OK well I havent expericned any sexual relations etc. and when I asked this guy I like and we have been talking for a while this he got upset and hung up the fone...
I asked: "IN your OPINION does size seem to matter?"
I was just curious and honestly dont know. By now means do I care about size only by the person themself. So what did I do wrong ? AND Why'd he get upset?
Thnks for any help. =)
2007-03-13 04:10:38 · 14 answers · asked by redhead7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is truly insecure about his own size.
2007-03-13 04:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even ask the question? Some people are judged and should be judged by the questions they ask. If you did not care why would you ask? Also, what would he know about how size effects a women as he is a guy, unless you think maybe he is gay. He did the right thing and hung up the phone. I am sure he will loose any sort of feelings for you. Your loss, but then again I am sure you will find someone that can accommodate you -- of course he will probably only be interested in testing the size counts theory and maybe not a job, career or any other sort of responsible behavior. Be care full of what you ask for as you may get it.
2007-03-13 11:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that he is overly sensitive (hence on the small side) And yes in my experience I have found that to most women size 'does' matter. Even though most will initially say it how you use what you have, which although true doesn't completely compensate for inadequate size. Of course too much isn't a good thing either. He is size sensitive therefore probably not a good thing to discuss with him.
2007-03-13 11:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a question that should be directed at women. A guy would not have anything to compare it to AND they are SUPER sensitive about the size of their penis. Even if an insult is not intended, it is easy for a man to take offense to a question/statement such as this. It implies that size could possibly matter, otherwise why bring it up?
Save these questions for your female friends, sweetie.
2007-03-13 11:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually can be taken as a rude quesiton to a man. He may be thinking "if that's all she's worried about" or "she's shallow if she had to ask that"...it's hard to say what he's thinking. You could ask him and then apologize for coming across a certain way he thinks that you did. Some men will honestly answer and not think about it; whereas some men will honestly get offended.
2007-03-13 11:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf recently who was super insecure about his size overall. He was only a few inches taller than I am (And I am only 4 feet 10 inches tall) and he was super duper skinny and quite a bit older than me. What broke us up was the topic of smallness. Guys want to feel macho. Its an ego thing.
2007-03-13 11:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is lacking in that department and feels self concience. Lots of guys feel that size does matter and are very self concience.
2007-03-13 11:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I think that maybe he just got embarrassed, he may not be worried about his size but just that fact that you asked the question it may have just turned him off.
Chow.
2007-03-13 11:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he's self conscious about his "size". The question may have caught him by surprise and he didn't know how to react.
2007-03-13 11:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sherbert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probibly got mad because he is small and took offense to it.
Way to immasculate the man. BTW size does not matter
2007-03-13 11:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋