house planning a wedding. When we got back home his ex called about a court thing (previous questions). It upset me. It was ruining my night. He was already aggravated because he was tired and ill. So I just kept my distant so I wouldn't aggravate him any more. I was in our room fixin the bed for the night. He came in and asked me if I still wanted to marry him, (I was crying already) I told him yes I did. He said I didn't sound very reassuring. I started crying my eyes out. He started saying he was sorry, and gave me a hug and a kiss, and said he was outta line and shouldn't have said that, then walked outta the room in to the bathroom. I went in there and he was bent over the sink washing his face and rubbing his eyes. I think he was crying but I couldn't tell, so I just went up to him and gave him a hug and a kiss, and told him I loved him. He said he was sorry about a million times while we were in the bathroom.
I was just trying to be there for him. What should I have done?
2007-03-13 07:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He called his ex to ask her if she would bring the kids up to the wedding. Then she started in about a court thing week after next that he knew nothing about.
2007-03-13 08:13:44 · update #1
Sounds as if your both under a lot of stress, I don't think you acted inappropriately at all. Your fiancee may have been a little out of line but nothing not to forgive him over, as long as he doesn't make it a habbit, at saying things to hurt your feelings (In his case, sometimes thinking before speaking helps before a foot is inserted into ones mouth). Good luck on your marriage. take care.
2007-03-13 08:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Darren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is done is done.You have done whatever seamed the right thing to you at the moment, so stop worrying over the past (distant or recent) and turn ahead to the present end the future with your boyfriend.
2007-03-13 14:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did the right thing. It's all too emotional when there's still-somewhat-connected-ex's and such. Just keep your cool and don't let anything about the ex get to you. That gives her way too much power in your relationship. Remember, she is the ex and you are planning your wedding to him.
2007-03-13 15:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by eehco 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong sometimes. Sometimes you are just human and all the emotions are just right there spilling out. Just make it right, forget about it and go on. Sounds like there is stress and that complicates lots of things.
2007-03-13 14:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked him to return the call tomorrow or at a later date so that your evening would have had a happier ending.
2007-03-13 15:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by sunset 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing.
2007-03-13 14:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you did was appropriate.
2007-03-13 14:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that was good right there.
2007-03-13 14:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by dazed n confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"All's well, that ends well!" You did great!
2007-03-13 14:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u did da rite thing and wat anyone else would have done if they were u
2007-03-13 14:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋