I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
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has it beenn 2 long??
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please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing
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all her friends r mine and we met at a party a few months ago, when she saw i was upset she started crying, we cant avoid each other, i love her and its going on 2 long, plz help folks
2007-03-13 04:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to learn how to use paragraphs and the use of spell check. Reading all that dribble hurt my eyes, now on to your question.
Women who truly love you won't leave you over trivial matters. And definitely not get involved with a new guy shortly after. Wake up and smell the coffee.
Would YOU go out and find yourself another girl if you still loved the one you were with?..no..
there is your answer
2007-03-13 04:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with her, she broke up with you, and you have no choice but to move on. Yes it is normal for you to feel the pain of it, but you have to TRY to stop thinking about her as much as possible and look forward. There are plenty of other possible new relationships for you out there and you can NOT have a good relationship without the trust, which you said isn't there with you and her. I wish you luck, but like I said, you must move on. In time, you will have a new love, new life, and be happier than ever. I hope all works out for you and your family issues. Good luck!
2007-03-13 04:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by onecharliecat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to still love her deeply. But maybe she doesn't feel the say way. Leave her alone and if she comes back to you then shes yours, if not you have to move on. Losing the love of your life sucks and its hard to get over. But you'll survive. Someone else will come along when you least expect it. Just hang in there.
2007-03-13 04:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, take her aside, and tell her whats on your mind, tell her everything! If she doesnt want to be with you still, then move on. There will be someone that appreciates you in the future. But next time, try to be more open and take it easy.
2007-03-13 04:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyme2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words, instead of "e-mailing" her, talk face to face!
Come clean with any other things you weren't completely honest with and let her know how much you care.
Your pouring your heart out, but to the wrong people.
2007-03-13 04:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry her and keep her close.
taht wud end the suffering of u both.
i wonder why in the west people end relationships over such trivial things.
what she did was stupid.
2007-03-13 04:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are one messed up loser get real dude. if you had sex with this women you can never be friends with her again. thats just the way it is so either get back with her or get over her by the way either way grow up you are so lame
2007-03-13 05:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and you wanted to start a family w/her
2007-03-13 04:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix the problem. see if you can get back too together
2007-03-13 04:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋