okay well, I'm getting pretty aggravated here. Every time a guy goes to kiss me I freak out & find a way to just not do it. I get really nervous and don't know exactly why it's so much. I know the easy answer would be to just do it, but I can't bring myself to it & need some info. Is there a way to "kiss wrong"? Or right? DETAILS FOR BOTH PLEASE =].
2007-03-13 08:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it bugs you, then don't do it...when you're ready then you'll be kewl with it...
Kissing style is an individual thing...there is no "right" or "wrong" per se, but some people have ways they like it better than other ways...always safe to go with the flow and follow the lead of the person kissing you...if you don't like the way he kisses then either stop the kiss, or try to redirect it to a style that you prefer (although that does take a bit of experience).
2007-03-13 08:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the scariest thing in relationships is to admit fear and/or nervousness. But often times, if you just say, "I've never done this before," that can make it a lot easier.
There really isn't a wrong way to kiss. I remember my first kiss was with a girl who had kissed a few times before, and she said I kissed great.
Don't be afraid to smile during a kiss. It's a happy thing and smiling while kissing can be a great deal of fun. Just let it happen. It's a very natural thing.
2007-03-13 15:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it is someone you feel comfortable with than you will not get like that. Dont rush into anything you dont feel comfortable with. The time will come and it will be perfect! Make it special...... there is no right or wrong way...it comes natural, trust me. Just go with the flow....there are good and bad kissers.... but if you are kissing someone you really like, then your kisses should mesh well! Everything will just happen naturally. Give it time to be someone you care for! Good luck
2007-03-13 15:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to kiss wrong, people all kiss differently. So I wouldn't worry to much about it. The time will come when you want to actually kiss someone.
2007-03-13 15:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by phantomdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like that with my last boyfriend and it just ended us becasue of that simple little thing that I didn't want to do. Just do it for reals or else you might not get what you want in the end. You can't really know what's wrong or right until you experience it more than once...so you just have to go along with it. u never know. in the end you might be a hell of a kisser!!
2007-03-13 15:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Nina_Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never be right or wrong in kssing. someone can love the way you kiss and another person hate the same kiss. it's easier when you ask a guy the way he likes it as a mature adult in such a situation but if you're a kid don't even do it.
2007-03-13 15:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by butterflyinlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax maybe you don't want your first kiss to be with that particular person. You will know when it feels right and just go with the feelings that you are having for that person. Everything will come naturally.
2007-03-13 15:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by josified 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres several ways of kissing wrong : putting your toung down his throat, pouring your saliva into his mouth and bumping against each others teeth. there are lots of other nasty accidents with kissing, just use your imagination.
my advice to you is to start out very light, lighly peck his lips, open your mouth and very gently and lighly touch his toung with yours, just be very innocent. gradually as you kiss more often you will be curious and confident and you will want to explore, and then your desire will do the rest for you.
its very sexy to just peck on the lips and stroke his hair or his neck. if you dont want to do all the toung action then just focus on this body, touch it while giving soft little slow pecks on his lips, cheeks, neck etc.
*practice on your knee :)
*on a door
*on palm
*on a friend.. etc ;)
2007-03-13 15:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by babycake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he opens his mouth and you can feel your nose in his mouth, then pass him up. If your face is wet after kissing then pass him up too. Look for soft lips on a man, who moves real soft when kissing. Good luck.
2007-03-13 15:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no wrong or right kissing, jus pratice in ur room with ur hand or the mirror haha, dnt b nervous b/c it's usually hard to kiss bad
2007-03-13 15:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋