Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

Thank you for most of the advice. To "H", you tell me I should be ashamed of myself. This girl has a room in my home, I take her to the doctors, I kiss her boo boo's, I go to her school functions, I am her "mother" in every sense of the word. Her biological mother gave birth to her...that's all. I was feeling bad because she felt bad not having any of our last names. So I am not ashamed of myself. You should be ashamed passing judgement on someone.I'll keep you in my prayers "H", that no one is as fast to judge you.

2007-03-13 05:14:44 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetannie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last week my bf broke up with me, and even though we didnt date that long, ( only for 2 and half months) we were friends before that for 2 years. I went phycho went he broke up with me, I refused to do so. Well we broke up because apperently i was crying before we lost our virginity, and he said he couldnt do that to someone he loves. Well later he said i will always be there for you, for support as a friend if you need me. I was violent and cried, he had a lot of patience, until i got to crazy.
A few days later I asked for a second chance and he said, no it doesnt matter how many times you ask, the answer is always going to be no. I kept yelling and him at how he used me, and he just ok im going to hang up, I called him again, and I said no I wasnt done telling you everything, and hje said, goodbye, its been fun. I did the same thing at least two more times, until he said, ok, im going to give you a set of instructions, never call this number again. ( he hangs up)

2007-03-13 05:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now the last two months we decided to be exclusive with only each other, since then he has invited me along with him where ever he went this past weekend he and his daughter were invited to a kids birthday party at his ex's house, he didn't want me to come he said it wouldn't be right for the children and not right the first time that he has been invited over there since he and I made it exclusive but the thing is that I have already met his ex and conversed with her a couple times and I have played with her kids, my boyfriend and her broke up over a year ago so it's not like they just recently ended things and that she doesn't know about me. And now he has said that he doesn't know if he wants to see me anymore because they way I acted when he left to go to the party the only way I acted was that I wasn't being real lovely to him I was treating him just like he was a guy friend.

2007-03-13 05:14:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The event company would organise all aspects of your wedding proposal, based on information provided from the person proposing and from there arrangements would be made including hotel bookings, restaurant bookings, flowers, champagne, chocolates and the even the engagement ring. The company would be there to give you ideas on how to make it truly special and give it a wow factor, by making recommendations and take the hassle out of booking and arranging things, as all you would have to do is pop the question!! Would this service be something you would consider using?? Or would you mind if your partner used a company for your proposal??

2007-03-13 05:14:02 · 18 answers · asked by jenny w 1 in Weddings

2007-03-13 05:13:12 · 7 answers · asked by one_man_show_clear 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, asking me to dance, coming outside when I was..etc

She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her in 5 days as i am busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer

What the hell went on?

2007-03-13 05:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Singles & Dating

someone made a will, how do i find out if i am in the will

2007-03-13 05:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by LUCY W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was born in a devout Mormon family, and exited when I turned 37. The more I learn about this religion, the more intrigued I am.

(See: exmormon.org and also, LDS.org)

This is a nearly 13 million member church, founded by a New York scoundrel in 1830, but has evolved into a respectable and influential world power, thanks to brilliant filmmaking, annual whitewashes and a few sincere, good men and women.

Tune in to their Conference in early April, and you'll see its allure.

Yet, visit the website where thousands of ex-Mormons post the reasons they left this faith, (the only true church), and you'll never let their missionaries over your threshhold.

As I said...intriguing. We live in a wonderful wierld, and life is beyond strange, thank God, coz I detest boredom.

2007-03-13 05:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She enjoys them but does not write back .
I have asked should i just let it Go.
Any advise ?

2007-03-13 05:11:13 · 2 answers · asked by Duck / Deer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy but he's not really into the whole gf and bf situatuion. But I like flirting wit him and at times I'm not sure if he's serious when he passiveagressively asks me out, It's kind of childish but I can't help that I like him. What do I do? Should blow him off?

2007-03-13 05:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by tai&amc 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and a guy i work with have been flirting with each other for months now and became really good friends. I must admit i did fancy him but as he has a girlfriend and i have a long term boyfriend i never thought anything would happen even though we had sent some sexy texts to each other. Then saturday night i was out with some friends and bumped into him on my way to get a taxi we decided to share a taxi home and to cut a long story short we ended up at a friends house having sex! to be honest it was a bit of a drunken disaster. Now he is texting me asking to see me again and im really tempted what should i do?????

2007-03-13 05:10:44 · 44 answers · asked by lucylou 3 in Singles & Dating

When u meet someone, as friends, and u hear them say "no strings"

2007-03-13 05:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by code_blue07 1 in Friends

I've been having problems with this one so i;d appreiciate any help i could get. my girlfriend had revealed to me that a year or two ago she was at a party and gave a handjob to two guys at the same time. Not just any guys the lowest of the low gangstas. It's really been bothering me the image just keeps popping into my head like a movie and when i talk to her now it's like arrrggghh! I called her out on it last night as a matter of fact saying that she was being extremley slutty and the like and she was saying "it's in the past i'm sorry" saying that she was lonely and thought she would get shown affection to me that was stupid she has some self esteem issues. What do you guys think do you think i should try and stick it out or should i just fire(break up with) her?

2007-03-13 05:10:04 · 1 answers · asked by the_prefects 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are thinking about getting married at the beach. Just us 2 eloping. What do you think of this dress.

http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ih=018&sspagename=STRK%3AMEWA%3AIT&viewitem=&item=280073798620&rd=1&rd=1

2007-03-13 05:08:53 · 28 answers · asked by gizmo0013 4 in Weddings

I'm nice, quiet, alright lookin, smart, and a good personality! Problem iz, i'm not very noticed cuz I'm not all over guys! How do i get noticed?

2007-03-13 05:08:52 · 16 answers · asked by Mona lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I moved in with him two months ago. We get along great. The only problem is, his mother tries to control our lives. My boyfriend owns the house with his mother. He took a mortgage out on his own to completely renovate the house last year. We're now in the process of redoing the backyard with a new deck and hot tub. His mother is completely trying to control all of our plans. She actually told me that her name should be on our savings account because we're saving money for renovations to HER house. She calls my boyfriend around 5 times a day just to nag him. Whenever he tells her anything that we have planned she is completely negative. When she comes to the house, it's unannounced and when she's there for 5 mins. she analyzes everything and says that the house is a mess, which is completely BS. My boyfriend cringes when his mother calls or comes to the house, but he never stands up to her. What do I do?

2007-03-13 05:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by Sunshine Girl 1 in Family

My cousin is dating this younger guy for almost two years. He did eveything in the world to her. He cheated on her with numerous females. Brought chicks to her house and have sex on one chick on her bed. Pick chicks up in her car. He also put his hands on her. But , the thing is she's three months pregnant by him. She had two miscarrages and tried her best to become pregnant by this guy. May I add, this guy is five years younger than us. The more our much older cousin, her friends that have kids by dead beat dads and I that have kids by a dead beat dad tells her what she's about to get her self into. She gets mad at me because she's so in love with this guy. The drama never stops and her calling and crying to me is really making me not want to talk or listen her her anymore. How can I tell my cousin to not call me or tell me when he screws her over without hurting her feelings?

2007-03-13 05:07:10 · 11 answers · asked by B.A.P.S 1 in Singles & Dating

I had asked a question about my husbands ex. I talked to his friend the other day and he had said that my husbands ex had told him that she has been having dreams about him and that she is jealous of me etc etc. That the reason she hasnt let go is because my husband never really pulled the plug he never said leave me alone dont talk to me and all of that. I dont find that as an excuse wouldnt you think after almost a year of not talking she should have forgotten about him anyway. My question for this is I dont think he should go back and tell her not to talk to him and all of that i think he should leave it alone and move on like we have been doing. I think going back and saying what he shouldve said will cause problems what do you all think

2007-03-13 05:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have this desire to have my wife tease me about how small my package is and I wanted to know if there were other couples into this kind of play. How did you get started? Were the uncomfortable feelings and if so, how did you alleviate those? Do you have any suggestions for me?

2007-03-13 05:06:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 05:06:02 · 11 answers · asked by merry_schumacher 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee(Dean) and his dad had a big fight last night about how his dad treats people like crap (he really does) and in the mits of the argument Dean's dad told Dean that my dad 'kisses his ***' because my dad will do stuff for Dean that his dad won't. Plus, we have more than his family, and no we DO NOT flaunt it. My family is very humble.
Dean's dad resents anyone of importantce in his son's life. Dean was very upset and I'm pissed off because of the way his dad treats his two sons and dislikes my family. He treated his wife very porrly and does the same to his sons now that his wife has passed on.
What do I do? Knowing the info I do how he resents my family.. I'm pissed off and feel like "Fu- it" I'm not sure how to react to this and really need advice. Thank you very much for listening to me :)

2007-03-13 05:05:44 · 2 answers · asked by All I have to do is dream... 4 in Family

ok, here it is... i live with my godmother and once i decided to introduce my boyfriend to her and then when she did she couldn't stop talking... she even started talking about her grtanddaughter who's a doctor and took him to the living room to show him her pics and blah blah.... i got very annoyed and ended up going upstairs leaving the two of them alone... whenever he calls, she always raises her voice so he could hear her but i don't pay attention to her.. then when he calls she says he's calling to check on both of us... uh,no. he's calling to check on me... she then keeps asking me when he's going to call and if am sure he hasn't got another girlfriend..now she knows he's always with me so how could he have another g. friend... this is not the first time she's done this...i was once dating a doctor and she said... he would like her granddaughter,too.then i got asked for an interview and she told me i couldn't do all that work and that people are prejudice.. whats her problem.??

2007-03-13 05:05:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 05:05:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sakina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is better tom boy or girly girl and can you tell me how to become one

Thank you

2007-03-13 05:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he'll be 22 and i will be 19 so we are both adults

2007-03-13 05:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by brown eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

enjoys camping, going to faires, the beach, outside enjoying the weather. I can't seem to find anyone who enjoys these things - perhaps I'm looking in all the wrong places? Any suggestions?

2007-03-13 05:04:48 · 6 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Singles & Dating

hey im 23, a guy, just wondering if your a girl how often you would like for me to go shirtless? what things or events would you expect me to be shirtless? what is a cool look? im in descent shape, 5'11. 190. and tan.... and if your a guy you can answer too but whats your opinion on being shirtless. thanks everyone!!

2007-03-13 05:04:45 · 9 answers · asked by flyboy7683 2 in Singles & Dating

what is thae thing that climbes up the mountain with 3 legs...climbes down the mountain with 4 legs

100$ for the right answer

2007-03-13 05:04:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiencees wife left him three years aggo he cant find her and hasent herd any thing from her. can he remarry now or how can he get a divorce or be clear to remarry

2007-03-13 05:03:58 · 12 answers · asked by brandedcountry2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 05:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce