i like this guy and im not a bad gurl at ALL and people are telling me to do something DIRTY thats not who i am
2007-03-13 08:29:00 · 3 answers · asked by Danielle A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to stand your ground and tell them something like "I know I'm probably old-fashioned and all, but my view on sex is based on my desire to not cheapen the experience, but to save myself for someone I truly love, hopefully within a marriage, and also for other reasons including (fill in the blanks)." Then if he argues, say something like: "If your friends are all jumping off a cliff, do you join them or do you do the right thing by not jumping?"
Most guys will understand your point of view even if they are disappointed. This has the added bonus of allowing you to identify those guys around you with good morals who could possibly be good boyfriend candidates; the kind that just want you to get dirty will not respect you in the long run, but will use you. Let them ruin someone else's life.
2007-03-13 09:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD GIRL DANIELLE! It is about time to hear from a girl who has some self respect, you just be yourself and if he doesn't notice you it will be a huge loss for him.
2007-03-13 15:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me
2007-03-13 15:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by JAMES THE PUNISHER 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋