Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

so, i've been in touch with my ex and asked him what he expected from me and he told me that he wanted something further and to take it slow to see if this is what I really want but he also understood that I have a boyfriend at the moment. you see we dated a few years back but never really finished it, just drifted apart. does he sound genuine? i still have feelings for him as he was my first, but i'm also in love with my bf. my bf and i have been on a rocky patch and we are working on it and part of me wants to jump at the chance. help!!!!

2007-03-13 04:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by nc 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok I need you ladies in dating mode not relationship mode to think on this one. When you decide to have a guy go out with you, what are some things a guy does that puts him in the frirnd zone with you ?

2007-03-13 04:17:27 · 8 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

My life is this: Go to work, see my boyfriend, go home and sleep and see him basically all weekend. May 25/07 will be our 6yr anniversary. we do EVERYTHING together. dinners, movies, clubs, gym, recreational activities, board games, watch TV. etc. we are always together, but we have fun. We are each other's best friend and we enjoy each other's company more than anyone.

yes, we have our alone time, but I have no friends and the thing is I don't really care. Everyone tells me that I need to have my own life as well and go out, meet people, have fun... on my own. Are they right? are we in an unhealthy relationship? I sometimes ignore people or choose to be with him instead.

Right now we are working on creating our own business and we have no time for anyone else anyways. really I don't see what's wrong with this......

2007-03-13 04:16:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i havea female friend and we're really close but she only looks at me as a friend, how do i impress her?

2007-03-13 04:16:48 · 4 answers · asked by Sleepless 2 in Friends

2007-03-13 04:16:47 · 5 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 04:16:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Not asking for big diamond-only tiny diamonds in a band. Divorced 34 years so getting married again is a BIG deal for me. Feeling a bit disappointed that fiance doesn't want to spend money on a nicer ring for me. Not sure how to handle.

2007-03-13 04:15:57 · 22 answers · asked by jazziejannieb 1 in Weddings

OK, this is the situation. I've recently started to have this fantasy about having my wife have sex with another man, or having a threesome. I know some of you might say "that's horrible!" etc, but like a girlfriend told me: "that's your fantasy, and it is almost like any person's fantasy, that's it."

Now the question is that, when I gave my wife a clue about that [ I thought she'd be upset, but she wasn't; lucky me ;) ], she said , "I don't think that'd be a good idea." When I asked her why, she said "it's easy for a woman to fall in love with a man by having sex."

This made me feel confused. I know women are more emotional, but sex provides physical pleasure, right? Someone told me "we woman try to make a deep connection with our man when having sex, it's like a very personal connection."

Now I don't understand, when women masturbate, and use a dildo. They're not trying to "make a connection" with the dildo, right? Women also have physical needs. What am I missing?

2007-03-13 04:15:53 · 14 answers · asked by Forastero 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.

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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???

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has it beenn 2 long??

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please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing

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all her friends r mine and we met at a party a few months ago, when she saw i was upset she started crying, we cant avoid each other, i love her and its going on 2 long, plz help folks

2007-03-13 04:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone know how long this process could possibly take and how long recovery will be? My boyfriend has to have 9 teeth extracted plus alveoplasty. All of this is only on the top teeth (not doing the bottom just yet). Any info appreciated.
Thanks. ***sorry I have asked this is already but putting it in other catagories trying to get answers, thanks***

2007-03-13 04:15:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many of you women out there when you met your husband knew from some kind of gut instinct that he was the one/your soulmate? Did you have one? Do you believe that thats possible?

2007-03-13 04:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by TheLight 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been trying to get back with an Ex. We had a great relationship. We took some time apart I guess.. and I just told " I loved you" because of the fact that I realized that I do love him. How to guys take that?? Do they like it when a women tell them? I need men to answer this question... ty

2007-03-13 04:14:48 · 17 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

We go to college together. He has a girl back home. he goes home on the week ends. He sits next to me in history class... One day I sat one seat in at the last row. He sat next to me, which is where he had been sitting. Next class, I moved up one, and he moved up one with me. Yesterday, I left the class at the end quickly, cause I really needed to use the ladies room. When I came out, he was walking down the hall. He jokingly told me that I had been peeking out of the door waiting till he came by to "walk him home". I was indignant! ... Atleast I acted that way. I am NOT good at flirting. so then, he did something else, and mean person that I am, I pulled his hair. And then he had the gall to say that I just wanted to touch his hair before he cut it ( he was going to be getting a hair cut). Do you think I stand a chance with him? If so, how do I fully capture his interest?!!!! I ignore him alot just because I don't want to obviously flirt with him.Help! I am so mean!

2007-03-13 04:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by chocolatee 1 in Singles & Dating

i have known the guy for more than two months now...we chatted for a month and met each other....twice!!! then he went back to his hometown,..but he never failed to give me a ring and to send me messages...
when he came back, he said he'll see me again,...( his place is just 3 hours from the city)....and before he could get there,..he'll pass by the city ...now, i just found out that he already arrived in his place without informing me....
(his friend told me that he stayed in the city for a night....)
now, he wanted me to go his place so that we could spend time together...i didn't agree..i told him it's not very proper for me to go there...and my free time didn't coincide with his....he was pissed and told me that i don't have trust in him.....
he said i never did something for him and i'm not that sure with him...
the point is, if he really wanted to see me , he should have met me when he was in the city even if it was just for a night!!!

2007-03-13 04:12:44 · 1 answers · asked by belle 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law filed for divorce a year ago. Now she and my brother have to go to court. They have a 5 year old kid. The question is: Can he skip court? He doesn't want anything to do with this and doesn't even want to see her. From my own experience, when I got divorced my ex didn't show up and we still got divorced without a problem. However, in this case they have a kid. Does my brother need a lawyer? Thanks for any advice.

2007-03-13 04:12:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please don't delete, I really am curious.

2007-03-13 04:11:59 · 25 answers · asked by Ruth Ann 3 in Singles & Dating

FAMILIES AND HOUSEHOLDS



1. GENDER MALE [ ] FEMALE [ ]

2. AGE

3. STATUS Married [ ] Single [ ] Divorced [ ]


Are you’re from A:

One Parent Family [ ]


Two Parent Family [ ]


None of the Above [ ]



Do you live alone? Yes [ ] no [ ]

















4. NOTE : IF YOU ARE MARRIED

Do you live with a partner yes [ ] no [ ]





Do you have any dependant children? Yes [ ] no [ ]

*If so how many:

How do you think the relationship within families and households have changed over time?











5. What is your opinion on the modern family?
















6. How do you think gender roles have changed within families and households?

2007-03-13 04:11:54 · 18 answers · asked by Dee f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does this happen at a particular age? Can she get it back?

2007-03-13 04:11:49 · 16 answers · asked by Sharpie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 5 years of marriage my husband over the weekend gave me a list of all my faults and the complaints he has about me. He explained he loves me and would like me to change. I do not feel his love right now. I feel rejected and hurt. This was difficult to hear as my first marriage was to a very abusive man. He was extremely angry when this was all said, so last night I approached him, figuring without all the anger I could understand better what he was trying to tell me. He explained he wasn't going to apologize for anything he said the day before because it was all true. That I needed to change. He brought up every little thing that I may or may not have said or done over the past 7 years. He told me I was judgemental, unkind, selfish, hateful, ungiving, a victim and an abuser, but if I was willing to listen to him and change there was hope for us. I just don't know where to go from here. It honestly feels like he dropped a bomb inside my body and blew me to pieces.

2007-03-13 04:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by Mum3grls 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my ex-boyfriend and i broke up last year and I STILL LIKE HIM which is CRAZY cuz its been a year since we have broken up and he has even had a gf since me but that didnt last long cuz they were fighting all the time but i have tried getting over him and somehow i just can't let go. What i don't get is that he KNOWS i like him and it seems like he flirts with other girls to make me jealous but he knows i still like him so i dont kno why he's doin that. but see the weird thing is that he's really sweet to me and nice when its just me and him and then when its not he flirts with other girls and stuff so i really don't know what to do! but like sometimes i see him staring or looking at me so i can't help but wonder if he still has feelings for me. im SOOOOO CONFUSED!!! HELP!!!

2007-03-13 04:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by coconut1259 1 in Singles & Dating

OK well I havent expericned any sexual relations etc. and when I asked this guy I like and we have been talking for a while this he got upset and hung up the fone...
I asked: "IN your OPINION does size seem to matter?"
I was just curious and honestly dont know. By now means do I care about size only by the person themself. So what did I do wrong ? AND Why'd he get upset?
Thnks for any help. =)

2007-03-13 04:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by redhead7 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf ( kids dad) was working for this staffing company for about 3 month. They told him after 90 days that he would go from temp to perm if he did a good job. He work real hard every day he even got an award for working real hard. They let him got today. (a day before his 90 days was up) now he feel use . What do I say to him to make him feel better. He really like that job. I can tell when he call me at work that he was mad. I don't want this to become a problem. What is my role when it come to something like this. help

2007-03-13 04:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Singles & Dating

I had searched for my biological grandma for 9 years. I eventually found her & spoke to her on the phone. She told me she has since had a further 8 children, none of whom are aware she ever had my mum. She said she has moved on in her life and did not wish to meet or stay in contact. it is hard to accept & i can't help feeling the rest of her family feel differently if they knew. i have the address & could go at any time but i wouldn't want to upset her, yet i also would like to see what she looks like. its hard knowing i have so many family members i don't even know! whats the best way to deal with it?

2007-03-13 04:09:53 · 21 answers · asked by Scorps 2 in Family

I am looking for people to chill with who are like minded.

Are there people in the NOVA that likes 420,reading and going to the movies.

2007-03-13 04:09:38 · 3 answers · asked by E_E 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im always wearing ralf..and jadore.

and I love 2 smell Giorgio Armani Aquantis on guys.
just melts me.

2007-03-13 04:09:38 · 12 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

is it nature or its perculiar to certain poeple only, does it mean guys never actually like one girl at a time so the try out all sorts and wait for one to hatch?
it's weird....

2007-03-13 04:09:37 · 6 answers · asked by emenla a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 04:09:23 · 3 answers · asked by low 1 in Singles & Dating

Ha just bored so just wondering would you want me if you saw me at a club
Blonde
Green eyes
size 10(us 6)
white causican
5 ft 7
age: 18

happy loves 2 laugh, enjoys everything, loves dressing up or being casual, deep conversations r simple conversation! I love everything ! just from my decription do you think you would want me?xx

2007-03-13 04:09:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got a girl named Sidney i work with. it has only been a week. and i think she is cute and very nice to hang with. i just started to get a crush on her yesterday . i really want to tell her but not scare her away but how do i fid out if she has any felings for me.

2007-03-13 04:09:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 6 months ago when our relationship started she was cuddly and always wanted to be next to me, now she seems kind of sarcatistic and distant. For example we used to hold hands and now I'll put my hand on her leg and she'll just leave it there and sort of move away. What should i do? I've tried talking about it but she "says " there is nothing wrong, but i can see it in her eyes

2007-03-13 04:09:07 · 3 answers · asked by lilz61786 1 in Singles & Dating