since 6th grade i love a guy but i never told anybody then when i finally told mi friend she said that she had the same feelings as i did but we would still be friends and fight for his love but i think that she said it so that i didn't feel bad but instead i feel worse.
2007-03-16 16:31:38 · 14 answers · asked by Astrid J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um....well,,,,uh....just trust her and dont feel bad
2007-03-16 16:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by vrules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
now and back asking your bff if it would be pleased together with her works. different issues to evaluate... Has she enjoyed this guy for an exceedingly long term? Did you meet him with the aid of her and he or she already enjoyed him? Any signs and indications that she had lay declare to him could be taken as a betrayal for her. sense out the placement and rather get to nicely known the guy merely be acquaintances. If the relationship between you is physically powerful and durable it are in a position to stay longer than your bff's emotions for him.
2016-12-18 15:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by hirschfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey the good thing about love is that it doesn't just occur when you physically look at someone. Neither you or your friend are in love, you're in like and infatuated. You can't be best friends and want the same guy it won't work out. If she goes out with him, it's going to be difficult for you to be around them. She can't talk to you about him because you're always going to be thinking that she's trying to rub it in your face and it would be the same thing if you were to go out with him. One of my old best friends and I, once liked the same guy and because we both liked him we let him go. She started liking someone else, and I just ignored him. It worked out better in the end. I found my soulmate and he's a total loser so we were both better off. Talk to your friend if she's not willing to let this thing go, then she's not a real friend. To compete for him is going to ruin everything. Is this guy who may not like either of you worth ruining a friendship? Think about it.
2007-03-16 16:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think this is a bad situation. One of you is going to get hurt because one of you is going to make a move for him. The best advice i can give is that the both of you move on from him, but we all know that's not easy. If you hook up with him or if she does it could get very messy, such as there could be some lies going around, not that that i think you two would go behind each others back.
2007-03-16 16:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it really doesn't matter if the both of you like the same guy...it matters which one HE likes.
Good luck...and I think it was crappy of your bff to say that she felt the same after you told her, then said that you would fight it out...how stupid. If my friend told me she liked someone, they were and are off limits...if he didn't want her, then I wasn't going to be with him knowing it would hurt her feelings. There are plenty of fish in the sea...
2007-03-16 16:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Stef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bff's should not date a guy they both like. That can tear a friendship. Maybe talk to your friend about it. And if you decide you want to date this guy, make sure your friend wont get hurt about it.
2007-03-16 16:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kandi :P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a moment and ask yourself if the guy is worth losing your best friend. Remember only your heart can answer this.
2007-03-16 16:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by bellacanadian_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep your best friend you need to make a pack to both stay away from him. Trust me, no guy is worth losing a best friend over.
2007-03-16 16:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never knew, she might be right, don't let it bother you thou, i think it is better if your friend likes him too, so that you won't be heartbroken if he ends up not talking to you. But i think if the guy ends up with that your friend, you will be pretty mad and want to tear her gutt out.
2007-03-16 16:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont use the word "love" loosely. Second, i suggest rock, paper, scissors.
2007-03-16 16:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scratch her eyes out.
2007-03-16 16:34:30 · answer #11 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋