we were togrther for threr years and i am scard todeath he calls me and thratens me and now he has been going out with my best friend and he tells me this i think that he was just to scard to tell me the truth but my friends tell me diffrent that he rally does have that but why does he throw stake knives at his feet and throws his dad and family members aginst the table and walls and this is not the first time he said stuff like this i'm relly scard and do't know what to do i want to get some advice to see what oyher people say i should do if i should goget more help from other people orif i should just stay here and deal withit i really don't know what to do my mom tels me to go to the cops but i don't want to be a snich i want ot be cool but also i have to rember saftey to so i don't know what to do i am scard an i have been worrying for over a week my dad told me to never date that he t0old me that i was going to get hurtt hat i should have never went with him he is going to do..
2007-03-13 04:58:37 · 17 answers · asked by sexybox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has moved on and is dating your friend, why does he threaten you? Definitely stay away from him and don't even talk to him to hear his threats. If your friend was a friend she would listen to you and stay away from him as well. Why did you go out with him if you throws his family members against walls? That is what he would do to you and your kids if you ever got married!!! Call the cops and tell them about his threats and your concerns. They won't go arrest him unless he does something to you--so you won't be a snitch or whatever you think. You should put a restraining order on him, and that he would know about--but too bad-- he sounds like a real nut job. Put a restraining order on him and stay away from him. Yes you should be afraid. What a creep! Find someone who will love you and take care of you. There are many guys out there who are looking for the love of their loves and would treat you like a queen. Get away fast!
2007-03-13 05:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by Audrey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am wondering if your ex is taking meds. I understand that when a person who is bipolar is medicated, they feel that they are cured and no longer need the medication, or sometimes they stop taking the medication because of the major side effects they have.
If this guy harms you in any way, you MUST tell the authorities. Don't be silly about snitching, what are you, eight years old or something? Calling the police so they can write a report and keep things documented, will only help them in case he need to be in observation.
What's the deal with the best friend? how does he behave with her? Maybe he WANTS to scare you so that you leave him alone, which YOU MUST DO!!!!!!!!!
Whatever goes on with his family is their business, you stay out of it and stay safe. What do you mean stay here? do you wanna move out of that city? As long as you stay away from him (concentrate in school, trust me, you need to) forget about him. If your best friend has no trouble with him, then I think he just wants you to stay away from him, so back off and leave them alone.
2007-03-13 05:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:49:25 · answer #3 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your terrible spelling some sort of statement? Seriously, I wanted to help you, but I just couldn't read this alternate English of yours. (I am assuming it is English)
From the headline, I gather that your ex-boyfriend has extreme Bi-Polar Disorder and has threatened to kill you. If that is the case, report him to the authorities and break off all contact.
2007-03-13 05:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents or doctor very soon and get some heavy advice, he needs proper treatment and should not be threatening you at all you need to make someone else aware of the threats he is making and quickly
2007-03-13 05:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by yah yah sisterhood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is not a question for this board, it is a question for a therapist, police officer or family member. Please understand that is better to be a snitch (GOD I wish that word would go away, it is soooo idiotic) and alive, than to be cool and seriously injured or dead. If you really care about this young man, your best bet,would be to go to the police, he needs help.
2007-03-13 05:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by China Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-13 05:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by R34P3R619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraing order and go 2 the police
2007-03-13 05:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform your parents and the police immediately.
2007-03-13 05:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by 7S282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police like now!!
2007-03-13 05:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋