Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

Hi Ulster Boy. English girl here. I have a problem that maybe you can help me with. Im totally in love with my boss whos from N.I. We had a fling for 3 months which was soooo lovely. We are really good friends now. But I want more, and I think he will too soon. What can I do or say to win him back???

2007-03-13 08:40:20 · 3 answers · asked by Ms Manic 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well, I'm getting pretty aggravated here. Every time a guy goes to kiss me I freak out & find a way to just not do it. I get really nervous and don't know exactly why it's so much. I know the easy answer would be to just do it, but I can't bring myself to it & need some info. Is there a way to "kiss wrong"? Or right? DETAILS FOR BOTH PLEASE =].

2007-03-13 08:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How will i know when my boyfriend wants me to go somewhere with him?

2007-03-13 08:40:02 · 6 answers · asked by ana3 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a follow up to what i wrote yesterday, for those of you with teens!! my friends daughter has now stolen her car!!! get this, police wont do anything, said she is family member,even though she's only 15,has no dl.and did not have permission to take car!! it's no wonder teens are running amuck.Everything she does they say,we cant do anything. ive never heard of such bull!!! Police are giving this teen the upper hand in everything.There has to be something they can do? How can they just let a 15 yr. old kid do whatever she wants?No wonder our kids are so lost, they can do what they want w/ no consequences. and believe me, her mom has tried &tried to do whats right for her daughter.But what can she do when she gets no backup from the police! Are there any law enforcement personel out there that can give her advice?

2007-03-13 08:39:36 · 1 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend moved to australia a year ago and has been wanting me to move over.we have been together for 5 years and i love him and want to be with him but i dont know if i want to leave my family has anyone any advise

2007-03-13 08:39:34 · 10 answers · asked by xxxalanaxxx2006 1 in Singles & Dating

do men really dig the stick thin look aka nicole richie aka anorhexic ???or do you like girls that wont break in a strong wind? or athletic - or the burger king regulars? just wondering

2007-03-13 08:39:22 · 10 answers · asked by Aldabella 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 08:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this really hot girl in my class and i really like her but i am not so sure she likes me back. A lot of the time when i look at her she is usually staring at me. She doesn't act different around me though. Sometimes she will come and sit next to me so we are touching or she will stand next to me so we touch. She doesn't talk to me much and when she does the conversation is very short. Could someone please tell me what they think.

2007-03-13 08:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by 444444 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm from Asia& just got married early this year.I met my husband online back in 2004&first met him in March,2006 (in person),met him twice last year.We felt comfortable w/each other since we've been talking to each other EVERYDAY since 2004 (if you've experienced this type of relationship, you'd know how I feel).He proposed to me when we first met each other(he flew all the way to Asia).I came to the US on Jan. 2007&was very happy.Everything was wonderful but starting from 2weeks ago, I started getting jealous of his past GF #1 after she dropped him a call.He tells me to put it behind and that he loves me more than anything. But yesterday, I was on the computer and was looking at his logs(from messengers)& I read this msg w/his ex-GF#2 and they were talking dirty&obviously they've met and this was dated 4 months before we met,yes they've done u-know-what.I saw in his eyes that he was very sorry about it for not telling me but I am very upset.We love each other alot but this bothers me

2007-03-13 08:38:54 · 14 answers · asked by gurlielash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14 and i weigh 114lbs and I'm only 5'1! how can i loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends.

Thank You

2007-03-13 08:38:42 · 11 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are super shy and i know from sources that he wants to kiss me and i want to kiss him but we are WAY TO SHY to even try what can i do!!!???!!!??? Oh and we have kissed before on a dare,and were 13 and 14

2007-03-13 08:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by Jazmin 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok the other night I searched and found an old boyfriend's e-mail. We haven't seen each other in like 4 years. We split because I went back to my ex.....stupid choice. He was tourching us and I was just scared so I went back. I really did hurt this guy but he knew why.

I have never gotten over this from day 1. He was the best thing ever to happen to me. We really loved each other alot.

I sent him a e-mail sunday..after years of working up nerve. I just let him know how sorry I was and how I feel and just kinda made myself feel better. I thought it was something I need to do for myself to hopefully get over it. My ex and I are no longer together.

Now I feel like I probably shouldn't of done that and he has never replied and I am sure he got the e-mail. My friend says no response is a good thing that thats keeping things left open and maybe he is with someone. I just feel crazy!!!!

Did I do make a idiot of myself?
What would you do if you u got an e-mail like that?

2007-03-13 08:38:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on a 25th wedding anniversary gift for a couple? Either funny or sappy is fine, but I would prefer something creative. It is for my husband's parents.

2007-03-13 08:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by tmac 5 in Family

Ok. So, me aand my bf have been dating for over a month now. Everything has been fine. He's 5 years older then me and has a child but had to move back in with his parents last year. Now, I have been over his house a number of times but in the past few weeks his mom just doesn't want me over his house. Either she thinks we have been moving too fast or she is afraid of having anotehr grandchild or something.

His parents, and the baby's parents take care of the baby too. I don't understand how she would like me in the beginning but now it seems like she doesn't. My bf tells me that she does like me and it is just that she is being a b*tch this weekend. Maybe his mom thinks that we moved too fast or something. I don't know.

2007-03-13 08:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family

I'm from Asia& just got married early this year.I met my husband online back in 2004&first met him in March,2006 (in person),met him twice last year.We felt comfortable w/each other since we've been talking to each other EVERYDAY since 2004 (if you've experienced this type of relationship, you'd know how I feel).He proposed to me when we first met each other(he flew all the way to Asia).I came to the US on Jan. 2007&was very happy.Everything was wonderful but starting from 2weeks ago, I started getting jealous of his past GF #1 after she dropped him a call.He tells me to put it behind and that he loves me more than anything. But yesterday, I was on the computer and was looking at his logs(from messengers)& I read this msg w/his ex-GF#2 and they were talking dirty&obviously they've met and this was dated 4 months before we met,yes they've done u-know-what.I saw in his eyes that he was very sorry about it for not telling me but I am very upset.We love each other alot but this bothers me

2007-03-13 08:37:35 · 14 answers · asked by gurlielash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is two brothers one is 26 and the other is 19 and they both have feelings for me i'm 16 i like them both alot but on the other side i have a boyfriend that i also like alot. --Erica

2007-03-13 08:37:15 · 4 answers · asked by *+Sarah+* 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 4 years and have only broken up twice. But he tells me he loves me than a month or so later he feels 50/50 on the situation and he wants to back off. I am just so tired, but I really do love him.

2007-03-13 08:36:34 · 17 answers · asked by capricorn04 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 08:36:30 · 3 answers · asked by Tajuana 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some heartfelt songs. I have a few that has meant alot to us over the years but I need some more thats kinda sappy and meaningful. I am making a CD collection of songs to give to all the guest at her party.

2007-03-13 08:36:23 · 4 answers · asked by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

..we dont see eachother that often or dont know eachother that well but whenever i see him he's always trying to act funny and strike up random conversations out of nowhere. and he always notices me. why? is he just a nice person. what do you think?

2007-03-13 08:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't get to seem to make him talk more freely to me. I'm on the shy side too when it comes to someone I haven't known for a long time, but I know he's got it in him. He's crazy around his guy friends, but when he's with me it just seems like there's nothing to talk about. And when we're on the phone it's REALLY awkward because there's complete silence for minutes at a time. Any ideas?

2007-03-13 08:35:39 · 12 answers · asked by Fizzed 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Aunt, Uncle and their two children never seem to have time to join the rest of the family in certain events, say oh like..birthday parties. They missed my wifes because of Tae Kwon Do class, they missed my Aunts because of a movie at a church. They are missing mine because of Tae Kwon do Class. And they are going to miss my Grandfather and my sons because of Tae Kwon do testing.
YES My Uncle has Money and his own business, He has done LOTS FOR ME. He has given me a job. He gave me $1000 one christmas, and My Aunt told me I shouldn't be complaining because I know that If I was ever in a bind they would be there for me in a heartbeat.
Am I asking too much, for them to participate in FAMILY celebrations??
Who is wrong here???
My mom is so angry with them she was crying on the phone today
HELP

2007-03-13 08:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by brian_d_long2006 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright so anyway what would you do with 1 million dollars who ever states the longest and most entertaining answer will be choosen.

2007-03-13 08:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-13 08:35:14 · 8 answers · asked by sgsingle2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 08:34:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me n my boyfriend have been 2getha 4 bout 2 1/2yrs n he is a Great guy! We were the best of friends b4 our relationship and still are. But Because of previous trust issues in past relationships, i must admit that I have an issue with trust. Deep inside, i don't feel he's cheatin on me, but cuz i've been hurt so much in the past, i have an issue with trust n he n i have discussed that so for some reason, everytime we have a disagreement and want to talk about it, he says its cuz I Don't Trust him. I feel I trust him but you know how us girls always says lil slick things bout other women and things of that sort. I don't really mean it though. I don't DO things to show him I don't trust him. Well, we had an argument 2day n he gave me back my keys to my house n car. I don't wanna lose him cuz i feel we were made 4 each other but he just gets so stubborn n arrogant at times til I don't no how 2 deal with him. We were getting ready 2 plan our lives 2getha, Get married. HELP ME!

2007-03-13 08:34:22 · 19 answers · asked by KNicety 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 08:34:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not much conversation and i'm okay with that but should i find it odd because he does show me love and we do get along great but during sex he shows his heart and deeper side of him. is this normal or not?

2007-03-13 08:33:52 · 5 answers · asked by Snickerlicious 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl visited here from England. She is 18 and I like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her since she has left( it will be a month in a few days). When I first saw her I didnt think much of her because I knew she smoked and at first she didnt seem attractive to me. She wanted me to come with her though so to be nice I went( we went to New York). That day changed my life. From then on I always wanted to be with her going over to see her as much as possible because she would be leaving in a few weeks. When we talk she smiles and laughs, she talked about some things you wouldnt normally tell someone you just met, she mentioned a exboyfriend( do you think it was to let me know she doesnt have one?), we always had fun together just talking to each other. It was so much fun just being with her. I felt like we could just talk for hours( sometimes we would). We have so much in common. She had asked me to go to the movies with her that first day we met, but with other things happening

2007-03-13 08:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating

she tried she failed but now will not admit defeat the affair is over it is the second time she has done this to me he came back each time have i not been through enough no it seems she is still trying to destroy me any advice

2007-03-13 08:33:48 · 43 answers · asked by catherine m 1 in Marriage & Divorce