I am having a difficult time dealing with the fact that men have such high testoteron levels. I accept the fact that is it is biological. However, I would never want to keep a man confined to a marriage if he has a biological need for variety, but I would also not like to be with man and share him with other women and just be a object of his desires. Sex is not that important to me, and I think that it is overrated. I don't believe that one woman can satisfy a man. It would be like trying to satisfy a crack addict. Should I give up on men?
2007-03-13 04:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have not found the right one! You are very understanding of a mans needs and you are leaps and bounds ahead of most women!! Give it time be patient and you will be fine!
2007-03-13 05:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it men's potential promiscuity that puts you off? Or is it the frequency of their need for sex, even if being faithful to you, that bothers you? Or both?
Just how many men have you known? (I don't mean only in the biblical sense, although that question makes sense, too.) Why is it you think all men are alike? i.e., all have high sex drives? That simply isn't true.
Just the other day on one of these boards, I posted an answer to a woman who was complaining her man didn't make love to her enough: "Is it me? I thought all men were constantly horny?"
You know what? Men are people, just like you. =D Shocker, right? Some have high sex drives, some low, some none. Maybe there's a little more range of variation among men, I might grant you that (higher highs, lower lows). But there's one out there for you, so don't give up.
2007-03-13 11:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about the same things sometimes. I mean, women were used for sexual pleasures so many times in the past that it is carried on and modified in modern times. Although men indulge in such pleasures, it is not generalized. I mean, not ALL men live for sex. They are humans too and seek partners they could trust and share interests with,,,, to grow old with. So, there's also a social aspect to it as much as biological reasonings. I say, don't give up on men... but find the one that best suit your personality... hope this helps :D
2007-03-13 11:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like somone showed you a side of men that has hurt you.Look if sex is not that important to you, then get a friend with benefits and let the good times roll.One woman can satisfy a man if hes not a dick head and has respect for his mate.He'll come in your life and you will change.Until then, have the life you want with or without a male in it.
2007-03-13 12:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't completely give up lol. Find someone that has the same interests in life as you. I know it is hard to do but patience will pay off. Not every guy bases a relationship on sex. There are many guys that are fine with once a week or so. OR maybe you need to find that passion inside of you. That will make you want to be more intamate with a guy. Good luck!
2007-03-13 11:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by supergoober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is mentally and emotionally healthy to have a partner. Not all men are as you indoctrinated yourself. Be careful, your idea of man can lead your subconsciousness to that kind of men. Think Positive. Tell yourself there are still some good men out there. Just try and be patient. If not in your home country, maybe overseas. Good luck.
2007-03-13 12:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you think this way, yes , you should give up on men, untill you find a good gentleman who will change your idea about men, but tell me my friend, do you think you should have a girl friend ? it's nature to attract to the opposit sex,
think what made you have such an idea , and why sex is not important to you ?
2007-03-13 11:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
woa there hunnie....it is definately possible to satisfy a man....granted most men are pigs and want every woman they see (and most of the time dont even care what they look like) BUT and this is a big BUT if the guy is in LOVE with you it would never be about the sex, it would be about you, he would never even think of wanting to be with another woman because you are the only person that he thinks about :)....i've had alot of bad experiences too, but never give up, trust me you'll find someone special to share your life with, just give it time ;)
2007-03-13 11:53:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a man and I do know I can be satisfied with one woman.
That's not exactly an answer, but should give you an idea.
2007-03-13 12:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tayfun T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up on men - they're an extremely important part of our lives - they're not our entire lives, but definitely important.
2007-03-13 11:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋