Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

my best friend and i both liked the same guy so i said she can be with him so she did he broke up with her today at school and is now smsing me and stuff he said he likes me i still like him but dont want to hurt my friend where do i go from here?

MUST I GO OUT WITH HIM OR NOT IM SO CONFUSED??

2007-03-13 04:48:52 · 14 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my girlfriend very much, I believe that with all my heart. I try to always be there for her, and take care of her. Always try to make her happy. It makes me happy just to make her happy. But yes I have those times (which is a lot) where I just want her. But there are also times when I just want to hold her in my arms and just hug her all day, or take a nap with her in my arms. I focus a lot on her, even during work I think of her and work even harder. She makes me happy, she makes me feel loved. All I want to to do is love her and make her happy. She is the whole world to me. So how do I know if it's love or lust?

2007-03-13 04:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by Thomas 3 in Singles & Dating

I work in sales so i have to make loadsa calls,i phoned this company this guy answered sounded realy cute,we both went to talk at the same time,i said "u go first" he said"no you" i said"no you" then he said"no you i like the sound of your voice" I replied "u sound alrite yourself" we both laughed! then he said if u wana talk again give me a call on this number. Im tempted to call him for a chat,but dont know whether to or not???

2007-03-13 04:48:26 · 45 answers · asked by DREAMER 2 in Singles & Dating

how was it?

2007-03-13 04:48:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The problem is that when I'm really tired and just want to cuddle he gets mad that we are not having sex and won't even sleep in the same room as me. It makes me feel like maybe that's all I am to him, because he only wants to sleep next to me when we have had sex. Should I stay or go?

2007-03-13 04:48:08 · 18 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having a difficult time dealing with the fact that men have such high testoteron levels. I accept the fact that is it is biological. However, I would never want to keep a man confined to a marriage if he has a biological need for variety, but I would also not like to be with man and share him with other women and just be a object of his desires. Sex is not that important to me, and I think that it is overrated. I don't believe that one woman can satisfy a man. It would be like trying to satisfy a crack addict. Should I give up on men?

2007-03-13 04:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have never had a boyfriend. i have always wanted one. seei have no frigen clue of what i am doing wrong. i am being my self. like everyone tells me. what am i doing wrong.

2007-03-13 04:47:42 · 2 answers · asked by kelly s 2 in Singles & Dating

The question gives all the details needed.

2007-03-13 04:47:13 · 6 answers · asked by nick b 1 in Singles & Dating

Im running away because my mom is sending me to a boarding school next year I told my friend and she said i can live in her rv but....

2007-03-13 04:46:38 · 11 answers · asked by Popular girl 1 in Friends

I often dream about my husband, and sometimes the dreams are bad. And I wake up and I am so mad and during the morning I sit around and think about the dream. I know that he didn't do it in real life, but I still get angry for a few hours... Anyone else do this?

2007-03-13 04:46:02 · 11 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

As I am presenty planning my escape route from my ex-girlfriend, should I just let her come home to an empty house, or rip into her why I am leaving(got sick of someone who turned into a patented complaint machine).

Any suggestions for this goodbye?

2007-03-13 04:45:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 4 years told one of his friends (which his friend told his siter who in return told me) that my boyfriend is going to ask me to marry him the day of my gradutation. What should I do? Should I belive this trail of information or just pretend I never heard any of it?

2007-03-13 04:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Weddings

I am currently a undergraduate who can attain my bachelors degree in 2 more years at my local college. However I was transfering. I feel that even though I excel academically at this college, I am not enjoying it. Its hard for me to relate to most of the male students here because everyone seems to not do school work and they like to act bad. I want to go to a school where I can compete against top notch students and have intelligent conversations with people who will be successful. I dont like the college atmosphere here the only thing people do for fun is dance and I want to be able to attend a big university so I can watch football and go to more functions. Secondly, I feel that its hard for me to get girls here because when I first came some of them thought I was a nerd and dont think I can change to give them a good time. Do you think these reasons are worth transfering?

2007-03-13 04:44:34 · 4 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Friends

We have been seeing eachother for 7 months. She started going to a new church and now that she is becoming a member, she thinks we should not be together intimately anymore until we're married. I don't see how she can just make that change and not expect me to throw some kind of flag up. I love her but I can't even think about marriage for another year due to school and work. What if I can't wait, am I a jerk?

2007-03-13 04:43:47 · 24 answers · asked by Animal instincts 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I've got a bit of a problem. I just recently broke up with a guy I was dating for about a year. He's a really great guy but a lil too jealous and always wanting to keep me really close to him and stuff. Well we broke up and I ended up calling my ex bf (who I dated for 2 1/2 years) and we both never really got over eachother. I kept comparing him to the guy I was dating and missing him and even wishing I was with him still. Well when I called him I found out he's in California (I'm in Texas) and he asked me if I wanted him to come back. We talked for about 2 hours and hasn't called me in 2 days when he said he'd call me the next day. The guy I just broke up with is still calling and saying he loves me and that he'll try anything to be with me. my problem is should I try to work things out with the guy I just broke up with, get back together with my ex that is in Cali or just take some time for myself? I'm kinda unsure about things right now but I dont want to be alone.

2007-03-13 04:43:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband know when is my birthday but he never do anything special .
I am not ask him for money or gift?The only thing, I what is a romantic dinner and a hot night.What is so wrong that I what to speed time with my husband .
We never spend time together because he working in night and the time he have he spend it with his kids how is 5,8 and my step son how is 12 year old.
Dot get mi wrong I love my kids and my step son .I just what to spend time with my husband. Tell mi if that wrong to ask to spend time together.

2007-03-13 04:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetlove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met him recently through a mutual friend and then he started e-mailing me (we're both on Match.com) He seems really nice and I'm interested in him. I noticed his profile says "never married." I'm wondering if this should be a kind of "red flag." I haven't asked him about it yet - I didn't want to put him on the spot. But what is your opinion of how a guy can reach 50 years old and never have been married?

2007-03-13 04:43:09 · 59 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

Other than her two sisters, my wife has a close friend who, like her, is a middle-aged lady born in the Philippines but now a U.S. citizen. In my opinion, this woman is incredibly selfish and mean-spirited. She drove out her first husband because she was angry that he sent money to the Philippines to help two illegitimate children he had fathered by his family's helper (housekeeper) before he married her. When he moved out, she allowed another man into her house to live there and sleep with her even though she had a young son (the son of her and her former husband) in the house. Eventually, she kicked out the guy she had been shacking up with. She backbites and heaps scorn on all these men and just about everyone she knows. My wife is the only one who can stand her on a regular basis. Everyone else stops being friends with her after awhile. She helped us when my wife was in the hospital, and helped my sister-in-law find an apartment. But she is incredibly obnoxious.

2007-03-13 04:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i didnt fall to sleep at all last night got 0 hours, then took a shower to get ready even though i felt dead but decided to just stay home because im restless should i feel guilty?

2007-03-13 04:42:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"Are you talking to me?" she said passing by
"Yes, you ... you ... next to the bald-headed guy,
"I think you're real gorgeous ... that flaming red hair
Is exceedingly beautiful and really quite rare.

"I love the way that it curls round your face,
And the way that it seems your ears to embrace,
And the way that it darkens the green of your eyes,
And the way on your cheek that a loose tendril lies."

She took a deep breath as she paused in her stride,
Her lips slowly parted, her eyes opened wide,
She smiled as she whipped the wig from her head,
"If you like it so much, here, you wear it instead."

2007-03-13 04:42:14 · 1 answers · asked by fashiondivagurl06 1 in Singles & Dating

im going to stay at my bf house and last time i went i needed to go for a number 2 but i held it in until i left im worried it gonna happen again how can i distract him long enough for me to go for one and what should i do if it dont go down in the first flush

2007-03-13 04:42:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 04:41:06 · 18 answers · asked by KJK 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 04:40:53 · 9 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Friends

I am sick of dating and more sick of men who I think are the nice guys and end up being the terds who either are emotionally distant, or committment phobes. I just want someone to appreciate me & all that I offer. Is that too much to ask?

2007-03-13 04:40:12 · 10 answers · asked by cookie 2 in Singles & Dating

Who else was spending the night on the couch last night because of a fight? Share your stories.. Did you wake up angry this morning? Do you think it's better to sleep beside your partner when you're mad or to spend the night on the couch instead (or make them sleep there).
I know you shouldn't go to bed angry but he was tired and we didn't have time to resolve our argument before bedtime.
I'm still mad this morning. How about you?

2007-03-13 04:39:55 · 25 answers · asked by •√¡rgő• 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-03-13 04:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by Forastero 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you know you are truly in love? i belive i am in love with my bf but how do i know it isnt lust instead? he was there for me when i was in a bad relationship and was a great friend to me. he never pushed a relationship on me although i knew he still liked me. he is proably my best friend. it is all confusing. i would appriceate any help with this. i am 17 so i am not just a silly girl with a crsh.

2007-03-13 04:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 04:39:03 · 13 answers · asked by prasad m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been single for two years, officially. I am just curious to get advice and tips. Plus, still hoping to find someone special. :o)

2007-03-13 04:38:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

could people please read the above separate posts and then comment? as I seem to be accused of cheating when I haven't done anything! I have a dilemma and just wanted to sound people out, doesn't mean im going to act on it! thanks

2007-03-13 04:38:16 · 3 answers · asked by nc 3 in Other - Family & Relationships