god i feel like i'm dying...
2007-03-13 08:29:34 · 18 answers · asked by mica 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time....
Time and forgiving
and remembering that if time heals all wounds it also wounds all heels.
2007-03-13 08:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel really terrible now, but time does heal a broken heart. And just try finding friends. Most broken hearts end up being for the best anyway. There is no need to do anything drastic. Just be yourself and you will meet that special guy. Good luck.
2007-03-13 15:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jan C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to take your mind off your sorrow. Look around your neighborhood - are there any elderly neighbors who could use some help - shoveling snow, raking leaves, running errands? Could any young mothers use a babysitter? Any neighbors need a pet sitter/dog walker? Go volunteer at the local animal shelter or hospital/hospice. Doing things for others will not only take your mind off your sorrow but it will make you feel better about yourself. You could join a book club at the local library or book store, or join an athletic group (volleyball is a lot of fun). Ask your mom if she needs help cleaning, offer to clean one specific room from top to bottom (or the attic to see what treasures you will find, or the basement to see what treasures you will find). Good luck and God Bless.
P.S. Time really does heal a broken heart.
2007-03-13 15:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time...... go have fun with your friends! Just know that life goes on and you have a new adventure coming in life....it will be alot of fun! Everything happens for a reason so....try no think about it too much, it will only make it worse. Just think...his loss. Also, he will call you, crawling back one day. Maybe not soon...maybe a year from now. But he will. trust me, they always come back. But hopefully by then you've moved on and you can laugh in his face and say you had your chance. You deserve only the best! He got rid of you ...so he doesnt deserve it....but he will realize it after a while..... there are plenty of people to make you laugh and smile. Just gotta be around the right ones! You will have many more heart breaks, and will break many hearts...its life. You just date to get to know what you like in a person... Anything that doesnt kill you makes you stronger! Remember that, ok...Good luck
2007-03-13 15:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time.
Cliche' as it sounds, it takes time...it WILL heal if you let it though, so do the grieving you feel you need to do, then get back into life and move on.
It's normal and natural to feel sad, but don't spend too much timing pining over someone who wasn't a good match for you or who no longer wanted to be with you...this life is too short not to make every day the best we can...
Good luck sweetie...may your heart heal quickly!
2007-03-13 15:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl! You are sooo RIGHT! Why does it feel like that? Like your heart is being squeezed you fear it may BURST! You look behind you in the mirror SWEARING there MUST be a knife through your back JAMMED right into your heart!!!! Your brain is in so much pain with all the good memories...how can you EVER get over him/her?!!! And it's even WORSE if you have kids...no, it's the same if you were "in love"...the pain, the pain! How to get through this?!
1. Go to the movie rental store near you! Rent The Break Up, (this one will get you crying good and hard!) take your time after watching this one...get it all out! Vent! It's the BEST form of medicine at this point.
2. Next watch: Pride n Prejudice, Sliding Doors, a lot like Love, Must Love Dogs...ALL these will give you HOPE!
3. Call your friends up...meet at a coffee shop! Talk about your feelings...accept that he/she wasn't your "soul mate"! Acceptance is the 1st step towards freedom of pain. Your soul mate would NEVER have _____. You fill in the blank. If "he left you", "cheated on you", etc.
4. Get your friends to call you each day to say something positive about YOU & how your going to make it through this!
5. Go see a new release...something upbeat!
6. It's time to move forward. Accept a date with the girls to go out!
7. Get a number...ONLY ONE...make it count! New friend or new guy...either will do! I came home with a new girl friend...no not gay...another girl who just broke up with a loser & needed me as much as I needed her. We've been friends for 10+ yrs now! I fixed her up with my xbil...they've been married for 7+ yrs with a pretty daughter who turned 5 recently. We were able to help each other through a bad break up. She was there for me through my last divorce as well as helped me get over my 1st divorce.
Hope this helps! You can email me...I will let you vent, cry, get better! I went through it not so long ago...my life is MUCH better withOUT him! Good luck!
2007-03-13 15:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to move forward with your life. Your life is worth living & i am sure that there are many around you who care for you no matter what you're going through.
Maybe take a break from everything..... indulge yourself in your favorite hobby.... take a trip somewhere. Enjoy life!
Broken hearts are just one of those things in life that can't really be avoided. Use it as a learning experience & live your life to the fullest.
Best wishes & best of luck to you!
2007-03-13 15:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will be okay...trust me you will get thru this. Just try to surround yourself with people who love you. KEEP BUSY!!! And last but not least let time do it's thing. Only time will heal a broken heart
2007-03-13 15:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes months to get over, and it feels like it will NEVER end! It takes time. There is nothing else you can do. If you can take a vacation, how about going somewhere exotic, that you can have a great time para sailing, hiking, biking, whatever, just to prove to yourself that life does go on, and there are still exciting things to do in the world!
2007-03-13 15:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sooo sorry honey. I feel bad for you, but you will be ok. I've been through hearbreak and even though it feels like the pain will never end.. it will. One day you will wake up and just not care anymore. You will bounce back as a stronger person in the end. So just try to stay busy and meet new guys.
2007-03-13 15:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Eva L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋