how to know if shes truly ur friend??

Question

like weve been friends since we were 4 years old and now shes starting to annoy me like crazy wat do i do should i keep her or should i loose her help me idk

Answer 1

Dear Savannah...
I have a friend as well who I have been friends with since I was 4. She is sweet and we have fun together but so far we have been good friends. See wat it is about her that annoys you and maybe you can work it out. I know that if I lost my friend then I would be crushed. Still if you are really annoyed with her then maybe...well you should loose her. I hope she will take it well.
Good Luck Savannah

Answer 2

Ive gone thru the same thing, I have alot of different kind of friends and I have met them at different times in my life from , kinder thru my adult life, if theres a really reason, y she annoys u and u feel that thats something u cant confront her or fix then I think u should move on but If she is your true friend and there is something on your mind about her let her know , and if she is a real friend then she will change ( & understand) her way..... but just remeber ppl change (life happens ) and our personalitys changes, so just take that into consideration, and try to work things out, wish u the best

Answer 3

I have known someone since I was 7 months old, she does bother me sometimes but we only talk on the phone... What I will tell you to do is just kind of be her friend, not face-to-face for a while, only on messanger and th phone. That will make you a little less crazy, if you limit your conversation time. Then when you are ready, go meet her at the mall or something. I hope I helped. :)

Answer 4

Don't be so fast to write off any friend, we needs friends in this crazy world of ours. There are going to be times when you both need a break from one another, but that doesn't mean that after that break it isn't good to see her and catch up on what's been going on. Take a break from her, and see if you miss her. There are friends that just drain the life out of you, if she is one of those friends you may have to distance yourself, but if she is someone who lifts you up and makes you feel good about yourself, you may have to put up with her craziness from time to time. Only time will tell...nothing is more special than an old friend who knows you, the good and bad.

Answer 5

the real friend is someone who will have your back100%, and i dont mean like when your in fights for her to back u up, i mean like caring about you and wanting the best for you. The rest is the thing that one has to put up with. If you think its worth it and she has really been a great friend, then make her stick around. IF you are not sure wat to do, jsut start making your own space and increase your distance with her; that way you will still be her friend, but not as close.

Answer 6

if she's starting to annoy you tell her that, it may hurt her feelings at first but then you 2 can talk it out. Just tell her what it is that is annoying you, but it may be bet to maybe spend sometime away from her, you know gain a wider circle of friends. I hope for the best for you and your friend.

Answer 7

Yeah my best friend moved away and when she comes down im so excited but then tend to get annoiyed quick ! never let a friend for that long go because of annoiment ! .. its not worth it !.. juss spend less time together !.. do your own thing for awile and let her do hers .. and your gunna end up missing her and wanting to hang out .. if she annoiys you tis ebcause your doen somethen that sint so much fun when your together try doen something exciting and that will amke both of yous laugh !.. but dunt ever drop a friend that you' ve hade forever ! .. you probly juss need some time apart or sometehn more exciting to happen between you two ! =)

Answer 8

Your friends may annoy you from time to time, which makes you want to cut them loose, but this is someone you grew up with who may understand you much more than your other friends.

Answer 9

If she is a true friend you can tell her honestly. Say something like "your a good friend but sometimes I can get annoyed by u, but i still would like to be your friend because I think your a good one."

Answer 10

i was in the same positon but soon after she offered me alcohol and things we driffted apart all you need to do is slowly but surely start hanging out with other people and drifting away from her she will get more friends you just have to let her indecate what she will do or you can intruduce her to someone else she would get along with and let them get to knoe each other don't let it look like you feel left out though that will make her feel bad look happy for her!
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