My bf ( kids dad) was working for this staffing company for about 3 month. They told him after 90 days that he would go from temp to perm if he did a good job. He work real hard every day he even got an award for working real hard. They let him got today. (a day before his 90 days was up) now he feel use . What do I say to him to make him feel better. He really like that job. I can tell when he call me at work that he was mad. I don't want this to become a problem. What is my role when it come to something like this. help
2007-03-13 04:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a bad backgroung record but he is a change man. Is there something i can tell him when jobs say no because of his record. Is it going to be like this for long.
2007-03-13 05:15:37 · update #1
You have received great answers, I can only say that it would be wise to take a little from each one, they were all right on time.
I also feel, that by you being supportive, encouraging him, thanking him for being there for you and family, telling and showing him that you love him, and appreciate all that he does.
Tell him that there is a better job waiting on him, he must believe that. The company did him a favor, now he is ready to receive a better job, had he still been there, he would not have been in a position to accept this position.
If the both of you believe, and claim a better, permanent job for him, it will happen.
Best of luck to you.
2007-03-13 04:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
The best thing you can do is be there for him and be supportive . Encourage him to look for another job without pressure and listen to him when he wants to vent .
Applaud him for his efforts and tell him to never give up . Being there is the most important thing you can do for him right now .
Good Luck I pray that everything works out for your family .
C
2007-03-13 04:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive and encourage him to keep looking. Unfortuantely it is VERY common for companies to do what they did to your bf - they let the temp go right before they are going to have to hire them and start paying benefits.
2007-03-13 04:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look all you can do is tell him you are proud of him for working so hard for his family and because he is such a hard worker you have confidence in him that he will have no problem finding another job...tell him..you appriceate him ...dont you love it when someone tell you how much your appriceated? Good Luck!!
2007-03-13 04:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by aprilmayy@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
show him support by listening to him..encourage him and let him know that you are proud of him and that he did a great job....unfortunately there is nor guarantee when you are working for others..tell him you love him and that you have his back...
2007-03-13 04:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there to listen when he vents. Offer your support, and don't talk down to him.
2007-03-13 04:17:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sherbert 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you or your babies daddy have a gun..?
2007-03-13 04:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋