I just feel... I don't know!
I feel miserable and everything. And usually when I'm like this I want to shut myself away.
I was crying today in school so they sent me to the doctors. My 'best friend' text me saying that everyone was asking about me and that she doesn't know why they are asking HER. But the text seemed a bit... off. Like she was annoyed at me or something.
I've been trying to shut myself off from her, I just don't want to talk to her when I'm feeling down or anything. Sometimes I just don't want to talk to her at all.
She cheered up a bit and was like "I want you to be happy, I love you" and all of that, and I said it back and everything, but I don't feel like being cheerful towards her.
I don't even want to see her tomorrow, but she's going to be expecting me to talk to her cause she thinks we're ok with each other.
I don't know why I feel this, but I just want to avoid her tomorrow.
What do you think I should do?
2007-03-13 05:00:30 · 10 answers · asked by Strawberry 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try avoiding her but I dont think it'll work especially if she is your best friend. You seem really down. Don't be. Think of good memories that you had with this friend and all will be better. Then, go and talk to her about how you feel. You both should come up with a solution together. Hope all goes well.
2007-03-13 07:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by riri4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From the information that I've gathered about you, it sounds like you are miserable right now and you don't want anybody to see that. Talk to your best friend and let her know what is really going on. You are entitled to your feelings though, but don't take it out on her because she didn't do anything wrong. People sometimes lash out at their loved ones because they don't know how to handle certain situations. Don't shut your friend out. Let her be there for you. The more you shut her out, the less likely that she will continue to be your friend. Things will get better. Just have faith in yourself. I hope my advice helps you, sweetheart. Good luck.
2007-03-13 05:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she do something terrible to you in the past to make you so annoyed with her right now? She sounds concerned about you and you sound very ungrateful. I'll give you a hint. Just because you are feeling down, does not make it right for you to dump on anyone. People have their own problems to deal with. You are not the only one with feelings. Make peace with her if you value her friendship. If you find that most of the time you feel sad, for no obvious reason speak to your parents and your guidance counsellor at school. There could be a reason why you feel that way and maybe you need help.
2007-03-13 05:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when you feel like being on your own, then I suggest you tell her you aren't feeling very well and want to be on your own. She maybe only wants to help, so perhaps be nice about it. I wonder if you might have a mild depression. I suffer, or have suffered, from depression and I feel like shutting myself away. I hope everything works out OK for you! Good luck.
2007-03-13 05:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by james c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're really reeling low and miserable at the moment. It sounds to me like you might be projecting this on to your friend a little and taking out your bad feelings on her. For some reason we all take out our moods on those we feel close to. Don't create even more problems for yourself my shutting her out. Talk to her about how you feel and see what she has to say.
2007-03-13 05:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the thought of your "best friend" makes you feel so miserable then she's obviously not a friend worth having. i know that it can be hard sometimes...but there are better people out there to reach out and be friends with. best friends are supposed to be there for each other.
2007-03-13 05:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by nahtehc 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do u have a reason to be mad or sad to her she is nice to be ur friend but u seem like u don't want a friend u might not get me so i'll just say this BE NICE SHE IS UR FRIEND SO STOP AVOIDING HER AND SAY SORRY i hope u cheer up.y won't u talk to her about ur feelings
2007-03-13 05:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how to advise you - generally:.
Just ask her to give you some space that you need to have some time to yourself to sort things out.
Just say you need to do this without her aid and it would be really good of her to understand that you need this time.
2007-03-13 05:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Jewel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you feel down that's normal to ignor but please think a reason for doing so, it's not so cool to make sbelse as miserable as you. friends for when you feel down you can talk to. ok, wish you are ok by tomorrow
2007-03-13 06:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her how u feel........if she doesnt understand u, u should make new friends
2007-03-13 05:29:00 · answer #10 · answered by luckylove713 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋