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Question

This girl visited here from England. She is 18 and I like her alot. I cannot stop thinking about her since she has left( it will be a month in a few days). When I first saw her I didnt think much of her because I knew she smoked and at first she didnt seem attractive to me. She wanted me to come with her though so to be nice I went( we went to New York). That day changed my life. From then on I always wanted to be with her going over to see her as much as possible because she would be leaving in a few weeks. When we talk she smiles and laughs, she talked about some things you wouldnt normally tell someone you just met, she mentioned a exboyfriend( do you think it was to let me know she doesnt have one?), we always had fun together just talking to each other. It was so much fun just being with her. I felt like we could just talk for hours( sometimes we would). We have so much in common. She had asked me to go to the movies with her that first day we met, but with other things happening

we never got a chance to go. We never really had a chance to be alone. The night before she left when I thought it was the last ttime I'd see her she asked to come to see her when she left. When she left she hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek and said see you in the summer with a smile on her face. She had talked alot about how we will see eachother in the summer again, but it will be in Italy not America or England. She left with us being at least good friends. I have never been this close with any girl before and it is also the first time I have ever felt this way about someone before. What do I do when I see her again? I was going to try to bring up when we tak again in the summer that I hope to be traveling around and maybe she will say that I should come to England. I would like that. There are so many more things I can say, but it will take to long. Please help me.

Answer 1

Keep in touch with her, keep knowing her, learnign what she does in her country, you too tell her what is up in your life nad be honest, Make this exerience of being far away to your gain, without being physical, you really can become the best of friends and know more about each other. And if everything goes well you guys can even plan a round trip around Europe. Don´t pressure things, you may realize she is not that awsome or that she is the one, but don´t think much of the future, enjoy what you have now, a wonderful girl who probably thinks about you too, and keep in touch email, chat, phone, send letters the old fashion way, etc, you guys can grow a lot even on the distance, but let´s be real don´t talk about commitment just yet, it is too soon and too hard, but keep a nice relationship, honest, and you´ll see what the future may bring.

Answer 2

Wow...you sound so excited about her. I think that's very cool cuz what you're feeling can be so amazing. Now, just remember feelings are not the only part of a relationship. Trust me, i learned the hard way. I think it's great u are so attracted to this girl. Be up front and reveal your feelings---only if u think it won't hurt the friendship tho. If now is not the right time, i say focus on continuing to build a solid and caring friendship and see how your feelings develop. Right now u feel so "in love" but perhaps it's infatuation which can be really intense too and there's nothing wrong with feeling that initial attraction, just don't get overwhelmed and lose your head. Try to think before you speak and act as you choose each next step with her. Good luck

Answer 3

Wow! What a mess... and you sound like you really like her. I know it is hard w/ long distance relationships, but I would ask for her number or address, so you can at least keep in touch over the phone or through the mail. Once your relationship develops further, then maybe one of you will move, and you may end up being together. Hope I helped! :-)

Answer 4

I would say that you have a crush but, honestly, there's not much nope for a long term relationship. Long distance relationships are hard, you spend a lot of time and money on long distance calls but you can't really be with each other.

Answer 5

Long distance relationships are hard to make last.

Answer 6

Whats your question? Mabey i missed it, cos i skimmed, but anyway......
I really dont think i can answer your question. I dont think that long distance realtionships are good....

Answer 7

Why didn't you finish your story........ You never really asked a question

Answer 8

man if you feel for her go 100% simple as that.