seems to be ignoring me again??

Question

Right i quite like this guy and he gave me his number last week and we`ve text and called each other,he said he really likes me and wants to take me out.We had a little mis understanding and it`s as if we`ve both got our wires crossed and dont quite know how the other feels.

Anyway he text me earlier on today and told me that he is interested in me and that if i`m not interested in him then just to let him know.I am interested.He then gave me a text after he finished work to see what i was upto and told me to forget the misunderstnding and he then text again and said he`d give me a call soon as he was in the pub and was it ok for him to call.I didn`t reply but assumed he`d just call anyway.he didn`t and i then text him to see what he`s doing tomorrow after work and he hasn`t replied.I`m getting rather tired of playing games now and dont know if he`s interested or not and feel rather confused,i think we both need to grow up and start behaving like adults.advice please?

Answer 1

easy to resolve this. text him or better still call him and speak to him. tell him that you did not get the text about him being in the pub until late ( i pressume it was an hour or two between the time he sent a text (that you failed to reply to) and the text you sent him seeing why he had not called).
As they say you should never assume anything as when you assume it makes an *** out of U an ME.
speak to him appologise for not answering the text when he was in the pub. but you were unable to reply (you were on the land line to a friend) ok it is a little white lie that should get you back on track. this little white lie is an exception to the rule telling lies is not good.
text is not good when you want to send an appology.
an appology is always better spoken it is more likely to be believed as you can be heard by the person you are appologizing to. and they can hear if you really mean what you say by the tone of your voice. so may be put on the water works when you appologise, it will make him feel like a god for a minute and he should then start treating you like you are a godess.
he sounds like he is playing it a little too cool and although he said to you he is intereested he may not want to force the issue and seem like he is stalking you for example.
CALL HIM NOW, if his phone is off leave a voice mail. saying you were execting him to call you, why didn't he call? say you were looking forward to talking to him, again this will be a clear sign he can turn up the heat on your relationship.

Answer 2

The problem lies in "late replies". People normally text when they have the free time to do so. Even you did not reply his text. So why blame him for not replying you, my dear. He may get the wrong message that you're playing hard to get or something. He could be demoralized to call you because he didn't receive your text to give him the green light to call you. Hey! He felt rejected & could be drunk that night already. And having a hangover the next day. Or he could be feeling real low & in no mood to reply quickly. Or he could be busy too.

Text/call him to apologize for not texting him about the crucial question he text you. Tell him that you are too busy to respond & thought he would still call. Tell him you'll be delighted to meet up with him. And start off from there.

Do not pressure yourself too much if it will work out or not. If both of you are meant to be, sparks fly & things will work out. If not, it's ok, one more friend added to your network doesn't hurt.

Answer 3

Texting isn't the best method for this kind of thing in my opinion, he should have just phoned you when he got in the pub instead of texting beforehand to ask if it's alright to call.

My advice would be to talk on the phone, rather than texting each other. It's easier to make arrangements when you can actually speak to the other person and it can help avoid any misunderstandings.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

u know wat he txt u why didnt u answer? its ur fault he asked u can i call u didnt reply man!!! u messed up..u dont need to 4get and move on if we 4get and move on on every s** that happenes we'll be alone so no need to move on just call him personally and make up some excuse why u didnt txt give him hints u like him ask him to hang out if u wana slow it then just txt him once a day just to say hi'zzz then he will be ok..i can tell u hes sensitive i would do that too cus i take everything to heart like oh why didnt he txt me back im not gona txt him again so just chill do what i said it will work for sure

Answer 6

you are right, he wants to make sure that u r really intrested in him. His way to prove this is with these little games. He might also be afraid of wat every boy is afraid of: REJECTED. When they are going to ask a girl out, they dont say it all seriously because if they get rejected, it wont seem like a big deal

Answer 7

You both need to grow up,i agree with you 100%

Answer 8

Reckon it's time you found yourself a guy whos' a bit more mature & not interested in playing games.

Answer 9

seems like he likes you...ya'll just need to stop texting and start talking in person, u can tell a lot about how someone feels about u when ur face to face with them

Answer 10

I THINK YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.I THINK YOU BOTH NEED TO LEARN TO COMMUNICATE MORE CLEARLY WITH EACH OTHER. AND YES YOU DO NEED TO GROW UP AND START BEHAVING LIKE ADULTS.