Okay, so I've got a bit of a problem. I just recently broke up with a guy I was dating for about a year. He's a really great guy but a lil too jealous and always wanting to keep me really close to him and stuff. Well we broke up and I ended up calling my ex bf (who I dated for 2 1/2 years) and we both never really got over eachother. I kept comparing him to the guy I was dating and missing him and even wishing I was with him still. Well when I called him I found out he's in California (I'm in Texas) and he asked me if I wanted him to come back. We talked for about 2 hours and hasn't called me in 2 days when he said he'd call me the next day. The guy I just broke up with is still calling and saying he loves me and that he'll try anything to be with me. my problem is should I try to work things out with the guy I just broke up with, get back together with my ex that is in Cali or just take some time for myself? I'm kinda unsure about things right now but I dont want to be alone.
2007-03-13 04:43:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard to be alone after such a relationship. I broke up with my beau after a couple of years. It was hard at first. Time heals all. I stayed single for two years and I actully leraned who I was and what I wanted out of life. So when my now fiance came into the picture I had no one ot compare him too and I was ready for a commitment. Right now you are very confused and you just need a few minutes alone. Take a bath and relax. Find yourself first before you can give you heart away. Time will tell and you will be ready. I hope this helps!! Much luck to you!!
2007-03-13 04:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by misty g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly where your coming from cause I am going through the same thing, expect the a tiny bit different, but I am too talking to an ex that i have never really got over. I think what you should do is take your time you really dont' have to rush in making a descion right away. I think you should take some time out for yourself and go out withthe girls and be single for a while. It will give you a chance to clear your head and give you a different perspective on things and let you know what you really want your ex or the current. Maybe you'll decide that niether of them. But be single for a while...
good luck
2007-03-13 11:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take some time and ask your self why did each of the relationships end? There is a reason why you broke up. The guy you just broke up with sounds a little to obsessive, that can be a bad thing. Don't jump into someones arms imediately or you might regret it. Give yourself atleast a month before you make any decisions. Good luck!
2007-03-13 11:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by supergoober 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Honey , noone wants to be alone . The way to decide between the two and it might be silly but do an compare and contrast . List all the things you like about the 2 guys and then list what you dont like and then make your choice .
For right now it seems more important to find out what you need . I say before deciding take time for self and reflect .
C
2007-03-13 11:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋