Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

it ends in a C....in previous emails about him...and she now spells it with a K...my name begins with a K instead of a C...as it was always something I had to correct people with...many things about this guy is similar to me...and the life we were building together...now he is ready made....with money...he's a banker...two homes, two cars, two of everything...all things that we were working towards...and acquiring...no...this is not the base of the realtionship of ours in the past...just some material things we were working towards...she is doing things she said she would never do...all in this new realtionship...but things she swore since we knew eachother (18 years) she would not do...the circumstances of her meeting the guy are similar...the relationship is all too weird for coincedence...do women repeat themselves as she has done..when I met her father the first time it was weird that we were in the same business and her parents relationship was similar to ours..any comments here?

2007-03-13 07:52:03 · 9 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ill be 18 in 2 months...

2007-03-13 07:51:07 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i've know this girl for like 3 years. She's a very good friend an I really care about her. But she's a year older than me and she's in college thats 4 hours away and im in 12th grade. I really like her and i dont know if she likes me but. So like i really want to like and shes perfect and i really want to like go out with her and stuff, but she goes away to college. So what should I do.
and im goin to prom with her but i want to be more than freinds so bad . So im confused with this b/c i wanna tell her but i dont want to ruin our freindship

2007-03-13 07:51:03 · 3 answers · asked by babyv 1 in Singles & Dating

would you do it?

2007-03-13 07:50:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just about to move in with my boyfriend, we have been together for 4 years and I'm so excited. He's the first person I have ever lived with. Can anyone tell me what to expect? x

2007-03-13 07:50:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

house planning a wedding. When we got back home his ex called about a court thing (previous questions). It upset me. It was ruining my night. He was already aggravated because he was tired and ill. So I just kept my distant so I wouldn't aggravate him any more. I was in our room fixin the bed for the night. He came in and asked me if I still wanted to marry him, (I was crying already) I told him yes I did. He said I didn't sound very reassuring. I started crying my eyes out. He started saying he was sorry, and gave me a hug and a kiss, and said he was outta line and shouldn't have said that, then walked outta the room in to the bathroom. I went in there and he was bent over the sink washing his face and rubbing his eyes. I think he was crying but I couldn't tell, so I just went up to him and gave him a hug and a kiss, and told him I loved him. He said he was sorry about a million times while we were in the bathroom.

I was just trying to be there for him. What should I have done?

2007-03-13 07:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Any discreet way of catching him, or just getting more info? Also, he goes out of town a lot for work. Thanks!

2007-03-13 07:49:00 · 18 answers · asked by Heidi B 3 in Singles & Dating

I just realized that my wedding is only 81 days away, and am having a small fit. I have been having nightmares about not having everything done. Can you think of anything I'm forgetting? I've already:

Booked/Confirmed Church
Done Pre-cana
Met Priest
Arranged Music
Booked/Confirmed Reception Hall (food & drink included)
Booked DJ
Booked Cake
Booked Florist....meeting in April
Bought Dress
Bridesmaids/Flowergirl dresses ordered
Bought Rings
Booked Photographer & Videographer
Ordered Invitations
Booked Limos
Finalized Guest List
Registered
Arranged Rehearsal Dinner (In-Laws doing this)
Picked Readers (but not readings....ideas?)

I know I need to:
Find Shoes
Figure out hair
Find bridal party gifts
Do favors (father's helping....home-made wine sound good?)



But what else? What am I missing?

Thank you for any help you want to give. Holy crappola, 81 days!

2007-03-13 07:48:45 · 21 answers · asked by Just tryin' to help 6 in Weddings

i like this guy but he has a girlfriend. then one day i found out they broke up. i don't know if i should ask him because it obviously looks like he still likes her and she's still bugging me about her and him being together for more than a month. i really don't know if i should ask him or not. please help me.

2007-03-13 07:48:30 · 11 answers · asked by elizatinkerbell 2 in Singles & Dating

I Love this girl but we fight like all the time. I think I get mad at her to easily . Any suggestions on how to handle it better??

2007-03-13 07:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

waht can i do when i cut? im suffering from depression and its kinda lame and i hate it because only my closest friends know and when i try and ask them to help me to stop hey give me a look that says im so disapointed in you or a look that says omg what a loser stop it right now

2007-03-13 07:48:04 · 3 answers · asked by Melly. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know it has to do with touching and kissing but what are the details of each base?

2007-03-13 07:48:01 · 5 answers · asked by A J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The mother of my child is trying to keep me from my daughter's life, any way she can. I do have joint custody but she has charged me with 1) flagrant non support (I do have arrearages but I have an agreement to pay through the state), 2) she put out a temporary EPO so I couldn't see my daughter this past weekend, which got dismissed this morning for lack of 'threatening' evidence, 3) she has repeatedly taken me back to court to try to revoke my rights as a parent (all of which were dismissed), 4) she has called me, harrassing me and threatening me that once my daughter is old enough, she is going to legally disown me, 5) she has assaulted my wife (back in Oct. 06) but we didn't press charges because my daughter was there screaming and crying for her mom 'not to go to jail.' My question is, don't I have some rights here? What can I do???? Please help. I know she won't stop this craziness, if anything, things will only get worse (further false allegations like molestation, abuse, etc.)

2007-03-13 07:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by lisa d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey i'm 19 i met a girl at college and i've now been with her for six months, i love her to bits but she won't have sex with me. we've both only slept with one other person but mine was a one night stand and hers was a boyfriend of two years. when she's with her friends she always talks about how often she slept with him and she's told me they used to sleep together in every room of the house. she keeps saying she hates him because he cheated on her and that she's in love with me but she just refuses to have sex. whenever we get close she makes an excuse an just leaves. i don't mean to sound big headed but i've seen her ex and i'm better looking than him so i can't understand why she'd be so happy to do so much with him and nothing at all with me. please help if you can because my jealousy is tearing our relationship apart really quickly.

2007-03-13 07:47:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the person i love was a friend of me long ago(3years friendship).
he used to have time for me and was a person who understands me.but now he don't have time to speak to me.whenever i'm busy he want me to meet him.if i say no he will get angry and say i'm very stubborn.he always comments about my parents and brother and if i do the same he gets angry.but when he was my friend he was not like this. at that time he was the only person(else then parents)who cared for me so much that he fought with his best friend for making me cry. i don't know what i'm thinking is right or wrong.but i know one thing i don't want to lose him and can't even live under dominated person.what should i do?

2007-03-13 07:47:19 · 10 answers · asked by anitha 1 in Singles & Dating

For example does she like to grab my butt like I do hers?, or back, etc. And if she does why dosent she do it? is she shy? would she be turned on if she did?, I know I would!!!

2007-03-13 07:46:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every since he asked me to marry him things have went down hill! We fight like everyday and he is overly jelaous of everyone that i talk to! The other thing is that I am pregnant. I love him but sometimes I wonder if I should just leave him! I'm stuck and don't know what to do please help!!!

2007-03-13 07:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a white girl, but i got alot of sun tanned, and my bf that we're planning to marry is WHITEr than white. he told me he's ok with my color, but comparing to him and his family, i'm so tanned and black. is he saying that just to make me feel better or does he really feel that way? how important is skin color to him?

2007-03-13 07:46:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband had a wonderful life before and shortly after marriage. Now he doesnt listen to me he doesnt want to help around the house. He works i dont i stay home with our 2 kids and his 3 nieces. So im dog tired by bedtime by the time i bathe and put 5 kids to bed. But i still have to gather the energy to do dishes and start a load of clothes. Then when i finally make it to bed he wants me to find this for him or do this for him or have sex. I just dont have the energy for it every night he doesnt understand that. I do like to cuddle and just lay together he wont do that unless sex is a promise afterwards. When i try to talk he defends himself with all kinds of excuses. He thinks he never does wrong and is always right. Hell i dont even get to finish a complete sentence. We really have no relationship at all Im scared im young we've only been married 3 years How can i save this. I don't want it to have to end i just want it to be great again and to have a real relationship.

2007-03-13 07:46:12 · 19 answers · asked by Donna J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my realtionship has been hell for the past year, my b/f didnt have a job wouldnt get one ditched me for his friends wouldnt let me hang out with mine and did drugs behind my back...well i finally cuaght him cheatin which killed me and i ended it for good, about a year ago we broke up for 2 months and i got another b/f and did things with him, then a couple of night ago i went to 2 party with some old friends and he thinks this justifys his cheating, he think i should fogive him and go back becuase what i did was just as bad!!!! how could he even think that!!!! i told him i forgive him but i will never ever get back with him....im completly right...right? what he did dosent come close to what ive done?

2007-03-13 07:45:52 · 2 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 07:45:48 · 3 answers · asked by swyt09 1 in Singles & Dating

for me LIGHT ON I love they way my wife looks at me.

2007-03-13 07:45:41 · 20 answers · asked by celticdragon 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been friends with these people for about 5 years and lately we don't have conversations like we used to, when I invite my friend to make plans it feels like she is always waiting to see if something better comes (I invited her to something a week early, which was too early, and then I re-invited her the day before and that was too late). I had a previous (6 month) friendship fall apart and talking about it didn't help. So I am wondering if I should ask my friend and roommates if I did something or if they are just too busy with their jobs and (one of them- significant other) or if I should just wait it out and continue living in silent annoyance and questioning.

2007-03-13 07:45:32 · 10 answers · asked by k80_k 2 in Friends

our friends anniversary was yesterday...but we didn't get them anything yet. They are in there late 30'. We are willing to spend up to $250 on a gift for them.

2007-03-13 07:45:16 · 3 answers · asked by junior 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't get it. I've been living with my b/f for more than 3 yrs. My exhusband just celebrated his one yr mark with his g/f. However, this week he's been texting me like crazy telling me we need to meet to...wait let me look it up on my cel...he text:"we shud talk bout sumthings so the past can stay in past n so the future isn't focusing in the past. Afterall our futures both involve the kids but not us all 2gether. Its best 4 the kids that we dont have any resentment w each other. We both made our mistakes n had 2 learn the hard way. Perhaps we can meet early on fri 2 talk?" He's been texting me about how our marriage didn't work out but that we shouldnt tell the kids why. That we should lie to them. What good will the truth be to them now that were already divorced. The truth?! HE BEAT ME UP! HE went to JAIL...criminal court! 5th degree misdimeaner, one degree more it would of been a felony! I was in a wheel chair! He put me there! Why, after 4ys, does he want 2 talk? I won't lie 4hm

2007-03-13 07:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by luv2bake 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He knows I like him and yet refuses to talk to me. What do I do?
I know its bad but he is really hot with a good personality, so I can't just forget him

2007-03-13 07:44:33 · 4 answers · asked by samantha d 1 in Singles & Dating

if you could tie me up and keep me for the weekend what would you do?

2007-03-13 07:44:13 · 7 answers · asked by tyemetght814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we've been together for 8 yrs engaged for 2 and we live together have a car and practically are always together but every time i bring up just goin to city hall or vegas he gets weird on my. What should I do? Trust me I bring it up then he'll say okay we should do it in the summer, he'll talk about it for the next day or so and after that I wont hear him mention it again. HELP.

2007-03-13 07:44:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-13 07:44:02 · 15 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25, soon to be 26 and do not want children. My partner, who just turned 30, and future husband have both talked about this issue and we neither one of us want children. I'm wondering why it is that most people keep telling us we will change our minds? Or my favorite one "the marriage will fail without them, cuz you will be facing only eachother day after day"....So give me your opinions.....why is it so unheard of to not want children? And please give me a better reason than the age issue that one is getting quite tedious I could understand if I were 20, and though I'm not THAT old I certainly know at this time in my life more of what I want and what I DON'T want....thanks for taking the time to answer

2007-03-13 07:43:36 · 41 answers · asked by cal_gal_81 3 in Other - Family & Relationships