Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

i am 23, a guy, just curious if you think its hot for a guy to wear a necklace? if so, what is a hot one to get and where to get it? i wanna look hot this summer and curious if you think i should get one or is it stupid? ...oh and im not talking about the silver and gold necklaces, but like the others. ya know? .... i just got back from cancun and im tan now lol

2007-03-13 05:02:26 · 20 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 05:02:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even if there was no relationship involved.(I have a child with him)

2007-03-13 05:01:54 · 19 answers · asked by Stevie T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-13 05:00:50 · 15 answers · asked by living this life 2 in Singles & Dating

I just feel... I don't know!

I feel miserable and everything. And usually when I'm like this I want to shut myself away.

I was crying today in school so they sent me to the doctors. My 'best friend' text me saying that everyone was asking about me and that she doesn't know why they are asking HER. But the text seemed a bit... off. Like she was annoyed at me or something.
I've been trying to shut myself off from her, I just don't want to talk to her when I'm feeling down or anything. Sometimes I just don't want to talk to her at all.
She cheered up a bit and was like "I want you to be happy, I love you" and all of that, and I said it back and everything, but I don't feel like being cheerful towards her.
I don't even want to see her tomorrow, but she's going to be expecting me to talk to her cause she thinks we're ok with each other.

I don't know why I feel this, but I just want to avoid her tomorrow.

What do you think I should do?

2007-03-13 05:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Strawberry 4 in Friends

Ladies there is a girl that I really liked for a while we dated and all of a sudden she said she didnt want to date any more
date anymore I never asked why because it hurt I spent alot of money in time on her because i wanted to make her happy but I tried to kiss her once and she declined but I was still persistent and gave my all.I never approached her sexually but I told her I liked her all the time now after 4 months of not speaking she shows up at my house unannounced..I really care for her but I just cant be hurt again why would she show up at my house and what does she want..I know if I call Im pulled right back into loving her I want to love her but I dont know if she loves me..What do I do I also lost my job and my money is sparse..do I travel down this path or what Please help..

2007-03-13 04:59:01 · 4 answers · asked by doughdzm 2 in Singles & Dating

we were togrther for threr years and i am scard todeath he calls me and thratens me and now he has been going out with my best friend and he tells me this i think that he was just to scard to tell me the truth but my friends tell me diffrent that he rally does have that but why does he throw stake knives at his feet and throws his dad and family members aginst the table and walls and this is not the first time he said stuff like this i'm relly scard and do't know what to do i want to get some advice to see what oyher people say i should do if i should goget more help from other people orif i should just stay here and deal withit i really don't know what to do my mom tels me to go to the cops but i don't want to be a snich i want ot be cool but also i have to rember saftey to so i don't know what to do i am scard an i have been worrying for over a week my dad told me to never date that he t0old me that i was going to get hurtt hat i should have never went with him he is going to do..

2007-03-13 04:58:37 · 17 answers · asked by sexybox 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never been bullied or anything, but I have only a close group of friends. Now, other people, mainly led by one lad - there's about 5 of them altogther - has started calling me stuff. It started when I entered Year 10, and people started to say that i'm like gay (which i'm not) and since everyone uses it as an insult, I never thought much of it, till the teacher in maths has sat this lad and another one together and I can here them saying stuff about me. I'm starting to worry, since i'm not a violent person. The reason for calling me this? 2 of my friends are girls (i'm male) and I don't do PE - since i'm not allowed for medical reasons.
I'm getting really worried and starting to think it's bullying.
I can't talk to my parents, it doesn't seem comfortable, or at school there's no staff I trust.

Advice please???

2007-03-13 04:57:57 · 17 answers · asked by BrilliantPomegranate 4 in Friends

I called him to ask if I could bring anything along on my way home from work and he asked for some bagged spring mix (lettuce). I added the tomato's and the cucumber for salad because I thought just eating plain lettuce wouldnt be very good. I also bought some salad dressing which was a good thing because he did not have any.
I get there and he has prepared 3 iron skillets with olive oil. 1 had scallops, and 1 had shrimp and 1 had some kind of white fish, so we sat down to eat the salad and fish and he brings a glass of orange juice to the table for me with some white foam on it. I asked him what it was and he said "a Harvey wallbanger". He didnt offer a glass of water, an iced tea or anything else except this drink full of alcohol. What do you think is with this? Is he becoming demented or am I just being too picky. He is 54 yrs old. What was he thinking?

2007-03-13 04:57:54 · 18 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

okay so i been dating this guy for a long time well for 8 months but he dosnt live here he is 4 states away. He can be really mean sometime just cause he gets mad at me cause i didnt do something right, so i decided i wanted to see other people for a while and have som time for myself. so he agreed and he see other people or i do but he wont go out with any other girl but i have, I accually went out on a date saturday night and i had a great time and he was so nice. and he likes me and wants to go out someother time. he asked if i would ever consider having a relationship with him and i said i could see that happening someday. so i dont know wether i should go out again or if i should just go back to the guy i was with have him for ever cause thats what he wants but i had such a good time with this new guy, what should i do?

2007-03-13 04:57:30 · 1 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

My finance and I got engaged in November 2005 and close friends of our got engaged within a month after us. We immediately picked our date and booked the reception facility as well as the church. Within the last few months of 2006 beginning of 2007 they booked the same reception site as well as getting our wedding coordinator. And just the other day the bride (also one of my bridesmaids) picked out her dress from the same salon as I did and proceeded to call my dress designer(and my dress) crap. I don’t know what to do. It is really stressing me out. She is doing everything I do! HELP!

2007-03-13 04:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So we are going out for the first time all by our selves! And i dont know what to do! What should I talk about! He is really shy! And What should I do to make him more talkative

2007-03-13 04:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad have been agrguing alot lately and i understand and know married couples do that, but i mean to an exstent no, because my family and i live here in oklahoma, and my grandmother lives in colorado and well she's struggling to pay for bills and things like that and the problem is she could be homeless soon so my mother wants he to move in with us for a coulpe of months and me dad said no, and my mom is kinda sick now because of that because, if it would have been my other grandmother my dad would have said yes with a heart beat, so now i think my mom wants to divorce him, because she says she hates him and things like that now. what should i or could i do because this is ripping my family apart.!!!!!!!

2007-03-13 04:55:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i ask this as i saw many of the boys proposed to the girls who just spoke friendly

2007-03-13 04:55:17 · 9 answers · asked by shylu 1 in Friends

i am nothin like cameron diaz, or scarlett johansen... do i still have a chance?

2007-03-13 04:55:16 · 25 answers · asked by binxyuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 04:55:14 · 18 answers · asked by ashleyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

My niece just got married. I was unable to attend (as it was in another part of the country). I would like to send her and her groom a gift by mail - nothing too heavy - any suggestions?

2007-03-13 04:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by 13th Floor 6 in Weddings

So, I loaned a very close friend $400 over Christmas and she still hasn't paid me back. I'm sure she's just forgotten, but how do I remind her without sounding like a jerk?

2007-03-13 04:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by foofile 2 in Friends

I am 15 years old and my bf is 17 and has all this planed out that we r going 2 get merried.NEED HELP

2007-03-13 04:54:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband has two kids from an affair how much support should I expect him to give to that "family".We have three kids and he hardly spends anytime at all with them.

2007-03-13 04:53:06 · 11 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 04:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Weddings

2007-03-13 04:52:17 · 16 answers · asked by Jennifer f 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy cares a lot bout me but I really don't know what's he's thinking. His friend ask him whether he likes me or not but he juz smile and said I've no money. If I like her, don't know she will likes me or not.. What does this mean? If a guy cares a lot bout a gal, does it means he likes her? Or juz assume her as his sister or closer friend? Guys please share..

2007-03-13 04:52:12 · 7 answers · asked by Confused!! 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF of 6 months has been waiting for 2 1/2 yrs. for his divorce. It has been HELL - married for 28 years, brought up two kids, had the house w/picket fence type deal until his now ex decided she did not want the life anymore and left him. It was an very bad time for him, but he began to pull out of it and was doing good when we met. Yesterday what he thought would be a regular court day turned out to be the day things got settled. He did not tell me details except that he has to move out of the house (it was her family home and we have already talked of moving in together) - but still - he paid & pays for EVERYTHING! I also know she got no support. However this morning, he hurt his back and called me - I went over to help and in tears he told me again how much he loves me & that he's sorry & how he's such a wreck - etc.. I am worried that I do not know what to do to get him through this - any advice? I'm not worried that our relationship will end -just want to get him through

2007-03-13 04:51:50 · 14 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

That's way too ridiculous! I brought my buddy home and he was doing this with my grandma the next day! Although i can't deny that my grandma is indeed hot for her age(she's 57) but that was too embarassing! i saw some things that i shouldn't see at all! help!

2007-03-13 04:51:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-13 04:50:52 · 17 answers · asked by Tatami 1 in Singles & Dating

If a woman that you are friends with asks you out would you say yes even if you weren't attracted to her? Or would you say no right off the bat? And she isn't asking you out on a "friend date", she has told you she thinks you are hot. I've heard it is hard for guys to just say no.

2007-03-13 04:50:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Under more or less normal circumstances, that is. It would be interesting to discuss this topic for victims of child abuse/neglect, etc., but that isn't my main question.

2007-03-13 04:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by WAC 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm thinking of starting my own advice column regarding dating/friendships/divorce. I have over two pages of Yahoo Best Answeres on these subjects so far. Let me know what you all think!

2007-03-13 04:49:13 · 7 answers · asked by suzlaa1971 5 in Marriage & Divorce

his/her look
his/her personality
his/her age

2007-03-13 04:49:01 · 5 answers · asked by nora s 2 in Singles & Dating