Family & Relationships - 12 March 2007

are shy, and have a rough guy kind of exterior, but inside is a really nice, sweat, guy that would die for his woman?...and hes a grade ahead of you???

2007-03-12 08:46:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation... this girl finds my profile on MySpace and sends me a message. I talk to her on there for a while, and she seems pretty cool, and she asks me to call her.

I make the call, I chat with her, everything is fun... she's really into me and "loves my voice" and all that. After about a week, she wants to meet up... and is telling me that she's "falling for me".

I offer to take her out to dinner somewhere nice, or to a movie, and then take her home, but she decides she'd rather just rent a movie and hang out at my place for a while.

I agree to this, but tell her that I do not kiss on the first date, as a rule.

We come together and watch a movie, and, well, she makes me break my rule. A lot. We end up going all the way... I was okay with it I guess.

2 days later I learn that she has spent the night with her ex-boyfriend. She calls me to apologize and tells me she wants to be with me instead of him. I flat out deny her and vow never to talk again...

2007-03-12 08:45:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend that is a recovered alcoholic. I love him very much but he became so judgmental since he joint AA, every time I have a drink he make comments like “are you sure you want that second glass of chardonnay? “ or “don you think you already had enough?” I don’t have a drinking problem, I never get wasted and never drink more than a glass of wine during the week, so I don’t think I should be judge. What can I do, I want to be supportive of him and his struggle but at the same time I want to tell him to go to hell.

2007-03-12 08:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by rickyhunter 4 in Friends

my husband doesnt talk to me much in the public on vacation.he talks with me at home we hav a graet sex life at home but not outside the home means we dont have sex on vacations. he satres other bikni women on beach and he plays with our 2 yrs old child but he doesnt talk to me. i m good looking . he gets angry on everything i say he stares his sis very badly. it hurts me. i had talked to him about this matter but he abused me verbally and said that he will never go out with me. i m confused what should i do and wats going on?

2007-03-12 08:45:28 · 18 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it the excitement of cheating or the attitude of you only live once?
I cant figure it out?

2007-03-12 08:45:17 · 18 answers · asked by Cathy L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

who ever has the most gets best answer

2007-03-12 08:45:15 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Kala♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

or get hit on by girl more or something? What about the fact that you know he can always find a new girl quickly? Does it make you insecure or jealous?

2007-03-12 08:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was new, then old ,now older but known.....

2007-03-12 08:43:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl who likes me asked me if i was ticklish. i said no. she tried to, but only for a second and i ignored it. then i laughed and told her what did i tell you? big problem though. my big sister who's in college had a friend of hers over and the friend is hot! anyway, she told the girl with me that she never met a guy she couldn't tickle. she says to watch out, because when i least expect it, she's gonna tickle the crap out of me. will she get me do you think?

2007-03-12 08:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by GlamRocked 1 in Singles & Dating

I am person who do not talk much, so when i went into high school, i talked to people in order to make some new friends. But day after day, after so much bad events like grades decreasing, so i quit concert band, i am so stress that i started to skip school, causng my grade to be even lower, horrible than C classes even though I'm in an A class. So i might as well stay at home. Therefore my interact with friends get lower and lower, I even treat some people whom i talk or friends with like transparent, walk pass them like nothing happen. I really did want to talk to them, but i am just so stress that I can't find any event to talk to them.. I am lack of motivation, even though I had motivation i suddenly think of, it will just be temporary and I will lack of motivation again.. So now I had fewer friends and what horrifying is that I used to think it is OK to be that way! I am really confused, I do not know what to do. So how can i get really motivated again and get into the right path?

2007-03-12 08:43:01 · 3 answers · asked by SKyLaR 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

She really did it, bit now she is sad, wat should I do?

2007-03-12 08:42:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 18 yrs old, the person said i was good in bed should i tell him i was a virgin or just leave it alone

2007-03-12 08:42:41 · 12 answers · asked by kadeah 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i get over a guy i loved for 2 years? it's so hard. when i think i don't love him anymore, i always dream about him and think about him. and it doesn't help that he has a muscular body and is gorgeous.

2007-03-12 08:42:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems that no one takes the commitment of marriage seriously anymore and its become far too commonplace to just quit and get a divorce. What do you think? Do you think that its no longer worth it to become emotionally involved with someone knowing that even if you do marry, it most likely won't last?

2007-03-12 08:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A good friend of mine was molested by two of her cousins when she was young, both of which are several years older (the younger of the two is 6 years older). It may have been three. She is not sure of exactly when it happened or exactly WHAT happened for that matter, but she does know that she was between the ages of 5 and 11 years old. She has never told anyone but me, but I think she needs to tell SOMEONE. She will be 19 this year, and had it not been for the two of them, she would still be a virgin. She told me that she feels responsible, because they would make her act sexually with them in return for things she could not do herself (i.e. cooking), and she agreed and actively participated. What can we do to get this off of her mind?

2007-03-12 08:42:02 · 14 answers · asked by kdd_angel 3 in Singles & Dating

Long story/question--- I met my ex here where I live because he was visiting from Miami (about 3 hours from where I live). He stayed up here at his cousin's house for 3 weeks. I met him the 1st day he got here, we started going out for days later April 25th or 26th (one of those).When it was time for him to leave 3 weeks later we knew we were going to have a long distance relationship. which from the beggining i told him it wasnt going to work out but I decided to try it. 2 weeks after him going back over there he cheated on me several times and i didnt find out until July 1st...I was devasted and I still am. we stopped talking for a little while but then he started calling me again in the middle of august. He asked me if I would give him another chance.we got back together in September.on 02/28 I find out he slept with a gurl and he told me he just found out she's 4months preg. Today I find out he moved in w/her. He still wants to be friends. Im not strong enough what should i do?

2007-03-12 08:41:40 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend likes my boyfriend! Me and her liked him together and we would giggle about him (a year ago in April 2006). It was really fun. She has liked him for five years and I have liked him for four 1/2. (we are 14). The thing is we three (me, her, my bf) were all friends then...we would all hang out and talk and stuff...but then I started wanting something more w/ him and my friend wasn't doing anything to show her interest in him--so I started flirting a lot with him and he flirted majorly back. And then we started going out and being bf/gf a few months ago. The thing is we three don't hang out anymore (we were in drama together not this year though) and my bf is coming to my drama rehearsals tomorrow...where my friend will be and I know it will hurt her b/c me and him will be hanging out and I know he doesn't like her more than a friend b/c shes not his type and she's a little chunky...help! What can I do so she doesn't find out that he is my bf?!?!

2007-03-12 08:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Singles & Dating

We can't afford to have dancing at our reception and we are not throwing the bouquet or garter belt, because all or our guest are married or have singinficat others. We are serving a sit down dinner and wedding cake and having the toast. What are some of the other ideas that we could do for our reception. We are having about 50 guest total... Any Suggestions? Plus our reception is in a small Greek Restuarant in the banquet room.

2007-03-12 08:40:37 · 8 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Weddings

We can't afford to have dancing at our reception and we are not throwing the bouquet or garter belt, because all or our guest are married or have singinficat others. We are serving a sit down dinner and wedding cake and having the toast. What are some of the other ideas that we could do for our reception. We are having about 50 guest total... Any Suggestions? Plus our reception is in a small Greek Restuarant in the banquet room.

2007-03-12 08:39:58 · 4 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 6 months on the 20th of this month and we will be leaving each other in september going off to college. I really LOVE him but i feel as though we need to be apart because i don't want him to miss out on all life has to offer. I feel i will be hurting him a lot but i just don't know wats best.

2007-03-12 08:39:49 · 6 answers · asked by balla32 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, why is that men always say that they tell women up front that they aren't looking for anything serious but then they start to call alot & spend a lot of time and then when the women starts to catch feelings & wants something more they don't understand why she feels that way. If all you're looking for is a casual affair then you shouldn't put in so much time & send kind emails or call for conversation so much. Why can't you only call when you want a date or a booty call? Why don't men understand that they are sending mixed signals when they spend a lot of time & act like they're enjoying a woman's company & then when she starts to express her feelings he doesn't want to hear it or be bothered with her anymore. It's always, I told you that I wasn't looking for anything serious. Why can't guys like that just stick to one night stands?

2007-03-12 08:39:46 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf just broke up with me the other day. How long did it take for the pain to go away from your experiences guys?

2007-03-12 08:39:24 · 12 answers · asked by Matt 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this male friend and recently he told me he liked me and that he wanted to know if he and i could persue something.i told him i was not sure about that so he didnt say much afterwards.anyway what puzzles me is he only contacts me a few times outta the month and i dont see how he can like me if he doesnt make more of an effort,we discussed it and he did a lil better for about a week then went back to his normal habits.i dont understand why he would tell me he likes me,when obviously its not true and why he would ask to be my b/f but yet cant make a better effor to stay in touch regularly.

2007-03-12 08:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

would you date someone who has a drug problem, smokes, drinks, no job, stays home alot, but was really really HOT...?

2007-03-12 08:39:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok...so my current relationship has me evaluating a lot cuz basically he's not nice---really mean and he has issues. It's not healthy. I am convinced i'd be happier in dating a Christian man and have a Christian realtionship---including being abstinent before marriage!!! But are there Christian men who both love Jesus and have an urban sense ( likes hip-hop, graffitti art, loves dancing, R & B, dresses urban/ghetto/thug)---this is what i'm attracted to.

2007-03-12 08:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by SUGAR 1 in Singles & Dating

what do youll think i should do. and another thing is that i only see her at school so how should i ask her

2007-03-12 08:37:59 · 7 answers · asked by shoaib a 1 in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for a couple of months now, and we have hung together a couple of times and we have had fun when we did hang out, but lately I'm starting to think she might be using me. When we do hang out she has offered to pay but I always pay because I think I should since I'm the guy. when she needed a ride to school I gave her a ride, when she needed cigarrets which I don't like when she smokes, but I bought her some. I have sent her two texts these past few days and I highly doubt she is busy all day every day, she hasn't returned my text to see if she wanted to hang out. I really like hanging out with her, but I'm starting to think she dosen't like to hang out with me that much. I'm tempted to just delete her number so that I can just move on from her, but I really like her and its really hard. What should I do? I'm hoping she calls or texts me back, but if she dosen't should I take a hint and just forget about her?

thanks

2007-03-12 08:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 14 years left us ( me and the kids). About 2 and a half years ago we had broken up. During that time he met another woman. They dated for 1 and a half years. He cheated on her with me a few times during their time together. She knew about it. Well a year ago he broke up with her and came back to me and the kids. It has been a year, and we even talked about marriage. He left me 2 months ago to go back to her. What kind of woman would take a man back after he had dumped you to go back to his family? And then he left his family again. She took him back no questions asked. Would you have taken him back?

2007-03-12 08:37:44 · 18 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-12 08:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

love

2007-03-12 08:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Robert G 1 in Singles & Dating