Last week my bf broke up with me, and even though we didnt date that long, ( only for 2 and half months) we were friends before that for 2 years. I went phycho went he broke up with me, I refused to do so. Well we broke up because apperently i was crying before we lost our virginity, and he said he couldnt do that to someone he loves. Well later he said i will always be there for you, for support as a friend if you need me. I was violent and cried, he had a lot of patience, until i got to crazy.
A few days later I asked for a second chance and he said, no it doesnt matter how many times you ask, the answer is always going to be no. I kept yelling and him at how he used me, and he just ok im going to hang up, I called him again, and I said no I wasnt done telling you everything, and hje said, goodbye, its been fun. I did the same thing at least two more times, until he said, ok, im going to give you a set of instructions, never call this number again. ( he hangs up)
2007-03-13 05:14:36 · 7 answers · asked by Cutie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok when he hangs up, I was confused, later i had a seizure, and passed out. My bro was pissed he called his number, and left a msg, he told him, I dont know what you said to her but she just passed out. I ended up in the hospital. He even called my house, worried, and he was told i was at the hospital, he sounded very guilty. A few days later I went to go visit him, and I blamed him, and he just had a cold look on his face and said, Im sorry I hope you feel better. That was the end of it, i dont know if i should ever call him. he was my best friend, the only friend i had.
2007-03-13 05:17:32 · update #1
Well, for starters don't blame your seizure on him. If you want to be friends again, you need to stop being "crazy", you need to be over him romantically, same with him, you need some time apart. You're in the frantic stage of a break up, you really don't want to be his "friend" you're trying desperately to get him back, by any means possible. Take some time for yourself, get over him, find new friends, and if it's meant to be, you two will gravitate back to being friends, in time. Don't rush or force it.
2007-03-17 12:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the way you acted and the reaction you caused from him I would say that it will be difficult to be friends with him again. Not impossible, but incredibly difficult.
What you need to learn to do is let it go. There is an old cliche'd phrase that is overused and underappreciated, but it sums everything up.
If you love something set it free and if it comes back to you then it's yours.
Over-reacting, yelling, persistently calling is not the best way to make him see that he's making a mistake. What you should do is move on with your life. You'll meet another guy, and you will learn from this experience.
Just keep in mind that if you're overbearing or you're too persistent you may drive him away. You have to try to let things flow.
best of luck to you.
2007-03-13 05:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a friendship back they way is to give it time. YOu went from friends to lovers.It needs time.And blaming him for youre seizure would be like me blaming my daughter for the heartattack i had yesteday after we had a fight.You just cant lay the blame on him it was both of you. I take half the blame for i was also there and was fighting with her also so dont lay all the blame on him.Give it time and im sure you will be friends again.good luck
2007-03-13 05:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with someone for 3 months and I felt the same way you did. I told him if that was the way he was going to be then fine, "I didn't need your *** to begin with." He came crawling back telling me he was sorry and he didn't know what he was thinking. Girl get a shower, wash his *** off of you, and go out with your girls!
2007-03-13 05:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but no ur not going to get back 2gedda its goin 2 hurt u in da long way he hit and quit it and i guess u fell for it. u are way 2 good 4 him dont let that make u go crazy make him crazy and get revenge.
2007-03-13 05:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by answer queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't do well with desperation tactics. You made your first mistake when you got romantic with your best friend. You say he was your ONLY friend. uh....yeah....people tend to avoid those who go psycho. Now your friend/boyfriend is history and you can start all over.
2007-03-13 05:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls get over him. he was using you for fun. now you're thrown in a state of devastation, how now? just stop bothering him, he wants to get you out of his life and look for new victims. be strong girl!
2007-03-13 05:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋