ok so my ex-boyfriend and i broke up last year and I STILL LIKE HIM which is CRAZY cuz its been a year since we have broken up and he has even had a gf since me but that didnt last long cuz they were fighting all the time but i have tried getting over him and somehow i just can't let go. What i don't get is that he KNOWS i like him and it seems like he flirts with other girls to make me jealous but he knows i still like him so i dont kno why he's doin that. but see the weird thing is that he's really sweet to me and nice when its just me and him and then when its not he flirts with other girls and stuff so i really don't know what to do! but like sometimes i see him staring or looking at me so i can't help but wonder if he still has feelings for me. im SOOOOO CONFUSED!!! HELP!!!
2007-03-13 04:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by coconut1259 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not the only one who's confused. After reading your question, my head is spinning.
2007-03-13 04:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Blue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you broke up....
There is still something there... even if it's just the friendship you formed when the two of you were together. If you would like to see if you two should try again flirt back with him see what happens. Invite him out to lunch a the park so you two can sit down together and talk about how you feel.
You could fan the flames and flirt back with him and see if anything developes. If not then maybe nothing more than a tight bond of friendship will develope. Which is not really bad as one can never have to many good friends.
2007-03-13 04:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by bill45310252 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual that you still have feelings for this guy. You should try dropping little hints, see if he picks up on your bait. If he hooks your bait, then start "talking" to him again. Call and text each other for a few weeks. See how that goes. Then, you should probably see if he's still interested. If he is, then he'll make the move.
If he doesn't take the bait, then he's probably over you. He may just like to see that you're still kissing his feet. Don't act foolish over him. You have to watch out how you lure him in or else he will see through you and he'll play with your mind.
I liked a guy for 3 years. We dated for a few months. He was my first kiss. I thought I would never be able to get over him.
But I did. And it feels great. Maybe you should really just move on.
2007-03-13 04:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Carson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's still interested in getting in your pants. Have you considered that? Perhaps he's flirting with the other girls to let you know that he's interested in them and not you... I think you need to move on and stop waiting for this guy to give you a 2nd chance which I don't think will happen. There's probably a great guy out there who'd love to be with you but you're wasting your time on this loser ex boyfriend. Get real, schweety!
2007-03-13 04:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me, i would say HE STILL HAS THE HOTTS FOR YOU!!! but lets not jump into conclusions k.... just ask him, talk to him about it. I understand you still like him, but he cant leave you hanging like that. Ask him how he feels about you guys, im sure there was a reason why you guys broke up right? To me, I think the only reason he would do that( flirt with you and also try to make you jealous) is that he knows you still like him, but im sure he probably doesn't have feelings for you. Dont be clingy on him, he'll only like it more!!!! Just talk to him and ask about it!If he says no he doesn't like you, then it gives you a great opportunity to get over, DO NOT YELL OR BASH at him because he was nice to u or flirt with you because he'll say he was just being nice, and he'll know he got you on the hook, if he says yes... then talk about gettin together again, if both of u still have feelings for one another. Remember.. the ball is in his court right now, try to get it in your court, AND UR IN CONTROL!!!
2007-03-13 04:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by cutelidogurl143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you nonetheless have thoughts on your ex? in case you dont have thoughts, dont hassle/experience responsible too plenty! he's your ex boyfriend, you're absolute to continually think of a few issues he does are candy. Ive gotta say regardless of the indisputable fact that....... in the experience that your boyfriend shows out i do no longer think of he would be happy! maybe it may well be perfect in case you advised him your self, i think of he'd understand greater in case you heard it from you and he could even have the skill to help if youre perplexed approximately all of it! :) i wish it seems ok!
2016-10-02 01:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say who dumped who?
Perhaps his pride won't allow him to come back to you after being dumped.
Perhaps he is flirting with girls to try and prove what you gave up!
If he dumped you then perhaps he does still have some feelings for you, but he may also remember why he dumped you in the first place and so he knows it couldn't work again.
Maybe you could just comes straight out and ask him how he feels. It wouldn't be easy but at least then you wouldn't torture yourself with all this guesswork!
2007-03-13 04:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Peta G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably reading way to much into him being nice to you. He probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Are you two still intimate with each other? If so that's your first problem.
2007-03-13 04:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by 7S282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing games with you. If he is flirting with other girls one minute and nice when you are alone he is playing you. move on
2007-03-13 04:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋