I saw a question like this posted but was unable to answer (error message). I think it's well worth addressing, so I'm posting it. Here's what I would answer to a woman concerned w/ penile size. I'd like to know what other women think (& men too,of course). How he uses it matters far more than size, I'd think.
Men are so sensitive about the size of their penises. The pressure is great, the stigma cruel. It's so often the subject of jokes and jibes, & magazines discuss the subject endlessly. I'd avoid alluding to his size however discreetly. That would be cruel & the relationship might not recover. I'd not broach the subject but let him. What would you do? & would you discuss it w him?
I've truly loved only one man (killed by a drunk driver). We didn't have that problem, but I think our love would have trancended such it. Finding someone you want to spend yr life w/ is one of life's greatest tresures found so rarely!
(Use sympatheitic imagination, please!)
2007-03-16 16:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Cynthia_Secular_n_SillyHatState 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are so sensitive about the size of their breasts. Just flip this around to see the problems in the other gender.
Indeed, size does not matter and what is done or can be done to them and with them does.
Men and woman can and do please each other with no handicap related to the size of any part of their bodies. It is the expression of the emotions felt that makes all of the difference in the physical part of their relationship.
2007-03-17 02:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Personally I agree that size generally does not matter. As long as he can please you it does not have to be a big deal. However, there are those rare instances where the size of his member maybe just be a size that can not satisfy the lady he may be with. If that is the case I believe that the two partners should look into remedies for this situation. You know it can be turned into a sexual adventure if the two were to go to say a shop that specializes in enhancements and pick up a few things to try out. As long as the subject is talked about between the two parties and not hidden and harbored then they can get through this problem.
2007-03-24 13:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately penis size does matter to a point, the fact is if you were in a relationship with a man that was big and break up with him you would definitely not get the same feeling with a smaller man since your vagina has expanded to the previous mans penis, why do you think for century's man has wanted virgin women for that reason, women that have multiple sexual relationships will have to go for a same or bigger man every time, if a man had a 4" penis and had sexual inter coarse with a woman that never had a sexual partner size wouldn't matter but in terms of multiple position you would both be limited, heck in ancient Rome women prefered men with smaller penises, times have changed.
2007-03-17 16:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by deligeez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, a mans SIZE does not matter and that is that. How he uses that thing is all that matters and he can please a woman sexually without it. My FAVORITE thing sexually has nothing to do with my husbands penis. nothing at all...and he knows exactly what it is and how to please me. If you are sexually pleased by your man, whatever it be that please you, then you should be happy. If he isn't gigantic in size or maybe not even average in size, he can use other wonderful techniques to pleasure his woman. The man that can pleasure his woman completely in the way she wants to be pleasured is the most real of all men. The man who cares enough to ask you how you want to be pleasured is the best of all men. I swear to you this is true...I was once with a man who was quite large. I was shocked because I had no idea this guy was packing this thing and I was thinking "WOAH! This is frigging GREAT!" so I got ready for some serious you-know-what! 2 minutes into this excursion and I was disgusted. This guy had no idea what in the hell he was doing with this great piece of manhood. In fact it was the most drab experience I've ever had sexually to this day. I can't even describe how truly boring this dude was in bed. I think that he knew he was huge and that he honestly thought that because of it he didn't need to do a damn thing but whip it out. WRONG. I wonder how he's getting along. Anyhow, this is a true story. My most satisfying sexual experiences have been with the man who knows my sexual needs and goes out of his way to meet them for me.
You let your guy know what you want sexually. If he loves you he will give it to you and you will want to give it back to him. You make that man feel like his penis is the best penis that God ever granted to a man...you will believe it too!
2007-03-24 16:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by blakta2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it can be a problem... have tried this with 2 guys for a while but at the end of 3 months... it starts to get on my nerves. im talking about 4" and not thick... and neither of them was that good in bed or had the personality to make up for it anyway... but even if they did, it's hard to keep this up when u can't feel anything down there, and the condom is barely staying on tight enough.
2007-03-17 07:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How dare you promulgate the dominant patriarchal rape culture by posting such a question! You should forswear men and come to Sapphotic ways of thinking.
2007-03-18 06:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by robert f 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cut the relationship
2007-03-24 16:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do alot of acting alot ------------- alot -----------of acting
2007-03-24 15:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by lulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋