Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

I hate my husbands family...they are drunk, obnoxious, dirty and inconsiderate. I'm by no means a judgemental person and believe that you should live and let live, but I'm tired of dealing with their disgusting lifestyle. Any suggestions on how to work this out? I dont want to hate my husband and daughters family and try soo hard to try to like them. Please help!

2007-03-13 08:33:47 · 4 answers · asked by Ruby Tuesday 3 in Family

A few days ago this kid told the biggest lie to a teacher and his parents. I was a witness to the cheating that was involved and he was denying that he cheated (that was the lie). My teacher consulted with both of us and he still lied. My teacher said that lying to a teacher is a suspendable offense and he said the one specific word that it's called. It's driving me insane and if any of you know it you would be helping me out a great deal!

2007-03-13 08:33:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

no matter how hard i try i can't seem to please my husband. he demands respect n says all the probs we have r all my fault. in his eyes i don't live up to my christian walk as i should, because i'm always finding a way to offend him. he condemns my walk with christ. looses his temper screams n yells stinging my heart without the slightest care in the world how it's affecting me. he says i'm creating stumbling blocks before him causing him to sin by losing his temper by the way i use my words it doesn't matter if i'm talking to him or someone else on the phone. i can't be myself anymore when he's here. i've often thought if silent treatment would be better n speak only when spoken to. u see i'm disabled nowhere to go no friends or family who believe me. my daughter seems to think her financial wellbeing to get him to supply needs she has when broke is more important then her mom. he's only her step dad. please i really need some help here. thanx

2007-03-13 08:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by ashlee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know there's obviously all sorts of different costs for a wedding, but a regular Catholic wedding and a regular reception (open bar of course!) what would that run a person?

2007-03-13 08:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by bighurlz 2 in Weddings

why ex-mother in-law would hold important info when childrens father just had brain surgery and could have died.

2007-03-13 08:32:54 · 3 answers · asked by common sense 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

someone asked me if i knew what it ment when someone scartches the palm of your hand and i didnt know
anyone know?!?!?

2007-03-13 08:32:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 08:32:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son is 4 and in my eyes he is an angel.
I am married to her son ,how could she be so rude.
how do i handle this ? I am very upset with her.

2007-03-13 08:32:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-13 08:32:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me & my gal both think tht we should end our relationship coz my Gf always & always do things and says tht hurts me like hell.... everytime time i give her a chance 2 improve but then the same things happen... so we talked & though she said she do luv me, we decided to call it off.... (we havent yet broked-off but thinking to soon).

Now, i cant live with her under any circustances AND also cant live without her....

SCREWED - What 2 do?
(Relationship is less than a year old - but she was my best friend B4)

2007-03-13 08:31:37 · 3 answers · asked by jack frost 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i had intercourse, he wore a condom, and the condom dissapeared...why didn't he say anything? why did i have to be the one to find out myself that it came off inside of my down there? why didn't he say "i think it fell off inside of you"

2007-03-13 08:31:36 · 2 answers · asked by US 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of stuff do you do and what things did you do when you first met them?

2007-03-13 08:30:47 · 8 answers · asked by Eva L 2 in Singles & Dating

i hav a new frend, this guy d 1st time i saw him after sayin hello in a mail, he hides behind a pillar when he saw me..then few days later he sees me goin into a minimart n his frends push him in 2 c me. he staright walks in n never turns 2 c me even though im standin there. he is blushing...he ignores me n walks out after standin at d counter 5 mins wandering wat 2 buy. then d nex day i meet him at a restaurant ...apprently i was talkin 2 my frend oppisite this guy. he never saw me or aknowledged me at all d entire time. but he was blushing a little. he is always with his frends when he goes 4 classes n he is quiet when he sees me...is he avoiding me or does he want something from me or does he like me?he is a very quiet, reserved n does not talk 2 girls n always with his frends. i hav a feeling tat he lied 2 me when i asked bout having a gf. he didnt say yes or no n he said kinda...so pls help m

2007-03-13 08:30:44 · 5 answers · asked by confused mind 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean like my girl friend she broke up with me and i don't even care.

2007-03-13 08:30:22 · 9 answers · asked by jackson 1 in Singles & Dating

god i feel like i'm dying...

2007-03-13 08:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by mica 3 in Singles & Dating

She's turning 13 this year and I'm having trouble finding the perfect gift for her... any ideas??

2007-03-13 08:29:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-13 08:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by prettyqq 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and im not a bad gurl at ALL and people are telling me to do something DIRTY thats not who i am

2007-03-13 08:29:00 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle A 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to marriage counsling with my husband a couple of times and we still have the same problems. He's controlling in some aspects and I've been single for so long running my own household that I do have control issues as well. He is so critical of eveything I do or say and has to twist my words ALL THE TIME! He won't let things go, he brings up the same fights all the time over-and-over. IT's ExaustinG! I'm trying to be a supportive person but he is always so negative. He thinks I need medication because I'm moody and he can't tell who I am from day to day. Iv'e stopped responding to his negative comments(the counsler helped me with that) and I see a little progress in myself. My husband use to be on PROZAC before I met him and his Father is on Prozac because if he isn't he's a nightmare. I think he needs medication for his irrational thinking and he thinks I should be on it. What would you recommend me taking? i admit to having mood swings! Help unhappily married

2007-03-13 08:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 08:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my x and i are working things out and are working on getting back together so far everything is good between
this is our 3rd on working things out
and today is her birthday
what should i get her for a gift
(some details about her, she artsy and is into art and writing)
but pretty much will love any gift
please help me out

thanks

2007-03-13 08:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having trouble understanding what it is that I can't give my fiancee. We have had our share of problems like any couple, with exception of the last 2 months which have been great (like when we first started dating, but with the positive of being in an already matured relationship). We've even been looking for houses together and talking about wedding plans, mutually. I went to her house the other day and we were having a good time (I thought), but when I kissed her goodbye, she seemed preoccupied in thought so I asked her what was on her mind. She told me that she thinks that we should go back to being friends. She feels that she might be missing something by being with me. She says that she's been noticing other guys and just wondering 'what if' thoughts. I'm not the jealous type. I told her I've had those thoughts too. That's natural with something as big and dramatic as marriage. But I told her to also ask herself if she leaves, she might have the what if's about staying...

2007-03-13 08:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by mac 1 in Singles & Dating

In school people call me white offensive names all the time and I try not to care. But when I called a Girl (that called me white offensive names)(and was my friend) Short, now she is not speaking to me it is not right.(opinion)

2007-03-13 08:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by brzymontero 1 in Friends

Was it an offer of an4l or did she just want me to paint her door..??

2007-03-13 08:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by spy1ke 1 in Singles & Dating

See my boyfriend and i were on our bus when these two girls behind us said that this other girl liked him.(he used to like that girl) And i saw his face it was all happy. Then im like well she likes you and you like her then im breaking up with you. Now he texted me and calls me and say that he dosent like her and that he likes me. He said that he smiled cuz he was suprised so what should i do now?

2007-03-13 08:27:09 · 19 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, so here's my dilemma. my sweet 16th birthday party is coming up and i really want it to be special..i recently changed schools, so i have friends from 2 different schools to invite..dat means alot of ppl ..but also..i want to keep a low budget and not have anything too extravagant like renting a huge hall..but something decent and a fun experience..how am i gunna do this? i was thinkin about having an outside party..since my bday is in the summer...sort of like a evening picnic that goes into the night..and in the night the "dancing" part wud start...help anyone?

2007-03-13 08:26:32 · 12 answers · asked by needanswers21 1 in Friends

so my ex that i dated for 2 1/2 yrs and i have been getting quite close lately though she has a bf. In her words, she's daint me on the side first without commitments to see if a relationship w/ me would work again an pretty much is cheating on her bf. can this situation possibly work out in my favor? i dont want her to think she can do this forever...i'll give this a month or 2 and then ask her to make a decision...does that sound good? i just don't want to share her like this. In the mean time, she still says we're in love and stuff and complains about her bf but she is still with him. should i try hard to win her over in this time? cuz her bf, he doesn't do anything for her ...ever. i just dont want her to think that things can stay like this forever.

2007-03-13 08:25:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced since October "06". My ex had an affair & wouldn't give up the girlfriend so I divorced him. He has since called & wanted to come over a few times (which he has). He's not implied getting back together but my question is.....If I quit calling him or taking his calls..will he start wondering & get a little curious? Is it true eventually ex's do call down the road?

2007-03-13 08:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by !Sweetie! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 08:24:43 · 14 answers · asked by Ms Manic 1 in Singles & Dating

he beat me and know my baby is go he lock s me in his room

2007-03-13 08:24:27 · 7 answers · asked by hotone 1 in Family