OK so I'm one to over react and my mom and sister have 2 way different responses. Today I went over to my fiance's house to get some stuff he needed for work and I opened a drawer and found a picture of his ex. normally I would just shred it and move on but around the frame it said "all I want for christmas is you, noelle and eric 2004" well me and eric were together halloween of 2004. It wouldn't make since for her to give him this 2 months before christmas right the onIy explanation is he was cheating right? I know it could be a number of things but he's the first one to blurt out that we should be honest and he always asks me if I've ever cheated and I never have and the fact is I know he's not cheating on me now and that he loves me but it's that fact that obviously he's hidden this from me. how shoud I bring this up without an argument?Should I bring it up at all? he's never given me a reason not to trust me he's always been honest so I'm really confused. thanks for the help!!
2007-03-16 16:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by MelC 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you found the picture and ask him if he could box it away somewhere. Don't shred it because it is his not yours.
Be honest...tell him you thought on the whole date thing. Don't go getting all emotional and weepy or accuse him of something. Just speak from your heart. If you truly love him and trust him then his answers will be good enough.
Tell you family to butt out. When you marry you marry him...not his family. You and he will tbe the most important people in your lives...never allow anyone to come between you.
2007-03-16 16:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it already.
2007-03-16 23:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋