunderstanndings, so oon.
2007-03-16 23:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by taty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex, move on don't worry about what he thinks. You are not with him and you are letting him affect your life. You should also becareful of his friends intentions, read between the lines.
2007-03-16 23:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is a jerk.... Find someone who appreciates who you are.
2007-03-16 23:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by fdsergent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey..he's your ex don't worry about it. It's not like your the one loosing friends over it. They're just seeing him for him now...that's it. There's nothing you can do about it.
2007-03-16 23:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Tina D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
à think all of you should spend a few more years flinging sand at each other in the sandbox.
2007-03-16 23:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he does theres nothing you can do about it. Apparantly he's been talking trash about you and his friends liked you more. Not your fault.
2007-03-16 23:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant blame yourself for the actions and decisions of others.
2007-03-16 23:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋