i have this issue my friends are getting back at this girl and her friends and i like the girl alot, though i cant diss my friends and now they want me to diss the girl though i cant because she knows i like her and they want me to backstab her. i need help because i honestly dont know what to do if i backstab my friends im just a flatout jerk.
2007-03-16 16:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by C.T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell u friends how u feel about her if they don't know..
if they still insist that u diss her then i would say choose ur friends cuz crushes will come and go, plus does this girl like u back?
ps. this is only if these are ur true friends who would do the same thing if they were in the situation
2007-03-16 17:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by eyelurvedabeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sticky situation. Some friends are worth keeping while the girls are worth losing. Although, if you really really like this girl, like I mean super dopper like this girl, then just tell your friends NO, and eventually they will get over it, if they dont, then they weren't to good of friends anyways. A good friend is there for you no matter what. By the way if you do pick the girl over your friends make sure you ask the girl out. :) to show you mean business. :)
2007-03-16 23:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are for ever and girls come on go! Tell the friends to grow up and not waste their time on dissing the girls.
2007-03-17 00:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And if you backstab her you're a flatout jerk.
Either way you're going to lose out. Go with your heart. Weigh the pros and cons.
2007-03-16 23:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends come and go, so do crushes. But don't be a follower, and get caught up in childish games. If they are you friends they will respect your decission. You are not a jerk for standing up for what you believe, but a fool for letting other decide your life.
2007-03-17 00:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a novel idea: Don't backstab anybody!!! Just stay out of it. Simple.
2007-03-16 23:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if they were true friends they wouldnt made you do anything like that. just tell them you wont do it, if they hate you for it, just let them know how ridiculous and childish the situation is. they'll realise and grow up a bit. don't ruin your chances with this girl over your friends' stupid choices!
2007-03-16 23:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by harry. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if they're really your friends they'll understand. i'd say go for the chick. and even if your friends turn your back on you; you can always find other friends.
2007-03-16 23:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by nycgurl0812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kinda friends do you have that want you to back stab a girl that you like.... are you comfortable being a loser.... i'm sorry but i think that is so mean.... but its your life its your friends so you noe what to do, thats just my opion... otay
2007-03-16 23:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with your friend the girl (if she knows you are alive) will see your good friend-ship and like you back
2007-03-16 23:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by superhotguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋