Alright my friend really likes me and i dont think i like him all that much or as much as he likes me. what should i do cause he whants to have a sexual relationship instead of a friend relationship and i dont think i whant that so i really need your help!
o yeah im only 14
2007-03-16 16:34:31 · 10 answers · asked by Hannah H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want to, then tell him so, you can't be forced into something you don't want. You're your own boss, and good luck. =)
2007-03-16 17:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Danielle☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, you are way to young to start having sex. I know a bunch of kids your age (trying not to call you a kid or anything but you are still really young) might being having sex, but that is because they think they know what they are doing, but they really dont. There are major consiquences for your actions, whether you think your actions are right or not. Pregnauncy, HIV, AIDS, etc I dont think you would want any of that right? I mean you only 14. Plus, he is going through that start of the sex age, were there minds are going nuts, down there minds. I mean all guys thinks sex 24 /7 but when you just start getting those feelings I think it is even worse. Sometimes they think if they do it once it will end for a little white but when really they just end up wanting it more and more after that. I would just tell him that you only like him as a friend, he should understand, plus tell him you are only ready for sex just yet. I mean hey in a couple years go for it. But at least wait till you are 17. Please, we do not want anymore young teenagers having babies, and parents taking care of them, because they are to young to get jobs, and blah blah blah. :) Good luck! HE should understand either way, if he is that good of a friend. :)
2007-03-16 16:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady, you imagine you know what he's able to doing; you don't know what he truly can do. everyone who tells you he is going to rape you is risky. it might want to be a similar to assert I going to conquer you to a pulp. Rape is a violent act with the purpose to funny tale about that's certainly incorrect. you want to inform him that's not humorous, and also you want him to quit textual content messaging beside the point message. beside the point messages comprise some thing in a sexual or violent manor. If he would not take you heavily, you want to inform your dad and mom. he's crossing a line, and by ability of doing so, he may imagine you approve of it. He may easily imagine you may want to be raped. i don't know a thanks to allow you to know ways truly scary those texts are, yet you've some idea that's inaccurate, and requested others for his or her opinion. do not snigger your way into the emergency room or morgue. God bless.
2016-12-02 03:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with this person.
Make sure that when you do have sex it is for all the right reasons, and the person is very special in your life.
Oh yeah, forgot to mention - you are WAY TO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX. YOU SHOULD BE CONCENTRATING ON YOUR HOMEWORK AND NOT THINKING ABOUT HAVING SEX.
Sounds like you are going to have sex sooner or later, so make sure you have protection.
2007-03-16 16:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not much of a friend, he only sees you as a piece of A$$
2007-03-16 16:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by another journey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to then tell him, and just dont!!! You are only 14 you have your whole life for sex!!!!
2007-03-16 16:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, you dont have those feeings for him, and you are too young to consider it.
2007-03-16 16:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by knowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! Specially cause of your age. I am a teenage girl myself(18 years old- yes I'm legally an adult, but lets face the fact, we're all still kids for a while after you turn that legal age). I havn't had sex & I have lots of boyfriends & flirt or whatever, but I havnt had sex because I'm not in love & dont want to throw my personal morals away. My mum has told me if I really want to I'm allowed to have sex or 'fool around' but come to her first & get on the pill. But I dont want to. I know that I want to save myself for someone worth it, & if he really is a friend of yours then he shoudl realize you dont want to have sex or engage in anything sexual with him. Your just a kid, like me.. & its not right of him. He might seem like a best friend to you, but sweetie, hes no friend of your if he's trying to purswade you into something like that. He's just a horny little boy who wants to have some fun. Listen to that song by Pink- you & your hand. It might make you feel better. He needs to learn how to simulate himself or something, because he shouldn't be going around asking his friend[s] (or anyone in he age group- which I'm only assuming that if he's one of yoru best friends hes in your age group as well) to have sex or something like it with him. You'll regret it so much afterwards. I know this for sure! One of my BESTEST friends had sex with her boyfriend of nearly a year and a half(& remember I'm 18, she is 17, so its more morally exceptable that your age is..) & she loved him so much. But they want he talked her into having sex with him, sorta like your firend is doing with you, made her feel like (at the time as they we're on the bed & he was inside of her..) she was being rapped. She told me in confidence, but I'm telling you this, because she wont ever know & I want to help you. She didn't feel like it was fun or anything. & she cried afterwards & a few weeks later he wanted to have sex with her again & she let him think it would feel different but it didnt.. her love for him is still strong, but she just doesnt love him like she originally thought she did. DONT DO IT SWEET HEART! You will only feel horrible afterwards. Its enevitable for sure! I think she should consider all the facts & look into him as a person more. If he was a real friend to you he would realize you are not interested & want to actually love or like the person more than a friend before you engage in sexual activity. Trust me, you will be greatful towards yourself later on in love. I wish you the best of luck & know you will make the right choice for yourself. If you would like to talk more about this you can email me at losurf24@yahoo.com My email is set to private from yahoo!answers so you wouldnt be able to find it any other way besides me telling you, because I understand what yoru going through & would love to be able to help you through this situation. Im an awesome listener, I really am. Any time that you feel like you need an older person to talk to, I'd definatly help you out. Good luck!!! <3
2007-03-16 16:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be truthful but nice and make sure he gets what your saying, also be firm in what u say so he will know ur serious and u mean what u say
2007-03-16 16:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by eyelurvedabeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you own your genitels, you don't loan them out to anyone.
2007-03-16 16:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋