I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, asking me to dance, coming outside when I was..etc
She crossed my mind since so I got her number from my friends new wife. When I called I could hear she was driving so I told her I'd call back in 15. I did. she did not answer. I text her to say i dont understand the ignorance but i would take it as she is having a bad day. she text me back that night saying she had a hard day and she would be free next day should i wish to call. I called her in 5 days as i am busy. No answer. I text her the last time to say I like you so far it would be good if she could call me when she is free. 5 days later she text me apologising for not returning my call as she was busy with work and what have you. told me hey maybe give me a call during the day. looking at current trends i am no fool - she will not answer
What the hell went on?
2007-03-13 05:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand the girl is poor - so I thought maybe she has no credit on her phone. I told her if she has no credit just prank me and I'd call back, but she text me instead, using my suggestion of no credit on her phone as an excuse?
2007-03-13 05:13:04 · update #1
maybe she's just playing the "hard to get game"!
2007-03-13 05:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by swt-bby-gl-69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too much analyzation on your part. Maybe she was busy. But if you feel she is ignoring you, maybe she just changed her mind. To find out ask her out on a date. Don't ask a bunch of emotional questions or she will think you are desperate and needy and she will not like that. If she goes on a date with you she likes you. If she does not, move on. If she is not available for the date you select, ask her point blank--do you have a day where you would like to go out on a date or are you too busy at this point in your life? She will either have to tell you when she wants to go out or that she doesn't. If she is too busy---then move on. She doesn't like you. Don't let her keep stringing you along. Then she'll just be using you.
2007-03-13 05:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're going by current trends, remember you took five days to get back to her after saying you'd call the next day. maybe she's thinking exactly the same about you and doesnt want to be messed around. stop foolin and pick up the phone. once you have her talking, arrange a specific time and place to actually meet up. only then are you gona be able to see if you want to continue things - having some sort of mind-game war over mobile phones is only gona confuse you and aint gona get you anywhere!
2007-03-13 05:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likely is putting up a barrier. You damage her earlier and also you would possibly want to do it back. even inspite of the actuality that you say you've replaced, you want to practice it. that's going to take time yet you if she's worth it you received't options. If she did not experience some thing for you, she would not be with you. both ask her if she does love you or save exhibiting her how a lot you're taking care of her and she may basically experience tender enought to allow you to know how a lot she cares. best of success
2016-12-01 22:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She want to but ain't sure. That's the thing. She thinks about it, but hasn't made her mind yet. Give it a try, slowly and calmly and next time try to call when you said you would. If she doesn't pick it up again and return your call, ask her out to see what she says. If she wont just quit and let her call, if she wants to.
2007-03-13 05:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by helena_m_p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then leave her a lone. If I was digging a guy, I'd get to a phone by any means. I'd use a pay phone if my phone was cut off, or a friends phone. To be honest, she is probably already spoken for and is trying to be slick.
2007-03-13 05:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by China Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
News Flash lol girls play games too!! Maybe she is playing hard to get. I would call your friends wife and see what the deal is!
2007-03-13 05:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly there is such a thing as no credit but free text messages and secondly, from what you have said, she really likes you and because you didn't phone back straight away she was probably trying to teach you a lesson lol
2007-03-13 05:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have some girlfriends that has to count on their phone credits...it's really annoying sometimes...but you have to think about how much MORE annoyed she is too! trust me...i think you should ask her email, then ask her out....if she refuses and make up excuses...then you'll know for sure, she doesn't like you or changes her mind. Good Luck!
2007-03-13 05:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the baseball method of elimination 3 strikes your out next batter up dump her shes not worthy of u if shes not decent enough to at least call you back on the first try lifes too short
2007-03-13 05:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I believe she is blowing you off. I'm not sure why because I don't know anything about you, but definitely, she's blowing you off. Move on and good luck. I wish someone would wish I could call them!!
2007-03-13 05:18:36 · answer #11 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋