My boyfriend of 4 years told one of his friends (which his friend told his siter who in return told me) that my boyfriend is going to ask me to marry him the day of my gradutation. What should I do? Should I belive this trail of information or just pretend I never heard any of it?
2007-03-13 04:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-03-13 07:32:28 · update #1
I personally would just pretend i didn't hear it. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't then it doesn't
2007-03-13 04:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by a seeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are we talking high school graduation or college graduation? I hope its your college graduation, because getting married right out of high school isn't usually a good idea for most people. If its high school, at least make sure its a long engagement so you both have a chance to experience life a little more before you make such a huge decision. Either way, if this is something you really want and something you're ready for, pretend you never heard it so the surprise will still be there. Also, if it isn't true, you won't be disappointed if you pretend you never heard it.
2007-03-13 12:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by tehuskey513 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should both believe the trail of information (at least as plausible information) and pretend you never heard it. What's your other option, tell him that you know? =P
Just pretend you never heard it. You may want to take some time to ask yourself if you're going to say yes or no, but otherwise relax!
2007-03-13 12:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you didn't hear it. He may get nervous & wait until another day & you will be upset about something you shouldn't have known anyway. Anyways, You never know how true things are when it goes through a couple of people. If he is going to, he would have liked to surprise you.
2007-03-13 11:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Worm is back 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never relay on heresay, and really it will only matter to you and your boyfriend. You're just going to have to wait until your graduation, and see what happens. Don't let this take over your thoughts though-if he does, then you will make that decision then and respond then, and if he doesn't, don't be disappointed-I would just pretend as if I hadn't heard it, b/c that way, either way, you're in the best state of mind.
2007-03-13 11:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by Adelie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pretend I don't know. But I'd tell him after he proposes me that I knew in advance, but didn't know it would really happen. If he doesn't propose you, then nothing happens. Better than telling him now, maybe it's a joke and he will feel bad or forced to propose you now, when you expect it so much.
2007-03-13 14:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now pretend to never have heard it and keep your cool. Don't get your hopes up. If it does happen, Congratulation! I hope you say yes. Only you know what your relationship is like. Do u feel that he wants to marry you. If you know, then it doesn't matter when he does it. and no one should have told you. part of that moment is the surprise. i hope he changes his mind and does it another day.
2007-03-13 11:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by leidy101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take it with a grain of salt, and wait for your graduation day (if you're going to say yes). If he is going to the trouble to plan this so far ahead of time, enjoy the moment! If you don't think you want to marry him, talk to him ahead of time.
2007-03-13 11:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
assuming the proposal is a good thing, just pretend you never heard. your boyfriend probably wanted it to be a suprise, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
2007-03-13 11:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you want to do?? I personally think that's way to young to get married... I am assuming your talking high school not college? I would seriously give this some though before jumping into it.
2007-03-13 11:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you never heard it! Just be patient and wait and see if he proposes!
2007-03-13 11:49:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋